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I am 5'8" and I don't have a problem with a woman's height. I did always enjoy slow dancing with a woman that is taller than me!
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How important is a man's height?
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one of the reasons ive seen that the women posting are looking for a taller guy was to feel safe and secure, what if the short guy say 5'4 was really strong and you felt safe with him, does that help you get past the short factor?
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I am 5'7 .... I like my man over 6 feet.
I love to wear heels and really, don't want to look down on my man.
Besides, what man at 5'4" could toss me over his shoulders ..... or hold me up against the wall in a passion fuck??
Of course, I could be friends with a man shorter than me .... but honestly, the men I date are taller, for a good reason.
I love to wear heels and really, don't want to look down on my man.
Besides, what man at 5'4" could toss me over his shoulders ..... or hold me up against the wall in a passion fuck??
Of course, I could be friends with a man shorter than me .... but honestly, the men I date are taller, for a good reason.
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I feel very welcome in this thread haha
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Height doesn't really matter, so long as they're not shorter than me. That'd be quite sad if I was dating a guy shorter than 5'2". 
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I'm 5'3 and I do not like for my guy to be shorter than me it's just no fun. I think 5'5 is a good height. No I would not catagorize them with another man that is unattractive in some other way. It's not that short guys turn me off or is a deal breaker. I just personally enjoy a man that can pick me up and fuck me. Being short causes problems for that position.
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I want my guys to be at least a few inches taller than me. I'm only 5'2, so that hasn't been a real problem.
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Are we talking about the height of his cock,
While he's layin on his back ????
Melissa xx
While he's layin on his back ????
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Think I should just give up on life then. 
I kid, I'm awesome regardless of my height. However I have to agree that it definitely is a disadvantage. More so in the club scene than anything else though.
I'm 5'4. I'm fairly attractive, overly confident and I can dance well. Despite this, I find it more difficult to "pick up" women on the dancefloor than in any other situation...period. Having said that, because of my fun an energetic nature, I've been able to "attract" women...in the sense where they'd literally follow me around the dancefloor. But this is much less a physical attraction and more to do with me projecting a "popular" and "important person" vibe. Despite this attraction, many girls still won't dance with me...like I said it isn't a physical attraction, they just try to leech off the attention I create. Lol.
Now, if we step away from the dancefloor, my height disadvantage is GREATLY reduced. I have been rejected on a dancefloor by many women, only to get a hook up or a number from the same women outside, or in the smokers area or pretty much any place where my conversational prowess makes me the alpha male, regardless how puny I am.
So all in all, having first hand experience, I agree that it is a fairly big disadvantage for a guy to be short. Especially in scenes where physical attraction is dominant. As well as I do with women, I strongly believe that more than 50%(at least) of the women that have rejected me, was because of my height.
If you are a short guy reading this, don't feel too bad. As big of a role as physical attraction plays in initial sexual attraction, that's usually about as far as it goes. I've seen hundreds of taller guys have very attractive women dance with them all night, only to ruin all the attraction they built as soon as they walk out of the club and open their mouth. Just remember, there are different "types" of attraction. Physical attraction is only one type and all though it is fairly important (anyone who says otherwise is simply naive), it usually has very little purpose beyond initial attraction.
I kid, I'm awesome regardless of my height. However I have to agree that it definitely is a disadvantage. More so in the club scene than anything else though.
I'm 5'4. I'm fairly attractive, overly confident and I can dance well. Despite this, I find it more difficult to "pick up" women on the dancefloor than in any other situation...period. Having said that, because of my fun an energetic nature, I've been able to "attract" women...in the sense where they'd literally follow me around the dancefloor. But this is much less a physical attraction and more to do with me projecting a "popular" and "important person" vibe. Despite this attraction, many girls still won't dance with me...like I said it isn't a physical attraction, they just try to leech off the attention I create. Lol.
Now, if we step away from the dancefloor, my height disadvantage is GREATLY reduced. I have been rejected on a dancefloor by many women, only to get a hook up or a number from the same women outside, or in the smokers area or pretty much any place where my conversational prowess makes me the alpha male, regardless how puny I am.
So all in all, having first hand experience, I agree that it is a fairly big disadvantage for a guy to be short. Especially in scenes where physical attraction is dominant. As well as I do with women, I strongly believe that more than 50%(at least) of the women that have rejected me, was because of my height.
If you are a short guy reading this, don't feel too bad. As big of a role as physical attraction plays in initial sexual attraction, that's usually about as far as it goes. I've seen hundreds of taller guys have very attractive women dance with them all night, only to ruin all the attraction they built as soon as they walk out of the club and open their mouth. Just remember, there are different "types" of attraction. Physical attraction is only one type and all though it is fairly important (anyone who says otherwise is simply naive), it usually has very little purpose beyond initial attraction.
