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NAME one thing you wish you had known about sex but no one told you.

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Quote by Belthazor
Probably how it really works. Not all the BS they tell you in Catholic school.


Been There!!!

Catholic Teachers trying to explain SEX is like hardcore VEGANS explaining how you cook steak...

xx SF

(No offense to Vegans!!!)
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Quote by stephanie


YOU PEOPLE HAVE NO IDEA!!!

An OKAY orgasm IS NOT GOING TO WORK!!!

WE ARE FUCKING MEN!!!

(Try something like THIS: (Panting and BLINKING furiously) : "Oh My God, STALLION, I've never had it like that before!!! I was like A TINY PONY and then you SWEPT onto me like a WINGED PEGASUS MYTHICAL HORSE and RODE your little girl and OH MY GOD I CAME SO MUCH!!!")

Fucking LIE to us.

We're MEN!!!

It's what we know you do!!!

WE get to BELIEVE IT!!!

(YOU get lingerie and flowers and breakfast in your lazy whore bed...)

xx SF

DANI and SPRITE: "Oh My God you really think we could do THAT???"

Me: "No. JUST PRETEND!!!"



are you still upset about that time i had to tell you to stop whatever it was you were doing with your tongue cause it was starting to annoy me?

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That it's okay to have casual sex, but to think about if you would regret it later on, think about if he "deserves" you.
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Quote by stephanie


Been There!!!

Catholic Teachers trying to explain SEX is like hardcore VEGANS explaining how you cook steak...

xx SF

(No offense to Vegans!!!)


Mostly, they just tell you not to do it and why. And make you feel guilty or less of a Christian for wanting to do it.
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That you should really have sex with more than one guy (though not necessarily at the same time) before you get married.
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That your first time might be better with a girl. That way it might last longer:-)
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that the brain is the biggest sex organ. we spent so much time learning about the physical that i was almost shocked when i realized that.

Say. Her. Name.


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That I should not be afraid to pursue and fully enjoy sex. I didn't realize that it was ok until my mid 20's. I spent almost 10 years catching up on lost time and missed opportunities
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Quote by TrinityX
That I should not be afraid to pursue and fully enjoy sex. I didn't realize that it was ok until my mid 20's. I spent almost 10 years catching up on lost time and missed opportunities


I know about this feeling. Glad you found the answer and had the opportunity to catch up with time. I am still trying to change those feelings and now not sure I will catch up. I didn't have sex opportunities but lost so many time. Hopefully 2016 will be different.

Have great New Year.
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Not to be shy when it comes to sex such as giggling and blushing while looking at a penis.

You don't get an automatic orgasm the first time of sex.

Always check if you have a tampon inside before sex while ending your period. (I forgot I had one and was to scared to be seen by a health professional until it was to bad)

Not let guys talk you into having sex without a condom no matter what sweet promises they make as you can get health scares.

So many things I wish I had known.
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that women moan loud sometimes
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How thrilling it is to bring a women to an orgasm!
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I wish that much earlier in my life someone made it clear that females enjoy sex too, that they are not a 'thing' to be taken or conquered. That realization/ education would have made the younger years more enjoyable and meaningful, for all involved.
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Anal sex is amazing... So much time wasted
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Just how incredible an "O" can be. It helps to have an experienced driver though. Kiss
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Nothing, find out in your own way, in your own time.
In the world's harsh wear and tear many a very sincere attachment is slowly obliterated.


Είμαι ταξιδιώτης τόσο στο χρόνο όσο και στο διάστημα
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Eating pussy is FUN! I was so worried it'd be gross, but oh, my... ;-)

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How much pleasure it gives me to have a partner orgasm more than once, and how to excite her brain
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That even if reaching orgasm isn't easy that shouldn't mean I have to forgo my pleasure. I spent a lot of time making excuses for lazy lovers and that's something I wish I had never done.
"A dirty book is rarely dusty"
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I was raised in a strict Roman Catholic family. Consequently, I knew zip about sex having to learn everything in the wrong sort of way - locker rooms bragging, men's magazines, etc. - rather then properly. Religious families like mine did more harm then good with the insinuation that sex is bad,evil, dirty and alike. They fostered wrong attitudes which led to wrong decisions and actions including a false sense of guilt when I was attracted to a female let alone when my pecker got hard. My regret is that I was not taught that sexual arousal was normal, God given, and healthy.
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Those special condoms, the ones with bumps or whatever, feel weird and not in a good way.
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Those special condoms, the ones with bumps or whatever, feel weird and not in a good way.


That's awesome! But we're told they're for HER pleasure!
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That it's okay to have casual sex, but to think about if you would regret it later on, think about if he "deserves" you.


Miss CheryRedGirl,

Both your points are spot on!

The second one I think all women should ask themselves right now, "does he deserve you?"
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To just go for it. Try anything and everything - but get the right partner first. Then anything you want will fall into place.

I used to be a pervert. In here, I'm normal!

Watch this space...She is really - cumming soon!

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That size really mattered, I would have tied a brick to it when I was 10.


Nich10

A few woman are concerned about size and millions of men.

However, of the woman I know there is not much of a concern. If you are smaller then there is plenty of you to hit the spots that need to be caressed.
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Quote by Christie


This. It also would have been nice to know that some men don't give a shit that it hurts that first time. They just want to fuck and enjoy themselves and to hell with what you're feeling.


My first was with a much older guy and he was kind and gentle and warmed me there would be some pain.

It was not nearly as bad as I had heard it would be.
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Quote by ChandlerAja2


My first was with a much older guy and he was kind and gentle and warmed me there would be some pain.

It was not nearly as bad as I had heard it would be.


You may have been a bit apprehensive about possible pain, but I don't think you were fearful / afraid. Your kindly older man was a gentleman. Glad it worked out that way.