I heard/read a lot of positive comments about him in real life or here on Lush from women, but was wondering what specifically makes him so appealing sexually. I can kinda figure out why this is the case, but I'd like to read what women have to say about him in their own terms.
Physically, he's not as fit as many other pornstars, and doesn't necessarily have the face of a model either (though he could be considered handsome to a degree). He has the 'guy next door' look, mostly.
Where he really stands out is in his general attitude, in my opinion, where he appears a bit more emotionally involved than those other male pornstars who often simply fuck like robots. It's not rare to see him smiling, and he seems to be genuinely having fun during the porn scenes. He also seems to be focusing a bit more about pleasing his female co-stars, and appears more respectful in that regard.
So, what makes him so attractive to you? Is it any of the things I mentioned, or simply his big dick?
It's his attitude... he fucks girls the way they want to be fucked. As far as typical male porn stars go, he's quite intense and he knows dominant rough sex while still maintaining the passion and connection, rather than seeming detached, douchey or just in it for himself.
He is definitely not the typical porn star as far as looks go - I think he's on the shorter side and pretty lean so he's not the usual big, beefy guy you tend to see in porn, but that probably makes him more relatable to women as well. As you mentioned, he comes off like a fun guy too, so there's personality attraction. That might make more of a difference with women responding to male porn stars. Guys are probably drawn to the hottest girl, but male porn stars are a dime a dozen and they rarely feel distinctive or memorable. James Deen has done all the right things as far as marketing himself and coming across as a guy that would be fun to both fuck and hang out with.
He also has a big dick. Apparently the dildo modeled after him is a monster - I remember reading reviews where women who purchased it were overwhelmed by the size. I haven't seen it in person but it looks interesting.
Physically, he's not as fit as many other pornstars, and doesn't necessarily have the face of a model either (though he could be considered handsome to a degree). He has the 'guy next door' look, mostly.
Where he really stands out is in his general attitude, in my opinion, where he appears a bit more emotionally involved than those other male pornstars who often simply fuck like robots. It's not rare to see him smiling, and he seems to be genuinely having fun during the porn scenes. He also seems to be focusing a bit more about pleasing his female co-stars, and appears more respectful in that regard.
Quote by Dancing_Doll He also has a big dick. Apparently the dildo modeled after him is a monster - I remember reading reviews where women who purchased it were overwhelmed by the size. I haven't seen it in person but it looks interesting.
His dick is actually not that big, at least when compared to a lot of other pornstars. Probably around 7 inches or so, in my opinion. But that would be the ideal size for many women, so I envy him in that regard.
His dick is actually not that big, at least when compared to a lot of other pornstars. Probably around 7 inches or so, in my opinion. But that would be the ideal size for many women, so I envy him in that regard.
The porn industry claims 9 inches. I'm sure that's a bit exaggerated for marketing mystique.
The porn industry claims 9 inches. I'm sure that's a bit exaggerated for marketing mystique.
It does look to be a nice one though.
Yes, I did a quick search too. I also looked at his real penis on some pictures, and I'd be really surprised if it was 9 inches. Even 8 inches would surprise me. James Deen is overall rather small/thin, so that helps making his dick appear bigger too. My guess is still around 7 or 7,5 inches.
Damn, some people take things seriously here. This whole subject seems to get to you a lot more than it does to me. I'm not sure exactly who's being jealous here.
Is it really that hard to believe that some guys actually take care of their bodies and know how to fuck?
Quote by SereneProdigy Damn, some people take things seriously here. This whole subject seems to get to you a lot more than it does to me. I'm not sure exactly who's being jealous here.
Is it really that hard to believe that some guys actually take care of their bodies and know how to fuck?
Of course not. But making comparisons wreaks of insecurity, which is overall unattractive no matter how physically appealing you are (or think you are).
I mean you made a thread asking what's the big deal with James Deen. There's obviously something about him that gets to you.
Women love him for obvious reasons, and I bet none of those reasons have anything to do with him going around saying how much more attractive he is compared to other men or how much more passionate he is in the bedroom than other men. He does his thing, and he's confident while doing it. Furthermore, his confidence doesn't seem to stem from how he compares to other men. Because at the end of the day, he's James fucking Deen. And you're a grown man seeking to validate himself against a porn star, it would seem.
