I can say this, I've been in the fuck buddy position numerous times. Fuck buddies are dangerous things: you can both end up just as hurt as if you'd been fully dating to begin with, while you're not professing your love to each other, there's still emotions there and people can still get hurt. I have usually found that once a fuck buddy, never a regular buddy again...
The glorious days of my Fuck buddy, wonderful times, Great memories...
Only ended because I needed more than he could give, that doesn't mean he doesn't come through from time to
time. Now isn't that nice.
Ive had a few but the one I currently have is by far the most complicated. We started off just working together then we she broke up with her boyfriend we started sleeping together. She then got another job but we continued our sexual relations. Once she got back together with her boyfriend we never really stopped having sex. I seen her about once a week for sex until january. Over christmas we both began developing feelings and talked considerably about becoming a couple. Once it was decided that it wouldnt work at the current time, shes finishing medical school and Im leaving the state for law school, we decided to take a little time off to cool down the feelings. Now we are back to the same great sex from before and its nice. We are close friends and although we both fuck other people and know about the other sex there has not been any hard feelings. I am not possessive sexually and although she was for a while she understands how I feel about it. We see eachother when it is convenient and often go out together in a non sexual way just to spend time with eachother but since we started sex it has seemed to be the real center of our relationship. All in all shes by far my favorite fuck buddy because of her bisexuality and the fact that we understand eachother sexually and outside the bedroom.
My first and last test on the waters was with someone whom I'd been friends with since we were young. I really cherished him, he was a good soul. But you can never mix "business" per se, with pleasure.. especially with someone who you actually value. It damaged our relationship completely. He grew feelings for me, I didn't at the time and called it off, then I started to have feelings for him shortly after and out of spite from my rejection he started talking to this bitch that I don't like and he's been with her for 3 years now. Good for him, at least something good came out of that cluster fuck fail!
i did have a fuck buddy but i was too close to her ex-husband so it had to end. not long after she got a new bf and they r now engaged so atleast things worked out for her as i am still single but now living in a different country on the other side of the world
yes, still do. I hate drama and being able to come and go as I please it so much better
Got three at present and they all know of each other. One is the guy who took my virginity many years back and it works out well for me and I hope them too.
Far better than the self centred boyfriend I used to have.
i have 1 and it works out great because shes my bestfriend too
I have had a fuck buddy and it worked out quite well. We both knew that there wasn't going to be a long term relationship but we were and still are very good friends. I don't see there being a problem with it as long as both parties are clear about it up front. It can be very fun.
Neither of us never really had one. Maybe it's a generational thing. hahaha
I have had several over the years, and have remained friends with them all. Some have drifted away either moving for work or with their partners. But one I keep in contact everyday and is a close friend and the other I speak to on a weekly basis. Both came to my wedding also. My wife does not know about the past, as all this happened before I met her. They are all friends now, and nothing is ever mentioned.
i did...but i got attached to him and started having feelings for him...and he obviously was just sexually attracted to me...so i stopped it and honestly we still hang out and i am cool with it but he acts different around me so we are not as good friends as we used to be...and also hang out far less often then we used to...bad idea if you ask me!
I have a FWB at the moment. His name's Joss. He's been my FWB for a year now. It's not complicated at all. We both know where we stand. The sex is great. He doesn't mind me fucking others. He's a good friend too. It's all good.
I had a girl years ago, we broke up and kept the FWB, it was quite cool but I felt she was only doing to get back with me which was not fair on her, so I stopped it, she was too nice screw over.
