I've never had a ton of luck getting a guy off when I go down on him. I get him almost there, and then I have to finish him with my hands or let him fuck me. It's a problem for my ego, mostly, but I'd love to know the answer.
I know guys are different just like girls, and that there isn't just one answer, but I would love to be able to make a guy cum in my mouth and watch his face contort. Thanks to anybody who can help.
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There really isn't a tutorial. Every guy is different. You need good suction. Lick, suck, slurp, repeat...not necessarily in that order. Let your hands and mouth work as a team. Pay attention to the tip...unless your guy is overly sensitive in that area. Then making him cum that way would be a cheap shot (no pun intended). Also, try asking your guy what he likes in a blowjob. Let him talk you through it...that in and of itself would be a turn-on for him.
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Focus your lips and tongue on the underside of his head. It is my one way that works on guys.
I can only speak to what I like... so. I definitely enjoy the feeling of deep throat or at least an attempt at it. I also enjoy the feeling of control of holding her hair, and luckily my wife likes that, though one of my exes did not at all. Including the balls in some (careful) massaging, including the pud as well. Suck, stroke with the hand, massage the scrotum...
But nothing makes up for enthusiasm and a woman that you can tell REALLY wants to get you off with her mouth. I have talked about it with MANY men, and we can tell when a woman wants nothing else than to have your cock in her mouth and when she is just doing it to be nice. Now, I have been able to get off from the later, but I certainly prefer it when the giver loves what they're doing.
The thing that has always helped me is building a rhythm. If I have a song in my head it helps because I can do the sucking, stroking, licking, sucking, slurping, around that rhythm. Follow all of the above but a rhythm verses awkward random movements can help a guy climax more than anything else. OHH, and DO use your tongue while your sucking. Kinda incorporate it with the suction and stroke to enhance everything.
When you think your guy is getting close, use your hands and mouth in unison. For me, I like her to make her mouth like a pussy and fuck my dick with it. Too much attention on the tip will prevent me from cumming. It's too sensitive. But whit a mouth pussy, it isnt' a problem. Like Nurse said, keep a rhythm. When i'm getting close, the same rhythmic up and down on my cock is the ticket. A hand at the base of my cock moving in time with her mouth is an added bonus as it gives me the sensation of being fully inside her mouth.
When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser. Socrates Use your hands and mouth together. Some people call that a "cheaters blow job" but guys love it. Also while you are sucking him, pay attention to his reactions when you are sucking the head, licking the underside, fondling his balls, etc and then pay more attention to the ares which seem to please him more.
I love to take his cock in my mouth and lick the underside with my tongue while its sliding in and out of my mouth. But that takes practice to get the rhythm down. Deep throating works well for me also, but again it takes practice.
I ask my BF what he wants me to do and do it. A blowjob is a joint sex act and a guy should be giving lots of feedback so a girl knows when she's doing well - perhaps a groan is good whilst an 'errr' is bad. I use hands, mouth then hands and mouth together. Repeat. The underside of the head is the most sensitive area but the key thing to remember is that cocks get bored quickly so keep changing what you're doing, gradually going faster and harder. Play games, use words - telling a guy how much you want to taste his cum works wonders.
I have never had such a problem, but the area under the cock and just behind the head is very sensitive.
Gosh girl if your are intimate enough to have his cock in your mouth, are you not intimate enough to ask how best to make him cum? Guys you can help also.
There’s a number of techniques you can use, most of which have already been mentioned. The key is friction and finding where he likes it applied to. When he’s inside you and getting close he will get harder and faster because he needs that last extra bit of friction and stimulation to the head to reach orgasm.
Flicking the tongue faster and faster on the underside of the head usually does the trick or speeding up the backward and forward movement of your head as it slips in and out of your mouth.
Or if you like it or don’t mind him doing it you can let him take over when he gets closer by putting a hand behind your head or grabbing a handful of your hair and thrusting in and out of your mouth until he cums.
Also don’t forget you can add to his excitement by giving him visual stimulation as well. Whether he’s lying on his back, sitting down or standing up make sure he can look down and see his cock disappearing into your mouth. If you have long hair fasten it back in a ponytail, that way your hair won’t spoil his view and it gives him something to grab onto. Bright red lipstick can also work very well. Some guys love eye contact as well whilst you’re doing it.
Ask him about some of these and the other ideas suggested to you and find out what will work for him.
Better still have lots of fun experimenting with as many ideas as possible.
On the other hand there may well be nothing wrong with what your'e already doing. If your boyfriend has been lashing down the booze all evening then he will either be harder work or simply won’t cum. Which is his fault not yours.
Suck,lick the shaft and lick around the head as your sucking cup and play with his balls
It's not an intimacy problem. It's an articulation problem. It's not super relevant at the moment, but the guy I used to work on was just not very communicative. Kind of a deer-in-the-headlights about getting a blowjob, so I wanted to ask around. Thanks for the advice everybody!