Quote by SereneProdigy Damn, some people take things seriously here. This whole subject seems to get to you a lot more than it does to me.
Is it really that hard to believe that some guys actually take care of their physiques and know how to fuck?
You've obviously missed the point of it all. Quit acting like a smug and superior prick. Your constant need to brag about yourself is fucking irritating me.
If you really knew how to fuck, why do you ask so many gawddamn questions?? Shouldn't you just automatically know?
You seem like a nice guy, but damn dude. Quit trying so fucking hard!
Quote by slipperywhenwet2012 I mean you made a thread asking what's the big deal with James Deen. There's obviously something about him that gets to you.
Not exactly. In fact, I relate to him a whole lot more than to a lot of other overly muscular pornstars. I'm actually quite pleased that women prefer a 'guy next door' like him.
The rest of your post... yes, obviously people take things here quite seriously. My 'comparison' was mostly humorous, if nobody got it. Not completely false, but still humorous.
Quote by SereneProdigy The rest of your post... yes, obviously people take things here quite seriously. My 'comparison' was mostly humorous, if nobody got it. Not completely false, but still humorous.
I agree, it was humorous...just not for the reasons you think. And I assure you that the points you were attempting to make weren't lost on anyone. It's sad if you can't allow yourself to give us more credit than that. In fact, I'd go so far as to say it's insulting. It seems you make some of the most absurd/obnoxious/pretentious posts and your go-to response is, "Nobody gets it because my sense of humor is far too advanced."
Some of us just have really good bullshit detectors.
I don't find him attractive at all. His looks are not for me but most porn stars, strippers and etc aren't my taste. Go on and do your thing without judgment but just not my thing.
Is it really that hard to believe that some guys actually take care of their bodies and know how to fuck?
Actually every guy I know like this hates James Deen - even the ones that have similar sexual styles. I'm always expecting them to be pro-Deen because of the sex style and scenes he's in, but nope - they just don't take to him well - mainly because he doesn't look the part. It still always surprises me, although at this point I can kind of see it coming.
Two of the most popular porn stars in the business are James Deen and Manuel Ferrara. Look at how into the sex they are in their scenes and how genuinely turned on and orgasmic (in a non-faking way) the women often seem. There's eye contact and connection. It's like you forget the cameras are there. The guys are intense - they're not spaced out, being thrust-robots or fucking with one hand on a hip so the cameras can get in on that angle. That's why women respond to guys like this.
It's a shame more male porn stars don't take their lead and realize what will set them apart from the usual faceless studs in the business.
ps. The critical fit guys usually have less an issue with Manuel Ferrara - probably because he more fits the traditional 'hot guy' image compared to Deen.
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never ever compare yourself to ANYONE on the screen.....
he is not my type but then I like older ah..more chubby kind of men
but for you to say this
like the others said... smacks of insecurity or at the very least...jealousy
and if YOU do believe you are equal
go for it
see there is this thing called redtube
make your own video
I would SOOOOOO watch and give you my humble opinion...;)
Why am I not surprised by a thread asking what the big deal is about a guy who didn't "put as much effort in his body" as good ole' SereneProdigy did.
Holy fuck.
Did you have some obnoxious thread earlier in the year about different types of physical fitness?
The point of this thread is? At the end of the day, I don't think any mature guy is all that jealous of James Dean. Sure he gets to fuck lots of women, but how many of them have drug issues, daddy issues, etc?
Quote by PersonalAssistant excuse me while I go google this guy .... and hope for a link to one of his .... adventures ....
I'll be back!
I'm back!
Quote by SereneProdigy What makes James Deen have such a sex appeal?
I have to agree with DD ... it's the fact he appears to be very genuine and that there is eye contact between him and the woman. In my opinion though, he's only special in THAT regard. He's not my type, and I wouldn't be searching him out specifically.
Now I need to go google Manuel Ferrara!!
