Not yet qualified to pick an answer from the poll, but I can imagine why kissing a casual fuck buddy would be uncomfortable. It's intimate as hell, when you lock lips with someone. Dirty sex is one thing; it's just giving your body over to mad, physical pleasure in the moment. A kiss, for some, might feel a lot like they're opening themselves up to you emotionally. Some might want to keep that part of themselves for something less casual. This is digressing a bit, but I know of a girl (and I have a lot of love for her) who would let casual partners come inside her, but imposes a 'no creampie' rule on her bf; it's something she wants to keep for after they're married. My point is that everyone has a different deed to symbolise something serious or sacred. Kissing might be that deed for some girls, but not others.x
Kissing is very intimate but I wouldn't completely turn away from it - even with a casual fuckbuddy. There's a way to make the kissing a little rougher and more raw and in the moment so it kind of goes with the sex, without really bringing deeper emotions or intimacy into it.
There's also an important 'kissing threshold' if it's just casual sex - you don't want to overdo it or have it go on for too long. The minute it starts to slow-down or feel more emotion-based rather than just fast 'raw passion', then yeah - it can be awkward and I'm usually trying to find a way to move on to something else.
So when it comes to casual sex - hard kissing is good, and slow kissing might be awkward. It really depends on the person and the vibe we have.
I love kissing...open-mouth, tongue-twirling, wet and intimate, even with my casual partners. Most of the sex I have is casual sex, so I'm not giving up kissing just because I'm not in love with my bed-partner! If there's some special intimacy I save for only the one I love, its in my mind, not my body. I share all of my body with whomever I have sex, whether its the first time or the thousandth.
I kiss people even when I'm not having casual sex - it's an expression of love, and i love my friends, so yeah, kissing is pretty much a given if we're both naked.
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I love kissing. As far as I'm concerned, no kissing, no sex.
Casual Sex..... if it means a quicky.... then where s the time for kissing.
Also in multiple partners sex, kissing is absolutely optional to me.
Kissing (which I consider foreplay) is very important. I very rarely have casual sex. I know and care for the people I have sex with.
I can kiss without it becoming intimate - but is is so hard not to go to that next level.
Kissing is an essential part of foreplay and the action. I could not enjoy a good session of sexual intimacy without it.
Casual sex used to be a regular experience for me and kissing was ALWAYS a precursor. Often the way they kiss was an indication of how they made love.
Now kissing is just one of the pleasures I enjoy with my FWB and not only on the lips.
Casual sex with other than my FWB is behind me I believe , but I can still enjoy a kiss, particularly with another woman.
I have a fantasy about my cousins wife, she's sat next to me while I jerked off telling her what I want to do to her. She tells me her turn one and fantasies. Ive lusted after her for three years now and finally last week she finally gave in a little and gave me a hand job . Last night something happened to me that hasn't happened since I was about 12 I had a wet dream about her, but there was no sex . I just dreamed about her sticking her long tongue down my throat ,that's it just making out with her caused me to wake up with my drawers full of cum. Weird huh ?no sex .
I love kissing but you better have a clean mouth if you want to kiss my lips
For me no sex wold happen without kissing, even if it's casual sex
Taste and smell and touch are such integral elements of any sexual encounter--"casual" or otherwise--that I can't imagine engaging in a sexual act without kissing. It just...yah, I can't see it happening. And welcome to Lush, Wendi.
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I love kissing, like others have already said no kissing no sex and I wouldn't want to have sex with someone I didn't want to even kiss.
