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If you had a second chance would you still lose your virginity to the same man?

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I would say no. Not because I hate him, but because I was not mentally prepared to do so, but was guilted into it. I didn't want it to be "magical" or have a specific scenario in mind. But I wanted to be ready. I wanted to be confident and completely into it. I wanted to crave his touch and being. And I didn't. So it was very lack luster, and a negative experience for me.
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It's a good question.....I probably would.
He was a lot older than me and knew what he was doing.
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yes he was my dads coworker he was hot
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Lol no he didn't deserve this pussy
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Never, it was horrible..
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Definitely. I had a great first time, no lie.
Princess Popsicle
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No, I wouldn't. The guy I lost my virginity to turned out to be married with three young kids, something I found out from his wife when she called me.

The emotional scarring was a downer and honestly, the sex wasn't great.
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I think so.
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No I would not. The guy I lost my virginity to was very special to me. He and I are still friends too. I was his first and he mine. The moment was special and still a fond memory. I knew he cared for me and that I was just not another notch on his bed post.
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I would, but would just change a few things
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Absolutely. He was a good guy, and we still catch up from time to time. He insists he was so bad at it that he drove me to girls, and I think it's cute. He was actually awesome and a great friend. I was able to apply some meaning and memory to the experience without going overboard searching for unicorns and rainbows and magic and all that extra emotional stuff that makes girls question if they did it right.
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I could have done so much better!
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Knowing what i know now...probably not...probably not even to a man. However, the past is the past and cannot be undone sad
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Most definitely, he was/is a great man and we are still good friends.
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oh hell no!
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My first thought was 'yes', but then I read a comment telling that it would have been nice to save it for her current boyfriend, and I could agree with that. I don't regret my first time, but indeed, having met a truly special man now, I might change it and have him take it.
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Not at all
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Was to my husband, so after all these years was I right. Not sure
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YES MOST DEFINITELY!!!!
We still keep in touch and have on occasions see each other despite being married xoxoxo
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no, it took me a lot to get over him and frankly, was no where near worth it
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The first thought that came to me when reading the question was....why stop at a second chance? What would we do if we were a virgin everyday?
Getting back to the original question....probably not!
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Actually I lost mine to a woman. I wouldn't have it any other way.
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no way in hell
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Hell yeah I would. He made my first time incredibly special and was..is such a good guy. We're still good friends smile
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Absolutely!
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I really dislike the term "lost my virginity". It implies that the act might have been a mistake or you misplaced something important somewhere. I gifted my virginity to a very special man. He won my heart and was so very gentle and caring. He made me into the vibrant woman I am today. If I had to do it all over again, I would have begged him to make love to me so much sooner than we did. Of course he would have guided me to wait until I was sure, just like he did 18 years ago. I am still with him to this day and he still surprises me. I love you Master.