If your husband/ boyfriend ask you to peg him (do him with a strap on) would you be freaked out or would it be a turn on? And how would react if he told you this?
done it, and I'm okay with it. Sometimes it's a real turn on, depends on my mood. But I would never make a guy, or girl, feel like a freak just because they asked me to do something.
I wouldn't be freaked more curious as to the sudden request, wouldn't bag him for it either. I encourage open discussions and lets see how we can accommodate the ideas from such talks
I have never had a partner ask me, nor have I ever suggested pegging a partner. I think that it could be VERY erotic!
I would definitely not think of that request as being freaky .... it's all about having fun, turning each other on ~ and if that's part of the playing, game on!
I don't know if it would turn me on but I would try it with the right guy if it was something he was really into. As for my reaction, I wouldn't be freaked out, I'd be calm, ask a few questions and think it over.
I've done it with a lover, it was a real turn on knowing I had control over his ass, and I got pleasure from it too because of a vibrator in the back of the strap on. I didn't freak out as it was something I always wanted to try.
its good to see some of you are ok with it. not sure what the turn on is for me, i read a story and got me wanting to give it a shot. just getting the wife to get on board may be a chore
I haven't done this (yet). Adventurous girls will probably be up for trying this if she has a dominant side, but it's got to be a partner without hangups or preconceptions about anal play. If you're dealing with a purely submissive type that isn't into initiating or taking control during sex, then I think she might be more uncomfortable with it.
Sometimes it gets associated with the whole BDSM domme/leather/studs type scene (such as in the pic above) but it really doesn't have to be that intense. I wrote a 'light' femdom story called Fade to Black that features a strap-on scene - but in a more playful non-roleplay kind of way.
Ultimately I think it's going to depend on the kink level of the girl. It might also be something she gradually gets more interested in trying after initially dismissing it as a "no-way"... maybe start with toys first and check out some good pegging porn together like the Strap Attack series and see what her interest level is.
If I was with a guy who really wanted me to do it then I would. Why wouldnt I do something for him that will bring him pleasure. I have always been adventurous and willing to try new things.
Now I would never suggest it to a guy, I think that is a situaltion where he would need to be the aggressor. I joke about doing it to some of my friends here on Lush, but in reality it really isnt a big turn on for me. But still, if it makes him happy.........................................!!
Quote by t-rex If your husband/ boyfriend ask you to peg him (do him with a strap on) would you be freaked out or would it be a turn on? And how would react if he told you this?
I've discovered recently that when I'm confronted with extremely different or unusual request / behavior- my first reaction is to freeze and my mind doesn't process anything - then I freak out and then I consider it from a safe distance with logic and reconsider.
Oh, god. I would be the happiest woman alive. It's my only hope that I meet a great guy who'd like to be pegged.
I almost started a relationship with a guy who was curious about trying it, but things tapered off between us, unfortunately. A real shame, too, because not only was he an awesome person but he was quite kinky, as well.
I will be crossing into that experience very soon. We've been playing in that direction for a few months now, and ... -gulp- ... um, I'll tell you how it goes.
Quote by c50t I will be crossing into that experience very soon. We've been playing in that direction for a few months now, and ... -gulp- ... um, I'll tell you how it goes.
i didn't even know what pegging was until i saw it here, Never been asked, he has gotten exited when i press my finger in. i do know that it makes him really hard. Never had the courage to ask him about it.
Yes, I'd love to. I've suggested it to my guy a few times but he won't do it. Keeps asking 'what's the attraction for me?'. The feeling of power/dominance would be a huge turn on. Maybe one day....