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OK, so I think it's fairly well known that women moaning, talking, and even screaming can be a big turn-on for guys. That loss of control and utter lack of shame as you approach and go past the point of no return.... mmm, kinda lost my train of thought....

Right... I got it now...

My question is, do women want their men to moan, yell, and scream during sex (PIV, oral, masturbation, or otherwise) or should that be left to you? "Conventional" wisdom suggests y'all like the "strong, silent type", but my recent experiences make me think that may be flawed. So ladies, do you like a loud lover?


Looking forward to hearing your thoughts.
I like moaning, hearing the variations in breathing as I hit those sweet spots, and some urgent and intense dirty talk (the dirtier the better) from guys.

I've never really come across a screamer, but I'm not into constant yelling/screaming/grunting during sex. Even some porn is way over the top that way, and it ruins the whole thing.

If a guy is totally silent and just doing his thing, it's actually a turn off for me. My mind starts to wander and I can lose interest that way.
Yep same, i love a guy to be vocal, breathing, moaning, dirty talk etc it lets me know im doing things right. No guy wants the woman to lay there like a dead fish and neither do we, we want some reaction!!!
WHAT? YOU LADIES DON'T LIKE LOUD GUYS? I CAN'T IMAGINE WHY! GRUNT..MOAN...OOOOH... AHHHH..... YEA, RIGHT THERE.



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Yep same, i love a guy to be vocal, breathing, moaning, dirty talk etc it lets me know im doing things right. No guy wants the woman to lay there like a dead fish and neither do we, we want some reaction!!!


couldn't agree with you more
I love when guys moan or grunt. It's a huge turn on for me and let's me know i'm doing things right.
Moans, Grunts,Rapid Breathing, Panting, Dirty Talk are all great during sex, especially when he is close to cumming. But I dont like it if a guy is yelling and screaming like he is out of control. Can be a big turn off. But so is a guy who is slient too.
I do like hearing them groan/grunt as they cum but all the way through? I think not!
lol, OK, now I'm imagining a woman who started screaming from the first time she was touched...yeah, that would be kinda creepy. I meant just at the end ladies... lol
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lol, OK, now I'm imagining a woman who started screaming from the first time she was touched...yeah, that would be kinda creepy. I meant just at the end ladies... lol





LOL- talk about a nightmare!
I love when the guys respond with dirty talk, moaning, or panting and many other stuff. I don't feeling into the scream thingy tho(unless, it's a really steamy one.. lol). I mean, it's too much. Well.. I guess everyone have their own side of table. silly
No screaming from men or women...but I do like groaning, moaning, panting, occassional grunting, and certainly dirty talking. I don't like things to be completely silent...I like to know my lover is getting pleasure too!
I love my man to be vocal. I like to know that I am touching all the right places. I love to hear his moans, groans, and dirty talk as I bring him to the brink of the perfect orgasm as he is gasping for each breath.
I have to agree with these ladies right above me. I am a virgin but I still find moaning and groaning to be a huge turn on when I'm giving head, ect. However, I think excessive screaming would have the opposite effect.
I have to agree with these ladies right above me. I am a virgin but I still find moaning and groaning to be a huge turn on when I'm giving head, ect. However, I think excessive screaming would have the opposite effect.
I have to agree with these ladies right above me. I am a virgin but I still find moaning and groaning to be a huge turn on when I'm giving head, ect. However, I think excessive screaming would have the opposite effect.
Oh wow! If a guy was a screamer that would be real weird!!!!

I do like to hear the guy breath, grunt (a little..don't sound like a hog in a mud pen) LOL

Dirty talk an be very erotic!!!! I love it when I guy tells me he's cumming, especially when he says that I am making him cum!

Give credit where its due! LOL
mmmmoan! LOUDER! After a couple hours of edge play, crying and begging to cum is even better biggrin
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Yep same, i love a guy to be vocal, breathing, moaning, dirty talk etc it lets me know im doing things right. No guy wants the woman to lay there like a dead fish and neither do we, we want some reaction!!!


Very well said!
Have the courage to make the change, the strength to see it through, and keep the faith that it will turn out for the best!
I lovehearing my guy moan and grone along with the dirty talk that cums with it
Let it go, I say! Just like guys, women like to know that their men are enjoying what is being done to them.
I love to hear my man moaning and telling me how tight, hot, & wet his Bitches pussy is.... his voice sends me over the top especially when he is telling me threw gritting teeth on the verge of cumming.....Cause I know he loves it... He'll ask me who's pussy is this Bitch? I'll tell him yours Daddy or yours Mother Fucker.... when I yell out at him and call him Daddy we both go wild.....


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The first girl I was with complained I didn't moan, so I guess some girls expect it from their men?
hm. I think "screaming" would be weird. I'd likely start laughing. But silence is creepy. Moaning while I'm doing something is good. And if he's the type of guy to where he gets me feeling "subby" (this could be his natural confidence, or if he has a really impressive cock), I like to hear some dirty talk and grunting.

generally, yes. moaning, good; screaming, bad
I feel it depends on where and when you are going at it, nomal private situations can call for some noise, like the other girls have said, bit of moaning, dirty talk etc, but i also think it can be a huge turn on wanting to make noise but not being able to, like if you are sneaking a quickie outdoors or you have locked yourselves away while the kids are awake, having to stay quiet and not be found out can be really sexy
Someone mention Loud...
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I feel it depends on where and when you are going at it, nomal private situations can call for some noise, like the other girls have said, bit of moaning, dirty talk etc, but i also think it can be a huge turn on wanting to make noise but not being able to, like if you are sneaking a quickie outdoors or you have locked yourselves away while the kids are awake, having to stay quiet and not be found out can be really sexy


thats very true... sometimes having to be quiet is a turn on to... had a partner once have t hold a hand over my mouth because it wa so hot, but that turned me on even more...
The comment came up in much the way it comes up with girls. It was a comment that hearing a guy lose control was hot. I know I've always enjoyed it when my partners did, but media and general societal norms seem to indicate we men are supposed to be silent or slightly 'grunty', not moan or shudder or anything. In thinking about it, I realized that, for my own part, I've held back during sex, even during orgasm, maintaining some degree of control (and co-ordination ;) ) so there was some truth to the comment. OK, so TMI there, but still..... ;)

I certainly didn't mean to ask if you wanted your guy to be screaming like a porn starlet. Screaming can be strange and artifical coming from most girls too. Sometimes feels like they're performing and that's not exactly the point. Yes, it would be stranger still coming from a guy.

So, I guess I was wondering if you ladies preferred the more moderate grunting, or the "let it go" quivering, shaking, loss of co-ordination, somewhat "louder" noises that can (who knew?) be made if he completely loses control.

Hearing and feeling a guy lose control is very hot. Listening to moans, gasps, dirty talk and breathing rate increase and feeling his muscles tense and quiver is definitely a turn on for me. Nothing artificial or way over-the-top, but if it's sincere go for it. Also shows that the guy trusts me enough to be completely himself and share that part of himself with me which makes the experience better, and it helps me learn what he likes.