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is it as easy as it looks to give a man oral sex?
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Active Ink Slinger
depends if u wanna give him good oral sex or just ordinary oral sex imo but the basics are pretty simple lol
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its hard untill your good at it i could do it in my sleep now lol
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becuase im here to be somebodys best friend
tell me your secrets
becuase im here to be somebodys best friend
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Use your hands as well as your mouth. As you take him in and out of your mouth, using your hands in a twisting motion has always worked well for me. And as has already been said, ask what he likes. Alternate fast and slow and use your tongue on the underside as you suck.
You have a big advantage over us women really. You know how it feels and what you like so you can always just do what you lije having done to you!!
You have a big advantage over us women really. You know how it feels and what you like so you can always just do what you lije having done to you!!
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No it is not. It takes practice and study which brings easiness : ) Of course it is the willingness and journey that counts for most.
Torture the data long enough and they will confess to anything.
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come on girls, its easy! worshipping the cock is all about your enthusiasms. Dont be scared of it. Just grab hold and show him why he has the sexiest joystick you ever saw. also you both might want to tie one on first. after some shots and you are rolling with a good buzz, the skill bit is way less important when it comes to getting off. he will just be glad to have a warm mouth on his dick. Giggles.
xx B.
xx B.
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Are we really that easy? It has been a long time since I've gotten some head. But in my younger days I did receive some pretty shitty blowjobs. It that better than no blowjob? Probably.
When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser. Socrates
Advanced Wordsmith
The worst blow job I ever had was wonderful!
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It is not easy BUT it is a lot of fun leaning how to do it right. Just listen to his reactions and you will learn quickly Some guys like different techniques BUT that all oove oral sex>
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i'm very bi-curious, and could use advise since i've not been on the giving end of a BJ yet.0tjYFmGNFzaYnuQi
Try sucking your own cock for practice,
the extra stretching, and heavy breathing will assit you in your first perfect blow job, I'm sure of?
Think like a woman, and take it as deep as you can,
then try swirling your tounge, an git ready to swallow!
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Actually, there's some pretty bad advice in these replies. Having been on the receiving end of some of the suggestions here, I can't help myself - so here goes!
First and foremost; if someone is willing to go down on me, I really do appreciate it. If it's done with skill, care and passion, chances are I'll buy you a house...
It's called a blowjob. It's not called a "handjob while letting the head rest in your mouth." How would you gals feel if your guy rested his chin on top of your vulva and then pumped his finger in and out for a while? Would you give him credit for "giving you head" for that? Didn't think so...
So, use your mouth, tongue, lips... use your hands to complement them, sure. But remember, for this show your mouth is the star.
Next, when did this "twisting hand job" become a good thing? One gal did this to me and damn near did me a permanent injury! I thought she was trying to unscrew my dick and take it home with her. Maybe she was too enthusiastic, or was doing it wrong, but gawd I was chaffed up for days afterward.
I dunno, maybe it's just me; but I think attitude has a lot to do with it. Think about the best head you've gotten. Most of the time it's not about a magic technique (although being able to "deep throat" is a definite exception to that), if your partner is going down on you and is actually making love to your pussy (or cock) it tends to make it better, doesn't it?
Anyway, there's my advice. It's prolly worth everything you paid for it.
Oh yeah, one last thing. You should only spit on me if you actually WANT me to punch you in the head.
First and foremost; if someone is willing to go down on me, I really do appreciate it. If it's done with skill, care and passion, chances are I'll buy you a house...
It's called a blowjob. It's not called a "handjob while letting the head rest in your mouth." How would you gals feel if your guy rested his chin on top of your vulva and then pumped his finger in and out for a while? Would you give him credit for "giving you head" for that? Didn't think so...
So, use your mouth, tongue, lips... use your hands to complement them, sure. But remember, for this show your mouth is the star.
Next, when did this "twisting hand job" become a good thing? One gal did this to me and damn near did me a permanent injury! I thought she was trying to unscrew my dick and take it home with her. Maybe she was too enthusiastic, or was doing it wrong, but gawd I was chaffed up for days afterward.
I dunno, maybe it's just me; but I think attitude has a lot to do with it. Think about the best head you've gotten. Most of the time it's not about a magic technique (although being able to "deep throat" is a definite exception to that), if your partner is going down on you and is actually making love to your pussy (or cock) it tends to make it better, doesn't it?
Anyway, there's my advice. It's prolly worth everything you paid for it.
Oh yeah, one last thing. You should only spit on me if you actually WANT me to punch you in the head.
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As long as you are enthusiastic and enjoying what you're doing (and watching your teeth) I think the guy will almost always love it. The rest you can learn as you go 
If you seem hesitant or reluctant he might not think you're really into it. Then he won't be relaxed enough to give you the feedback you need to get better. If you show him you're having fun, then he will have fun guiding you and showing you what he really likes.
If you seem hesitant or reluctant he might not think you're really into it. Then he won't be relaxed enough to give you the feedback you need to get better. If you show him you're having fun, then he will have fun guiding you and showing you what he really likes.
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Quote by LittleMissBitchQuote by scooter
Try sucking your own cock for practice,
can u do it scooter? ;)
I can't littlemiss, but that's what the wifes for
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Quote by LittleMissBitchQuote by scooterQuote by LittleMissBitchQuote by scooter
Try sucking your own cock for practice,
can u do it scooter? ;)
I can't littlemiss, but that's what the wifes for
aha! you know...if you had said yes i might have had to drive out for a look see ;)
If you drive out for a look-see little Miss,
I'll give it the old boy scout try
I agree with most of these ladies. As long as you want to do it and let him know you're into it, he'll love it =)
Just a few tips
-try and incorperate your tongue and hands whenever possible
-eye contact and moans are usually very very sexy
-dont be afaid to ask what he like andd dislikes
-Most Importantly: Enjoy yourself =)
Just a few tips
-try and incorperate your tongue and hands whenever possible
-eye contact and moans are usually very very sexy
-dont be afaid to ask what he like andd dislikes
-Most Importantly: Enjoy yourself =)
Active Ink Slinger
I find it to be very easy .. I like to give a slow, sensual, "drive-him-crazy" bj. Some girls like to give sloppy, wet fast ones, some give violent bjs (pretty common on porn I've seen - very loud, gagging, lots of spit, lots of violent head bobbing ) .... but I like giving a nice slow one - I talk to my friend as I give it, I listen to him talk, I get really in tune with his body language .... Its a lot of fun.
The things to remember 1) watch out for your teeth, especially if you're giving a fast one, 2) watch your own head if you're giving it in a car, 3) its a great way to have sexy fun with your friend at his house or yours or your parents house, without making a lot of noise... 4) take a break and take the cock out of your mouth often - its easy to get a cramp in your jaw, then the fun is gone ...
The things to remember 1) watch out for your teeth, especially if you're giving a fast one, 2) watch your own head if you're giving it in a car, 3) its a great way to have sexy fun with your friend at his house or yours or your parents house, without making a lot of noise... 4) take a break and take the cock out of your mouth often - its easy to get a cramp in your jaw, then the fun is gone ...
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Like anything it takes practice to be good, but it's pretty straight forward.