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Clumeleon
I recommend reading some of our existing masturbation stories written by women, to give you a feel for what works/feels right to you.
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I am not a writer but I read some where that the rule of thumb for writing is to write about what you know. Why not just write one about yourself (a man) masterbating? I think that you could pull that one off more convincingly -pun intended.
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Very thankful to all the mods for the help and special thanks to buz
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To all girls, I'm trying to write a masturbation story, from a girls point of view and was hoping for any really good pointers on how I should write it, any help would be appreciated.
While reading masturbation stories by women would be ideal.
Women like me - well - we don't get stories. I don't even write stories for how I masturbate because I find it to be boring for story writing.
While I love playing with toys - I can only do so when alone (husband's away) to masturbate.
Most of the time - for every 1 time I use toys - I simply grind to get off maybe 50 times. Maybe more, who's counting? I can't even remember the last time I was alone enough to masturbate with toys. But I get off solo at least 2 or 3 times a day - sometimes more - rarely less (1 or none at all). Sometimes my average is excessively high. I think that depends on how much actual sex we have - and just what I've been focused on. Sometimes I go for weeks where I'm just hornier than others. I think spring and autumn are part of it.
So there's a difference her:
Privacy and Experience VS just needing to get off.
What I think about - what I look at - differs.
When it comes to being by myself and having toys I like to take my time, work up in size, maybe watch porn while I have fun. I could even set up the mirror and watch myself.
Just needing to get off - well that's self explanatory. I fixate on the one of the things that gets me off the most intensely and it only takes a minute. I don't even need to be undressed - no fingers on my clit - fully clothed, I just need a bit of pressure.
Yeah, I agree. Writing about masturbating must be the most boring, un-arousing, off-turning thing I can think of. Just imagine how much you'd be turned on when you'd write about jerking yourself off, and you might get the picture. Or, in other words, you don't hear fish get excited about water...
When I'm including masturbation in my stories, it's usually with someone, or for someone, but for the most part, having sex with a partner is way more exciting.
But when you really have to write a story about it, then just read some of what's already out there, as suggested.
When I'm including masturbation in my stories, it's usually with someone, or for someone, but for the most part, having sex with a partner is way more exciting.
But when you really have to write a story about it, then just read some of what's already out there, as suggested.
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First of all read some stories. If you still think you can write a good masturbation story. I would go through my memories and recall the times a woman has masturbated for you. What did she do. How did she react. To give you an even more vivid picture. Once you have an idea and maybe an outline of your story you should talk to a woman, someone who can help you develop your characters perspective.
