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Not sure if this has been done, but men were asked about pussy appearance ; o I wondered if women had a preference on the way a mans genitals look....cut/ uncut. Testicle size etc.
As far as the cut vs. uncut debate, I've only ever seen cut up close. But from pics, there's not much difference as far as aesthetics.

As far as my preference, I like good girth with a healthy looking tip. I also don't like it to be grotesque looking...all veiny and shit like that. Bleh. Size doesn't matter *much* as long as he's not ridiculously small and knows what to do with what he's got. I also like it to be proportionate to the balls. Speaking of balls, I don't like them to look like over sized, dried out peach pits fused together. I mean balls are ugly, there's no way around it. But I don't like when they're all floppy and shriveled and just completely unappealing. I also appreciate a little manscaping. Not completely shaven, but not all wild and hairy, either. Tame your fuzz, but don't eliminate it...I like the added friction.

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Quote by Choosiemamma
Not sure if this has been done, but men were asked about pussy appearance ; o I wondered if women had a preference on the way a mans genitals look....cut/ uncut. Testicle size etc.


Actually its been done to death, HAHA!

I have only been with cut guys so I guess that's my preference. The size of his testicles isn't that important, only that he has BALLS!! LOL

And as far as penis size 6" or 7" is nice, maybe 8". Bigger than that? I guess it would depend on Who!
What about some light wrinkles on the head, small discoloration on the shaft, etc? Does that matter to you?

As I'm getting older (31), I start to see some of these appearing. I tried looking for creams, to no avail. Should I bother with this at all?

Thanks.
Quote by slipperywhenwet2012
As far as my preference, I like good girth with a healthy looking tip. I also don't like it to be grotesque looking...all veiny and shit like that. Bleh. Size doesn't matter *much* as long as he's not ridiculously small and knows what to do with what he's got. I also like it to be proportionate to the balls. Speaking of balls, I don't like them to look like over sized, dried out peach pits fused together. I mean balls are ugly, there's no way around it. But I don't like when they're all floppy and shriveled and just completely unappealing. I also appreciate a little manscaping. Not completely shaven, but not all wild and hairy, either. Tame your fuzz, but don't eliminate it...I like the added friction.


Agreed except that I think balls are beautiful, or at least the ones I've come into contact have been. And while I'm on the subject of balls, GUYS - PLEASE remember to clean them up when you do your manscaping! Seriously. I know shaving them can be a tad precarious but so necessary if you want some attention paid to them. There is nothing worse than choking on pubs when I'm trying to give some lovin' to my man's balls ;)
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What about some light wrinkles on the head, small discoloration on the shaft, etc? Does that matter to you?

As I'm getting older (31), I start to see some of these appearing. I tried looking for creams, to no avail. Should I bother with this at all?

Thanks.


No, don't bother with the creams. Nobody is expecting a perfectly airbrushed penis.

I have only seen one truly perfect set of cock and balls in my lifetime and he was likely some sort of genetic genital anomaly.

As long as it's clean, the right size, shaved or well manscaped and in working order, the whole veining and discolouration thing and minor imperfections aren't a big deal at all. If you're into someone and attracted to them, dick-aesthetics probably fall further down the line of importance as long as it's not something super freaky.

I mean, a genuinely mangled and spottled dick and shrivelled up balls are probably going to be a turn-off, but most guys are well within the norm and have nothing to worry about.
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If you're into someone and attracted to them, dick-aesthetics probably fall further down the line of importance as long as it's not something super freaky.


Yes, I never received bad comments really, but since I've seen more and more of these little imperfections appearing with time, I was simply worried how it might look like as I grew older. But girls only get to see it when the deal is achieved anyways. I'm just a perfectionnist and want to provide ladies the best sex I can.

I tried high-quality moisturizing creams, but my penis turned red after a few days. What works best so far is simply Vasoline, as it forms a protective layer all around my cock.
Quote by SereneProdigy


Yes, I never received bad comments really, but since I've seen more and more of these little imperfections appearing with time, I was simply worried how it might look like as I grow older. But girls only get to see it when the deal is achieved anyways. I'm just a perfectionnist and want to provide ladies the best sex I can.

I tried high-quality moisturizing creams, but my penis turned red after a few days. What works best so far is simply Vasoline, as it forms a protective layer all around my cock.

the best sex has little if nothing to do with the aesthetics, so no need on worrying too much.
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the best sex has little if nothing to do with the aesthetics, so no need on worrying too much.

Yes little to do, but still something to do. That's what being a perfectionnist is all about, worrying about the little details. I enjoy it.
as long as there's no open sores and it's generally clean and trimmed it's a winner.
cut & uncut both are ok. curved, straight are fine, who really cares? 5" to 7" seems best for my mouth, bigger than that hurts after a while.
might change my preferences after i lose my virginity.
i like the pretty colored ones that you can make balloon animals with smile

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Clean, hard and well groomed.

Check, check and check.

As long as it's not ridiculously tiny and thin, sick or dirty/unclean, then I guess we're good. I don't mind so much about manscaping - a trim is nice, but I like my man to look manly, not completely bald around the jewels - I find the whole hairless look a bit unnerving to be honest.

As for signs of aging? Well, I'm older myself, so my pussy and body are not those of a perfect porn star and I don't expect him to be perfect either - in fact, I would probably feel much more aware of my own imperfections if he was, so it's all good.

In all honesty though, by the time I get to his cock, his mind, voice, scent and touch will already have won me over...
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No, don't bother with the creams. Nobody is expecting a perfectly airbrushed penis.

I have only seen one truly perfect set of cock and balls in my lifetime and he was likely some sort of genetic genital anomaly.

As long as it's clean, the right size, shaved or well manscaped and in working order, the whole veining and discolouration thing and minor imperfections aren't a big deal at all. If you're into someone and attracted to them, dick-aesthetics probably fall further down the line of importance as long as it's not something super freaky.

I mean, a genuinely mangled and spottled dick and shrivelled up balls are probably going to be a turn-off, but most guys are well within the norm and have nothing to worry about.


OMG!! Dick-Aesthetics! That is my word of the day for sure. Maybe word of the week!! HAHA
Penises come in all sorts of fun shapes and sizes. Who am I to say what a good penis is? As long as it is clean and big enough to feel, I'm content. I think that the "grower-not-a-shower" penises are cool, kind of adds a wow factor.
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OMG!! Dick-Aesthetics! That is my word of the day for sure. Maybe word of the week!! HAHA

Dick-Aesthetics
/dik/esˈTHetiks/

1. Privileged forms and features below the belt
2. Ability to appreciate such forms and features
3. Appealing genital quality, obtained by a neat and tidy male
4. Compliment made to such a male

- Dancing_Doll is a lady of fine taste. She has a keen sense of style, fashion and dick-aesthetics.
- Nikki703 was there, lying on her sofa, thinking about her hard day and dick-aesthetics.
- Look at SereneProdigy! That's awesome dick-aethetics!



But I've heard that term before, seriously. And yes, I have a lot of free time to kill these days...