Quote by sprite
since the questions was HOW, personally, i prefer a PM - that said, the how part of it is very important. if you're contacting me for the first time, please don't start it out with pictures of your cock, links to pictures of your cock, or really, any pix at all - also, don't say anything to me you wouldn't say to a girl you just met at a dinner party - i don't want to be hit on or called a honey, babe, or slut - be respectful - also, don't send me text speak messages - send an actual letter. sometimes it pays to read a persons bio so you have an idea what interests them and feed off of that - a shared love of a movie, a book, a sport, a hobby, that kind of thing - if you treat me like a person, not a sex object, you're more likely to get a reply
Yes
I'd prefer a PM as well ;P