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Hey girls!!!!!

Over the past few weeks whilst me and my partner have deep penetrativee sex it seems to be REALLY hurting me. Like when i am on top and his penis goes all the way in i get this horrid pain al over my stomach. I would say hes about 6-7 inches and quite thick. We do have sex quite often and im wondering whether this may be due to that? Or maybe his penis is hitting my cervix? Have you ever experienced anything like this?!?
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Yes, his penis is hitting your cervix, and your cervix is not appreciating the attention, so the pain radiates up and out. Been there. With me, shifting positions will help, so try that. Also, I've found that post-orgasm, it will sometimes allow for more depth at less discomfort.

Otherwise, you might just find that full penetration is just not going to be all that pleasant as long as he's hitting the 'back wall'.
Your cervix is supposed to 'move up out of the way' when you get all turned on, so it might be something to do with not enough foreplay too - ie. you're not as turn on as you could be. But you'll know whether that's true for yourself or not!

Otherwise you'll just have to try position shifting and/or asking him to not bottom out in you. smile
This sounds like something you might want the doctor to check out as well. Although I couldn't tell you what the diseases were off the top of my head, I do know I've read before about women going in to get checked after sex became uncomfortable and finding out they had something.

Especially if the pain is a new thing, and those positions didn't hurt you in the past.

Otherwise, yeah - hitting too hard against the cervix can be painful.
While not female, I've gotta go with Jingle here: see a doctor.
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While not female, I've gotta go with Jingle here: see a doctor.



I agree. If it's never hurt doing it like that before, you changed position and it still hurts. See your gyno.
If you never had this kind of pain before and unless he has started really pounding you unmercifully, it sound like there could be something seriously wrong.

Can't get to your OBGYN too soon.>
Not a fan of extreme pain
Nafisa
Usually, I can take close to an 8" penis before it starts hurting, but fortunately, I haven't been with many guys who had cocks that big.