How to find my first sex date

23 Jun 2019

Ok gals this a crazy n prolly stupid question but my wife passed three yrs ago i havent had sex in ten yrs and never been on date with other women. How do i find a woman without paying for escort of course thats open to within first few dates just having some fun pls be gentle with the answers im still trying to figure out how to ask women out?

23 Jun 2019

I would think the problem is more the dating issue than the Sex issue. You have been out of the dating world for many years it seems. You need to meet people and more people closer to your age. I know there are lots of women out there that are interested in sex. Maybe not the first date, but soon.

I am married and still go out looking for strange men from time to time. I have no relationship interest just sex.

It sounds like you are in need of someone more permanent than me.

24 Jun 2019

Ty for your advice i will def keep it in mind. Right now be honest i really dont want a permanent relationship unless it turned i to that, but like i mentioned i raised two children and married all my life and those last ten yrs my wife was super sick n i had our room fixed up like a hospital room n retired to take care of her n please dont get me wrong i would do it a thousand times over, but now that im on my own i kinda wanna figure put what i want out of life next before having to consider a mates life in my decisions. Lol i do know i for sure dont wanna wait on the sex until i find a ltr, i love the feel of a womans body as i hug n tease her n very much miss that as well as the better parts of being able to just let loose in the bedroom. I very much appreciate you taking time to reply to my question gives me something to think about.

24 Jun 2019

As the other posted suggested. Socialising could be a good way forward even if its just for platonic friendships. We see regularly a very fit and good looking 78 year old guy on our night out circuit and usually ends up in the same night club/cabaret club for the over 30s. In respect of his late wife he will not form any long lasting relationships with other women but does enjoy a night out socialising with them and perhaps escorts them to their awaiting taxi after. He has spent some time with my Mrs socialising of which I do not mind as I trust them both . For the sex side of things you could try getting a Fuck Buddy. The F word isn't a word I like using but is correct in this context . Its is sometimes shortened to FB or F Buddy . You will need to do some digging on the internet for details of local hook ups etc. I have never used one but I dare say others would be better placed should you need any further details on this topic.

24 Jun 2019

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As the other posted suggested. Socialising could be a good way forward even if its just for platonic friendships. We see regularly a very fit and good looking 78 year old guy on our night out circuit and usually ends up in the same night club/cabaret club for the over 30s. In respect of his late wife he will not form any long lasting relationships with other women but does enjoy a night out socialising with them and perhaps escorts them to their awaiting taxi after. He has spent some time with my Mrs socialising of which I do not mind as I trust them both . For the sex side of things you could try getting a Fuck Buddy. The F word isn't a word I like using but is correct in this context . Its is sometimes shortened to FB or F Buddy . You will need to do some digging on the internet for details of local hook ups etc. I have never used one but I dare say others would be better placed should you need any further details on this topic.

Fuck Buddy is no longer a derogatory term among the Sexually Active with Multiple Partners. Now should it happen that you are out at a drinking establishment and see a woman that is there alone and after 30 minutes or so he has not had a friend join her. There a very good chances she is looking to meet someone.

Now if you or any other guy in the bar increases her libido enough to the point that she will go to the closet hotel or not you can only try.

Now if you were in your 20 or 30's I would be telling you the check out the nearest Club, most every one there either brought their sex partner with them or are seeking a partner. Even those that have a partner with them, sometimes there is trading going on. This may not be a place that you are comfortable in.

You may have Swing Clubs in your area that allow Single Men to attend. Some are Couples only and some are not. Most clubs have people of all ages and types.