I really need some help here. I'm 22 and I have no clue what to say. Its not that I'm scared or nervous or anything like that; I can introduce myself and exchange pleasantries but beyond that, I completely blank with no idea what to say next. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
NUMQUAM FIDES CATELLUS!!!
Just be open and friendly and ask her about things that matter. Let her know you are interested in her not only trying to get between her legs.
I do not know about all the other woman out there, but you will have my attention.
Thank you, this is really helpful.
NUMQUAM FIDES CATELLUS!!!
Don't make the convoy about you unless she asks you something show her that she has your full attention with eye contact not perming at her body but most of all relax and be yourself
Honestly - just talk to us like we're normal people - probably not that different than you would talk to a guy. Just add a bit of light flirting now and then, but don't focus on the final goal (ie. dating or sex) right away. Just be casual. Talk about events going on in your city, common friends you might have. If you meet a girl in a sports bar, you can talk to her about whatever's on. Ask her questions about herself - people love to talk about themselves - what they like, where they've traveled, where they want to go, what movie they last saw or want to see etc. Check out some of the random (non-sexual) questions that are popular on these forums and use those as ice-breakers. You don't have to worry about being a playa or super clever. It's always best to be natural - keep it light and fun and joke around a bit. It's just about breaking down that initial guard that tends to be up when we meet new people. I find humour is the fastest and easiest way to get the conversation flowing and vibe established.
Find out your common interests if there are any and flow on with that as an ice breaker. If she's interested in you, it will show and from there the stage is all yours. If she's not into you or there's a lack of common interest, then simply take it in stride and move forward. Easier said than done.. but shit happens!
There's no magic formula but you should do as Dancing Doll has advised, and have some 'set-pieces' to fall back on - that way you'll be able to fill uncomfortable silences.
Another alternative is to change where you're meeting these girls. Doing some kind of activity means you've got something in common before you start talking.
It gets easier with practice and you'll just click when you meet the right woman.
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