On. Off is just silly, imo.
Light OFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! at night time. If it's the day time I don't mind at all. But at night time I want it dark and snuggly, I don't need lights to see and get in the mood in the dark. That's why they created darkness, that extra sense to feel, touch and hear or smell to add to those lovely memories!
lights off....candles everywhere....*sigh*
I like when the lights are dim or in the daytime, I like natural sunlight. I always hate bright lights. Not just during sex.
Really doesnt matter to me. But my preferance would be candle light or natural light. But whatever makes my partner more comfortable I guess is fine with me.
Candle-light or on for me as not likely to be sleeping with some1 I don't want to see and I'm not really that self concious these days. If I'm not comfortable with some1 then I won't be getting my freak on lol so not had lights off since I was about 16 and still bit nervous
I like lights off. There's just something about fucking in the dark. When you are deprived of your sense of sight you must use your other senses like the sense of feeling/touching. I love to feel and explore my partners body in the dark.
I used to be very self-conscious so preferred lights off. Nowadays I don't care.
If you can't make up your mind then I suggest a strobe light.
Whatever floats your boat. Just be present and involved. Sex is beautiful either way.