Being on lush has allowed me to explore things that I would never have been brave enough to do in real life. What have you discovered since joining?
That I am far too naive, gullible and nice. I have learned to be humble. Yes I am nice but I can also dish it out and I worked very hard
improving there. Finally, how precious a true friend is. I could have written a book here. I answered this because I think this should be in the section where men and women can answer it.
That I'm actually pretty talented as a writer.
Try it...you may like it a lot more than you think you will!
that i have a violent streak and no hesitations when it comes to beating the living daylights out of writers with bad grammar.
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
Lush has given me permission to express my creativity and sexuality in ways I would have only admitted to myself privately before, and even that would have been alarming. I am so much happier and more fulfilled as a person as a result.
Good question (sorry I am answering an Ask the gals question).
It has made me more willing to explore sexual nooks and crannies I never would have otherwise explored. I am more brave and confident and adventurous sexually. Probably in other aspects of my life too.
It has also showed me how life affirming and healing sex can be. Like that Marvin Gaye song, Sexual Healing. I was pretty beat up emotionally and spiritually when I first came here, and this was (and is) part of my path back to embracing my life again.
And most importantly, I have met some great people here whom I otherwise would have never met.
not sure I have learned anything.... more of confirming what I always knew... enjoy being an exhibitionist!!
I learned that some of the things I feel awkward, ashamed or uncomfortable about are actually quite normal for many here. People are very understanding here. I have broadened my mind, and feel better about myself.
I've learned I'm more able to be flexible in relationships
Lush has given me a broader insight of peoples sexual habits, taboos and varied opinions. It seems that some of the things I practised are a norm and standard
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
That my sexual urges aren't really all that abnormal...and that I'm no where near an anomaly in that regard.
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I guess I knew I could write a little, and have enjoyed RPing online for many years, but I've learnt I can actually help some folks out with what I can write, and put into words, and that is something I really enjoy. Any day I can put a smile on someone's face and make them feel better, is a day that's been worth living!
Love is never easy ...and if you can look into the darkness and still love someone still if not more so then that is love
Love takes patience love takes kindness and understanding
also just because you love someone doesn't always mean they are going to love you back..that is just life
But then there are people who do love you and sometimes you don't even pay attention to them because you are so fucking focused on the one person who could care less ...and then you learn that its time to stop that and focus on the people who have been there all along picking up your pieces as you break
they are real....and they are who matter.
Apparently I can write quite good erotica. I had no idea I could do that before Lush.
That I can get sexually aroused by peeing. That came as a bit of a surprise.
And, most delightfully, that there are other people out there who I can share my little kink with, and who don't think I'm a bit weird.
22 February 2024 - How about a quick plug for one of my filthiest recent stories? It's all in the title - Naked Pool Party Swingers | Lush Stories Please read, comment and maybe give it a ❤️ - or even a⭐ if you really enjoy it! Thank you! Annie xxx
That butt plugs can be satisfying!
Learned about the world of BDSM and how much I enjoy it myself in the real world. And that online relationships are worth the while and are fun.
That I can write erotic poetry! Lush gave me the confidence to try, after reading so much on here I thought, I can do that! So I did and it got published today! The buzz from being a writer from just a voyeur is amazing. Thanks lush and to my lush friends xxxx