I once rode one that was as big around as a coke can. It took a long time to work it in and my pussy was sore and serously stretched-out for almost a week. That one bordered on too big. For the record, it belonged to a middle-aged white guy. I've had a few that were longer, both black and white, but none that came close to his girth. I could barely get the head in my mouth.
Out of interest (having never had any cock inside me), does a big cock feel better when it's black?
I can almost understand that people might find a big black cock more aesthetically pleasing than, say, a big white cock, but I find it hard to believe that a black cock would be more enjoyable to fuck than a cock of a different colour but of the same size.
I prefer anything over 6 and with some girth. 9 inches is the biggest real cock I have had. He left me so sore that I didnt wanted to go to the ladies room for a couple of day. I absolutely loved every minute of it.zpADVQ7l3RDyK3pI
I think 7 to 7 1/2 is all I need. More than that, I think would just be too much. And it doesn't matter what the color.
I've had enough guys to know what is average. Lucky you if the guys you've fucked 'average' 8-9". That's about the largest I've ever encountered, and even that long will be a stretch internally! Most of my guys have been between 5-7". I'm happiest with 7 and-a-half to 8 inches. Makes me wonder if you're measuring from the mons side or the perineum side. ...not that I carry a tape measure around with me for such determinations. lol
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I'd say anything above 7 inches is big. Also, I don't mind small cocks, not every man is blessed with a massive pornstar dick just like I'm not blessed with DD's. Diversity is a nice thing to have.
For what my opinion is worth, I think girth is important but not Coke can size and length is nice, 7-8" being optimum for me but lets face it the average guy is 5-6" and the really important thing is does he know what the is doing with what ever he has?! A big cock is not the be all/end all of sex. Experience/knowledge is what counts. Can he make me cum, lots, before he does? That guy is the winner.
Those who find size difficult to judge should carry a tape measure or ruler, and then enjoy the measuring experience.
The basic problem is that for years men have been telling ladies that this:
!----------------------------! is between six and eight inches long.
i've never been a size queen. guess it's because i've never been with a guy who's crazy huge. i've found that around 6-7 inches is perfect. i don't really have the desire to try bigger, but if the fella i'm digging IS bigger, i'll give it a go.
EDIT: just saw where the OP said that we all don't like small cocks. i have to disagree. some women may prefer them due to being petite themselves, or simply because it's easier to give them oral.
I think my favourite length is about six inches just because then you don't have to fear getting hurt in any position and it's still large enough. Big to me is anything over seven to eight inches but then I'm a tiny person.
"A dirty book is rarely dusty"
I think it's a wonder men are still using imperial units to measure their dicks. Doesn't 18 centimetres sound more impressive than 7 inches?
Well...the smallest ive fucked was 4-5 inches and biggest was around 9. I didn't find much pleasure in the smaller penises...maybe he just didn't know how to use his equipment? But the 9" hurt like a motherfucker! Ive found the most pleasurable size for me is a cock I can't quite fit my hands around and around 6-7 inches. **sighs happily**