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Sadly I will never date a guy shorter then. This gets hard since I'm 5.7. Most of my friends think the same thing. But there are short girls out there who will like a guy around 5.5. Easier to kiss lol
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Height doesn't matter to me.
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Height is not a problem. Especially if he can give me the fairy tale.
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I'm 5' 1 and a 1/4", and so far, every man I have met in life has been taller than me. An initial physical looks head-turner for me is somebody who is slightly wider than most other lasses go for, but it doesn't happen very often. I don't mind what a lad looks like if I was thinking about fancying him, as long as he's kind, laughs a lot, and thinks farting is funny. 
Having said that, if I did meet somebody who was shorter than me and I liked him, I would be terrified of flattening him, unless he told me he likes being flattened, in which case, it would be fine. 
Having said that, if I did meet somebody who was shorter than me and I liked him, I would be terrified of flattening him, unless he told me he likes being flattened, in which case, it would be fine. Ut incepit fidelis, sic permanet.
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Easier to dance salsa and rock if he's taller than me ! That's the only moment it might be important ...
Except when I can't reach the chocolate box !
Except when I can't reach the chocolate box !
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As a vertically challenged lass, I must say a man's height is extremely important. The vast majority of men who are drawn to me tend to be 6 foot or over, which is much too tall.
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I'm 5'3 , my men have to be at least as tall as me 5'5 is no problem send the poor guy my way!!!
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I like taller men. I'm about 5'5, and the guy has to be over 5'10. I couldn't date a shorter guy.
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I love a taller man, I'm 5' 4 and my preference is 6'+. It's not a hard and fast rule, I regularly bend it a little, and for the right person I'm sure it wouldn't be a deal breaker.
There is just something so lovely about having to stand on your tip toes for a kiss, or your having your head pressed against his chest as he holds you to him.
There is just something so lovely about having to stand on your tip toes for a kiss, or your having your head pressed against his chest as he holds you to him.
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I'm only 5'1'" so most guys are taller than me, but I would not be very interested in gin a guy that was shorter than me.
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i'm about 5'2 (average as an asian), and i do want my man to be taller, at least 4inches or more than me. why? coz i'm a girl that want to wear pretty high heels shoes now n then. and somehow i found man shorter or on equal height to me can be very intimidating, coz they can look "cuter" than me, if u get what i mean. of course, i mostly want to feel protected, and i dont get the feeling when i'm with them, unfortunately.
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Same as sillyndelicious. I do like my guy to be taller than me. At least 5 or so inches taller if possible. Thankfully I'm also pretty short 5'1" so most guys here in the US are tall enough for it to not bug me. I did know one guy who was only 5'2". And he was a REALLY nice guy and quite interested in me for a bit. But it just didn't work. If I put my heels on I was a good 4-6 inches taller than him. It was just too weird. I felt like a jerk, but I just couldn't get over the height difference.
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Well I have to agree that I like a guy that is taller than me. However for me thats not hard to do. I'm 4"11 there aren't many men shorter than that... but i did go pretty tall as my husband is 6"5 but id also like to say there are stigma against men that tall.. I know a lot of women who want the perfect height which is normally 5-6 inches taller
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Well me being 5 feet tall... I just want the man to be taller then me ya know. But I usually like then at least a foot taller then me (: I liked to be picked up and tossed around like a rag doll
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Hey people first I think this a stupid question, second some of you are looking at this the wrong way tall or
short if he love you isn't that what counts.
short if he love you isn't that what counts.
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if he love you isn't that what counts.
Not if I'm not attracted to him.
It's a nice sentiment, but preferences aren't voluntary. We can't help what we gravitate toward.
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i wld like to know from two men,one 5'3'' tall sporting a 11 inches cock and the other 6'4'' tall with a 6 inches cock, which one do women find more attractive.
Trying to sound cool. Too much work left.
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i wld like to know from two men,one 5'3'' tall sporting a 11 inches cock and the other 6'4'' tall with a 6 inches cock, which one do women find more attractive.
Trying to sound cool. Too much work left.
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i wld like to know from two men,one 5'3'' tall sporting a 11 inches cock and the other 6'4'' tall with a 6 inches cock, which one do women find more attractive.
Omg, give me the 6'4 inch guy with the 6 inch cock. No question there.
Who would want any guy with an 11 inch cock? Yikes.
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i wld like to know from two men,one 5'3'' tall sporting a 11 inches cock and the other 6'4'' tall with a 6 inches cock, which one do women find more attractive.
11"? no, no. Put that thing away!
Hello...6'4" stud. (pulls him by his 6" tool with a smile)