Lush's fault for my google searches being so dirty!! ha!!
Truth... the porn industry is smoke and mirrors. Just like normal movies.
Yes, dicks are not as large as folks think they are or wish they were. Just like how actors in regular movies look huge, but when you meet them in real life they are short and not very impressive. It is about delivering the fantasy. Just don't get wrapped up in it.
Also in the porn industry (as well as general) it is about proportions. A smaller guy (short and slight of build) with a modest cock LOOKS HUGE (the cock). And the camera angles and other tricks lend to the fantasy. It is what it is.
As others pointed out, NEVER try to compare yourself to what you see in film (any)... that goes for men AND women... because it isn't real or HONEST.
His dick is actually not that big, at least when compared to a lot of other pornstars. Probably around 7 inches or so, in my opinion. But that would be the ideal size for many women, so I envy him in that regard.
All the rest of him? Pfff... not impressed.
I'm curious: which male porn stars genuinely impress you?
To me, the appeal of James Deen is that he seems very real. He is not exceptionally fit but he isn't out of shape by any means. He is handsome but not like something out of Greek Mythology. Just very approachable for the average woman and he seems very comfortable performing rough sex equally with being tender and romantic. Not the typical cookie cutter inked up gym rat you typically find in vids today.
As for cock size, I have read that he is about 7.5-8". I know many male porn stars are publicized to be 9"+ but I actually think there are very few who have been documented to be that large. I think much of it is an illusion created by camera angles and other cinematic trickery that makes them appear larger than they are. Being fit and shaved bare also helps with this. Take a look at Ron Jeremy (if you can stand to do so, LOL). His cock appeared to be much bigger when he was young and in shape than it does now. And I believe he is one of the guys who is truly over 9".
I read an article online that states the average male porn actor is about 7.5".
You've obviously missed the point of it all. Quit acting like a smug and superior prick. Your constant need to brag about yourself is fucking irritating me.
If you really knew how to fuck, why do you ask so many gawddamn questions?? Shouldn't you just automatically know?
You seem like a nice guy, but damn dude. Quit trying so fucking hard!
Thank you and Merry Christmas. I'll cover this one!
Quote by SereneProdigy Jealous? I'm not jealous at all : he's the one that would be if we met. Okay I'll compare myself to him :
His superiority :
- 1 inch or so more than me cock wise (like I care!)
My superiority :
- Fitter than he his, which is advantageous both looks wise and performance wise
- Better cunnilingus abilities than him, until proven otherwise in a scene
- Cumshots twice as big as his
- I'm a romantic ; you have no idea what a romantic can do in the name of love
All of which being actually very true and serious.
I think your quote right here is a perfect example why women like him. I could never imagine him saying something like this. He's comfortable and confident with who he is. He doesn't need to ram it down people's throats about how sexy he is, how fit he is, how big his dick is, or or how great he is at giving oral. His actions do all the talking.
Quote by Dancing_Doll It's his attitude... he fucks girls the way they want to be fucked. As far as typical male porn stars go, he's quite intense and he knows dominant rough sex while still maintaining the passion and connection, rather than seeming detached, douchey or just in it for himself.
He is definitely not the typical porn star as far as looks go - I think he's on the shorter side and pretty lean so he's not the usual big, beefy guy you tend to see in porn, but that probably makes him more relatable to women as well. As you mentioned, he comes off like a fun guy too, so there's personality attraction. That might make more of a difference with women responding to male porn stars. Guys are probably drawn to the hottest girl, but male porn stars are a dime a dozen and they rarely feel distinctive or memorable. James Deen has done all the right things as far as marketing himself and coming across as a guy that would be fun to both fuck and hang out with.
He also has a big dick. Apparently the dildo modeled after him is a monster - I remember reading reviews where women who purchased it were overwhelmed by the size. I haven't seen it in person but it looks interesting.
Could not have said it better myself! I have read a few interviews, behind the scenes type stuff and he is NOT you typical porn star. He is respectful of his co-workers, truly loves his job of course it helps he is handsome!
As for the dildo, I have seen it, but have not conquered it and am damn sure I couldn't.
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