It does help immensely IF the guy communicates to you what feels good and what doesn't. I have always acted more selfish. I relish the opportunity to give head. I savor it. I've not had any complaints either. I figure that if a person enjoys giving oral, the recipient will more than likely be quite satisfied.
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When you are giving him your head, juzz press his balls to make him cum!
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I have to agree with HighDesert My wife absolutely loves to give head, hence one of the reasons I married her. Nothing thrills me more than seeing a woman with her lips wrapped around my cock that absolutely loves what she is doing. Oral sex is one of the most intimate things you can do to the other person. Why it is called a blow job is beyond me. I guess because so many women treat it as just that a job. If you don’t love the feel of your man’s Throbbing Cock in your Sweet and Sexy mouth please don’t bother. Learn to desire the feel of every ridge and vein as it glides across your tongue and lips. My wife loves how my cock feels when I flex and my cock grows that extra girth. Also ladies the underneath of the head is great but too many times there is not enough attention paid to the underside of base. Also too much stimulation on the head can sometimes can cause the man not to be able to reach climax. There is nothing is worse than a bad blow job. Ladies if you are doing it right, then there is no way he can help but to vocalize his deep appreciation.
I'm a little slow would anyone care to demonstrate?
very wet lips, suck him slow at first tease him, grind his dick with my hands while my tongue flutters over his head, I can make my tongue vibrate and I deep throat and that's just a few of my secrets. sssshhhhh
Anything you think is sweet, I'm a little more than that.
O .. M and OMG !!!! I got damn excited just reading that !! down boy down !!
If you want cum then its a two handed job, one on his cock and one under his balls, never fails but dont forget to tighten your lips around the flange on his 'head' lol
I have found that first of all, you have to like giving head and really get into it to get him to cum. I love to suck hard....I liken it to sucking a thick milkshake through a straw. Also suck on his balls but not as strongly..The other place i love to lick and play with is the little patch of skin between his balls and his asshole....that is usually a very errongenous zone for most men...at least it was for my husband. I will also play with his ass while I suck on him. I have been told it makes their orgasm stronger.
All of the above is true. The underside of a guy's cock gets a moan for sure so it must be the most sensitive part. But the one thing to take him over the edge is not all just the touch. Guys are mostly visual so make sure you are in a position where he can watch you sucking him. Use a lot of eye contact and and let him see how much you are enjoying his cock in your mouth. You might even say sexy things to him and just tell him you want him to cum in your mouth when you feel he is close. Don't just suck him...give him a show!
Ladies, there is no one correct answer or technique, but I'll tell you what does it for me... it's as much mental as physical. Fucking the mind while you're sucking dick is a magic combination. My first regular gf, 19 years old, was the best. She would mostly do some nasty talking, licking and tickling with her tongue in strategic places and this girl would have me ready to blow before she ever gave it a full stroke or took it into her mouth. Seriously! Part of it was surely that it was the first time I was with someone who was sensually attuned, but it was also about her knowing how to flip my switch. She would hold me right at the point of needing to cum so bad, pre-cum oozing all over, and the longer she held me there the more intense the explosion when it finally happened. My favorite way for her to finish, when she knew I was really ready––and she always knew, she would finally take it deep slowly and hold for a few seconds, then back off slowly and sensually place the tip of her tongue into the tip and wiggle it in a circular motion. I never knew it could be so intense, and have never had anyone do it as well as her. Makes me want to look her up.
The secrets are speed, pressure, and following his body language. The best position for this BJ is you kneeling between his legs with him laying down, sitting up, or standing. Also, for a fast cum, you need to use hands and mouth together, as one... ;) Start off slow and gentle engulfing him in your mouth and smoothly take him as far into your mouth/throat as is comfortable following your mouth with your hand (make sure it is wet) and basically follow your mouth with your hand all the while rotating your wrist/fist a half turn left and a half turn right, cover your teeth with your lips and don't feel shy about getting a little slobbery, get him lubed up with your mouth and then increase the pressure with your hands and lips gently. (FOLLOW HIS CUES, EVERY MAN IS DIFFERENT!!!!!)
If you are doing things right you will feel him harden even more in your mouth. Use your other hand and reach down to cup his boys. Massage them gently with one hand while you continue your oral assault with your mouth and other hand. Maintain the speed you get the best reaction from and don't forget to use that tongue against his cock. When he is about to cum... DON'T SLOW DOWN OR BACK OFF!!! Finish the job ladies! ;)
Okay, now I am horny and wishing my man were here.
You can always stick a finger or dildo up my ass at the same time. That does a number on me.
Lick and suck while rubbing the head of his cock.
