Prematur/early ejaculation

Quote by VirginalViet
Well I usually want lots of foreplay. He should give me orgasms with his tongue and fingers and stuff first. And kiss and tease my body a lot. If he comes before me well....then...haha in my book that's premature. I want him to be able to control himself for at least five minutes or more (inside my vagina) so I can ride him and get a good rhythm going. After I come it's okay if he comes quickly. Usually though I would like him to come at the same time if possible. That's so intense. If not, then I will stop and slowly begin to tease him. After my orgasm then I will make it my goal to please him and to tease him to a huge release.c2QknMxxO55lesnu IDK? Does that make sense?

Yes, it makes plenty of sense.

Premature for me is any time before I reach orgasm. After that, feel free. The old adage, "Ladies before gentlemen," applies.

Marathon sex is amazing if you have the right lover. Most guys, regretfully, just thrust and pump; there's so much to it than that. If a lover knows how to turn my mind on and how to play my body like a virtuoso plays their instrument , I can't get enough and will go until I pass out from exhaustion.

sometimes i cum before i even touch her body

Quote by bimale4strapongirl

sometimes I cum before i even touch her body

That is fast. Penis size follow a bell curve, meaning there are about as many guys one inch longer than average than one inch short. However, IVLT (Intra-Vaginal Latency Time, or in common language "stamina") does not. Since there are guys, like you, at or near zero, the "average" IVLT is lower than the median (50th percentile). A friend of mine, Carlos Menehune, wrote an interesting Ebook, "Modern Women/Inadequate Men: A look into their lives" on the topic. It is available on Amazon.

My husband will sometimes (but not always) cum very quickly, especially if we've had a lot of foreplay or he's real excited or aroused by something like watching me with one of our "friends" - or especially when he's getting sloppy seconds. 😋 Luckily he always follows through and makes sure I'm totally wrung out before he quits and is fine with a lot of après sex touching and oral. A guy that will go down on you when you're still horny and full of cum is a real treasure and I have some of my very best orgasms that way! There's something very special and loving about it and it feels so good.

So yeah guys if this happens to you please don't quit. There is still so much more you can do!

One of our male "friends" frequently cums very quickly, but he's also quick to be up for another round and then usually lasts a long time. He was embarrassed about it at first but I think he's okay now that he knows it's a marathon, not a sprint.

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My husband will sometimes (but not always) cum very quickly, especially if we've had a lot of foreplay or he's real excited or aroused by something like watching me with one of our "friends" - or especially when he's getting sloppy seconds. 😋 Luckily he always follows through and makes sure I'm totally wrung out before he quits and is fine with a lot of après sex touching and oral. A guy that will go down on you when you're still horny and full of cum is a real treasure and I have some of my very best orgasms that way! There's something very special and loving about it and it feels so good.

So yeah guys if this happens to you please don't quit. There is still so much more you can do!

One of our male "friends" frequently cums very quickly, but he's also quick to be up for another round and then usually lasts a long time. He was embarrassed about it at first but I think he's okay now that he knows it's a marathon, not a sprint.

I do love going down on my partner after cuming inside her, it is a great way to get ready for another round and she orgasms quickly when I do it.

There is a relatively easy solution to this issue. You can buy 4 or 5% lidocaine gel OTC. If you rub it into the head of his cock, give it a couple of minutes and then wipe all excess off (you don't want your vag to get numb) it will prevent his orgasm, no matter how hard and fast he pumps, for about 15 mins. Then his normal feeling will return and he can adjust his action as appropriate. I never really tolerated a quick shooter and would offer this as a solution, some accepted and some were like oh no you're not putting that on me. Their loss. NOTE: This is not medical advice! Just thoughts from experience. Do your due diligence.

I suppose premature is under a minute, but as a couple others have mentioned, that is not always a bad thing when he can go again. Plus sometimes, the quick orgasm he has makes me feel good that he is so excited for me. I clearly have a lot to learn about extended sex as I have never had a guy last 20+ minutes unless it was multiple times for him.

I totally agree with Naughty_Kailey. My wife thinks of it a complete compliment when I prematurely cum. In fact she gets upset sometimes if I don't. As a her cuckold husband I usually leave the penis in vagina sex to her lover. I always enjoy her orally and she loves that.

I’ve had guys that have come like in the first couple of thrusts, but they tend to last longer the second time round.