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Have you given your partner sex even when you're not in the mood..
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I'll let you know if the situation ever arises. (Or doesn't as the case may be).
Yes 
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I used to . . . married, afterall.
but then I eventually realized he was getting off via sex a hell of a lot more than I was. My orgasms mattered less and less to him, and less and less to me, and then I went an entire year without coming during sex AT ALL.
I stopped as soon as I realized I had ruined the enjoyment in sex for myself.
No more sex unless we're both in the mood. If we're not both going to enjoy it, I don't want it. That goes the other way around, too. There have been a few times where he's admitted he wasn't in the mood but pleasured me anyway and I was, to be honest, mortified. It made me feel disgusted with myself and I've ensured a more balanced sex life ever since. If he's desperate and I'm not feeling it, he can get himself off. Vice versa.
but then I eventually realized he was getting off via sex a hell of a lot more than I was. My orgasms mattered less and less to him, and less and less to me, and then I went an entire year without coming during sex AT ALL.
I stopped as soon as I realized I had ruined the enjoyment in sex for myself.
No more sex unless we're both in the mood. If we're not both going to enjoy it, I don't want it. That goes the other way around, too. There have been a few times where he's admitted he wasn't in the mood but pleasured me anyway and I was, to be honest, mortified. It made me feel disgusted with myself and I've ensured a more balanced sex life ever since. If he's desperate and I'm not feeling it, he can get himself off. Vice versa.
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yes i have, its part of being a good gf
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Absolutely, I'm a giver
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omg yes x
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So many times I have lost count...But then I have been married forever it seems...most of the time I wasn't in the mood was years ago...working, keeping house, raising two children and seeing they need to get to where they need to be takes a lot of time and energy..I was exhausted by the time I got the kids to bed...so yes, I was not in the mood but went ahead and did it anyway...
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Yes, so he can leave me alone.
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Sex almost always puts me in a good mood.
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Can't say I have, I'm always in the mood 
I've denied him release though, just for the fun of it :)
I've denied him release though, just for the fun of it :) 
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I may not have been in the mood at the time, but it didn't take long for me to be just as excited and willing as he was
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NOT IN THE MOOD. I do not understand your terminology.
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When I was married, yes, it kept him happy and cost me nothing, and often the very act of lovemaking put me in the mood anyway.
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I am almost always in the mood, but if not I'll soon catch up.
Looks like we're in for a nasty spell of wether.
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Sure. I think many if not most of us have. My general guideline is that if I'm not in the mood that's fine, because I'm likely to get in the mood, and if not I'm still more than happy to please my partner. If I am actively against having sex at the moment I won't, but that is an infrequent occurrence.
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Haha he always gets his way. Like, I'm begging to go to sleep and he'll keep rubbing that dick against my labia until it accidentally slips inside... to his credit, he's got the decency to make breakfast the next morning (usually!)
That's what usually gets me in the mood is when he's patient and persistent! He'll just cuddle up and get himself in the right place and after a while either he pulls my panties to the side or he does. As soon as I feel his hard on my moist it seems it's just all nature from there!
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This is not an issue, as I'm much hornier than hubby
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Yes, totally. I never want to turn my bf away, at least not for anything but a really good reason. Just last week, I was very busy writing my part of a paper for research team I belong to. Our adviser wanted all drafts from everyone in early the next morning. Naturally, the night before, my bf starts getting horny (maybe because he wanted to distract me?) and started walking around the apartment, stroking himself, putting his cock on my shoulder as I typed, etc -- just being a dick, but a nice, hard, delicious one that I really wanted to enjoy. I stopped typing for a second, looked at him and told him to bring "it" over to me when he was ready to cum. In about 5 minutes, he came back, dripping. I turned my swivel chair, took his cock into my mouth and sucked him off. Hmmmm. A little stolen pleasure was great. The bf thanked me, brought me a glass of ice water, and then, about a half hour later - came back with another hardon. I just had to suck him off again. I had to check my writing because I was getting very distracted.
But in general, I'm always ready, willing and able to take as much time as needed for wonderful sex.
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Yes, to my ex b/f
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Many times. Sometimes I'm very tired and we're in bed, and its obvious he's up for it. I'll roll over and present mself and tell him to "go". Sometimes, I'll just open my mouth and let him cum. Thing is, once I taste it or get a whiff of the lusty aroma, I usually want more, no matter how much I wasn't in the mood before.