Only recently, found out that my wife(46) had explored some sexual acts with other females for a period in her distant sexual past. No one, including myself, would have suspected that happening in her sexual past. I was intrigued, and am wondering how often it occurs with women in general, hence my poll.
Is it possible for women to leave this "exploration" behind you, without carrying some kind of "flame" for it to happen again?
Please make a choice in my poll, and comment about it if you'd like. Maybe you didn't experiment, but you know some of you friend did, what can you say about this topic.
How about adding "I am a passionate bisexual female?" I have done about everything possible with another woman except had any involvevment with a strap-on.
My boyfriends know I enjoy sex with other girls as much as I do with them, so they have always understood they have to share me with my girlfriends. I started exploring with other girls the same time I started with boys, so I've been openly bi-sexual from the very beginning.
With the exception of Strap-on's I have done just about everything two females can do together. Due to the infrequency of these affairs I am certainly not a Lesbian and I am not sure I can define myself as Bi-Sexual either.
You have all met that girl at Starbucks or in a class or even in a bar. You had an immediate connection, but how does one convey the concept that there is much more we could do in addition to laugh, chat, and enjoy each others company.
I never have a problem with approaching a man, but somehow women are different. Can you help?
I love men and have no intension of replacing any of my male friends. But it would be wonderful to have the joy of the softness of a female in my arms more frequently.
So, this is one of those times when I feel compelled to point out the flaws in your poll, but... looks like other people beat me to it. The thing is that I am not a lesbian, but I regularly have sex with women. I have also had sex with transgender and non-binary humans. I rarely have sex with men (largely by choice), but I identify as pansexual. With that said, I have done all of the things listed on your poll.
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You are missing one choice on your poll and that would be that "I often have sex with women, but am a Bisexual". that would be where I fall........
I should mention that my first sexual experiences with another person were all same sex. I actually began to fear that I was one of those "horrible lesbians" that I often heard about. I began to accept the fact that being bisexual had certain advantages. Away from sexual activity in the bedroom or living room, or den, or patio, or car or, you get the idea, most people would think of me as very conservative and compassionate.
As a bi guy I have to say to any gal who is bi curious, GO FOR IT! I find bi ladies a great turn on. Many guys do.
The romantic bi guy.
Stay horny my friend.
Thanks Gals for all the responses to date.
I want to mention, in constructing this Poll, one is only allowed so many slots for poll questions(and question slots are limited to their length).
I thought having room for passive participation, unfulfilled participation, or, no interest in participation,,, were important answers to offer the full pool of Gals who may view this Poll.
re; a "bisexual" answer choice, I tried to encompass that within "I often have sex with females", identified separately by a "/" from lesbian. I left "often", to be defined by the reader, so as it could mean, a couple times per year, to a couple times per month, or anything between. I grouped, "I often have sex with females" and "I am lesbian" together because both would conclude, that for the most part, that you aren't experimenting as much as you're practising.
I would have liked room for a question something like "used a toy on another female" or "shared sex toys with another female", but hence, no more slots.
I'd like to see more responses in the Poll, I hope this answers some of the hesitation and addresses the "bisexual option" concern.
There hopefully/should be an answer choice for everyone, Thanks.