Married Men

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0 likes 30 Mar 2011

i am married, my wife and i live apart.......she has medical issues and has lost all desire for romance and sex.....I masturbate frequently..........am hoping to meet a fwb

MinaMiranda

Advanced Wordsmith

0 likes 31 Mar 2011

It's circumstantial.

For the most part, no. I would never want to cause another woman that pain, and I have a religious consideration about it too. But on the one occasion I did so, he was my first love, the one I had been in love with since school and still a bit now, I suppose. It was very clear his wife and he were divorcing, I'd had various encounters with him over the years before he got married, we're talking like 20 years of history. But he didn't want me for anything more than sex, and married someone else. crybaby

I find I have a great ability to attract men already in relationships. I find it so hard to respect them, let alone fancy them, unless I have a great deal of proof that the relationship is dead in the water. And then I disrespect them anyway for not ending it when they are so clearly not meant to be there! Poor guys, you can't win.

But having said that, I will always hear the case before I make the judgement.

Stock answer to most forum questions:
Some do, Some don't

Love blindsides us all.

Clu3

Active Ink Slinger

0 likes 2 Apr 2011

I think if a man married and showing attention to me and try make me care bout him: it wouldnt make a sense to me. That man just selfish i dk how man can act like that while they have a family.that suck
i dont event want to think like if i cn like hm back.that would be wrong thng ever

g00dfe11a

Rookie Scribe

0 likes 4 Apr 2011

I know this is a section for Ask the Gals, but I just wanted to share that since I've been married, I've had more women wanting to get "involved" more than when I was single. Coincidence?

Guest

Lurker

0 likes 4 May 2011

If a man picks me up in a club for a one nighter, I don't ask and don't really care whether he's married or not, but I wouldn't get in to a long term thing with a married man unless they were in an open relationship.

ErinDcup34

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0 likes 19 Aug 2021

I never want to be "the other woman" - I know irs corny, but true for me. I know a few couples that have broken up because either the man or woman "stepped out" and ghad a fuck buddy on the side, or saw an old flame, or whatever. I'm not married, but I can se in my married friends that they really invest in fidelity and trust. Saying that, though, I also know of cases where an "accident" happened - a one-nite-stand at a party, or on a business trip or with an ex after drinking too much --- sometimes they can be forgiven, but the trust has to be earned back....

I;ve had older guys approach me and flirt with the apparent intention of getting into my pants, younger guys too - while I might flirt back a bit, I go out of my way to see if there's a wife or SO at home -- I know that I've been with at least one married man - and the wife allowed it - encouraged it! (And it has been an interesting friendship with them) .... and I have no doubt that some guy has slipped through my "screen" at some point - I just can't be certain --

But my "policy" is no married men need apply.