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Have you given your partner sex even when you're not in the mood..

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...some may say that it's easier for women since they can just give their body, whereas a male has to get an reaction first.

A female friend of mine says that she has to 'de-spunk' her partner every night because he wants sex everyday. She says that most nights she's not in the mood but she lies underneath naked while he despunks himself.

She feels that it's important to do this in order to keep their relationship on a steady footing.

Can you ladies relate to this scenario, please share...
FirstBlush
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That's when he gets a hand job instead. The other way just won't work.
LASARDaddy
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Absolutely. In 44 years of marriage we both did, probably several thousands of times. We didn't talk about it, we just did what the other needed right then. Sometimes it was "Not Right Now" and that was always respected too. When we first got together we talked about that and our deal was never say no unles it was serious. No pain, physical or emotional.
I am always a gentleman.
FilthyBeautiful
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Yes. But soon I end up getting in the mood
mranonymous7
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Quote by purpleshade
...some may say that it's easier for women since they can just give their body, whereas a male has to get an reaction first.

A female friend of mine says that she has to 'de-spunk' her partner every night because he wants sex everyday. She says that most nights she's not in the mood but she lies underneath naked while he despunks himself.

She feels that it's important to do this in order to keep their relationship on a steady footing.

Can you ladies relate to this scenario, please share...


haven't we all
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Quote by mranonymous7


haven't we all


That's nice. Call me an old fashioned if you like, but I think it's so romantic to give just to accommodate the other person.

Since we're on the subject of bisexuality, yes I have given just to satisfy him even though I wasn't in the mood.

I suppose it depends on how clingy you feel towards someone...?
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No, because I've never not been in the mood.
Dancewithme
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Quote by FirstBlush
That's when he gets a hand job instead. The other way just won't work.


I agree Blush! I could never "make her service me" so to speak.
It makes the victories so much sweeter!
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Yes. But soon I end up getting in the mood


agree with Myssie...it may start out as doing it for my partner's pleasure, but doesn't take long for me to be in the mood. But it's very rare I am not in the mood to begin with.
Beffer
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My guys know how to GET me in the mood, even if I'm not already. So does my girlfriend!
KellyC317
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There are times when I have not been in the mood. Tired, emotionally shot for one reason or another, not feeling well, etc. Some days you just explain and it is good night. Other times I might give a blow job or as I used to say "Let him borrow my body." Some of those times it was just his release. Many times I would end up getting into it and have a few orgasms.
sinless
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It's there job to get me in the mood
JenniferM
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Yes I have....Too many times to remember...working, coming home to children, cooking supper, cleaning the house and then going to bed tired and expected to have sex...Yes I have done it just to please him...I have no regrets however...
Panda36DD
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Yes...But always enjoyed it
Soccermom
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Not often that I am not in the mood but I have to confess yes it has happened but usually glad I did afterwards.
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Quote by Soccermom
Not often that I am not in the mood but I have to confess yes it has happened but usually glad I did afterwards.


Totally agree. I dont recall the last time i didnt have to initiate and i think i would be afraid to turn it down cuz i dont know how long the next opportunity would be.
1nympholes
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"Not in the mood" Now there is an interesting query.

I know it must have happened, but when could it have been?
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yes but most time I am in the mood
PrincessProsecco
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Yes, not even just my partner sometimes I want to hook up and lose the mood a bit but I feel you have kind of crossed a line so you go along. Not sure he gets as much from it but no one has complained.
honeydipped
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kinda sorta. i may have not been in the mood to start, but after foreplay that all changed.

Say. Her. Name.
Regnadkcin
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As a guy, I am not into "obligation sex." If my partner isn't into it, include me out. It seems too close to marital .

If I can't get her hot enough to want sex with her active participation and enjoyment, then either I am doing something wrong, she really isn't in the mood, or we're not a real couple.

Obligation sex is depressing
alpha2moms
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Hmm, that's a tough one. Seems like I'm always in the mood, but maybe my partners have always put me in the mood.
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Makes a face and asks why would I if I'm not in the mood?
shamelessroma
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Few time mostly with hubby....Very rarely iam not in the mood..lol
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I'm mostly in the mood but when I'm having my period I just give him head
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I've done it a few times, yes. Wasn't exactly enjoyable but it wasn't awful either. The loving connection is always there and that makes it wonderful.
Dilettante
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Haha he always gets his way. Like, I'm begging to go to sleep and he'll keep rubbing that dick against my labia until it accidentally slips inside... to his credit, he's got the decency to make breakfast the next morning (usually!)