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Have you ever been fingered by anyone while out at a restaurant with a party of people?

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Meggsy
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Not in recent times but as a teen in a milk bar by a guy under the table . I didnt cum off like in Sally met Harry but I certainly was sucking on that straw hard in the shake.
vishali_s
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Yes, I have been fingered in Movie by a stranger, he actually ripped my panties while fingering it was a ultimate turnon to be fingered in a crowded movie, and had to muffle my moan so as to not attract attention
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Yes, I have been fingered in Movie by a stranger, he actually ripped my panties while fingering it was a ultimate turnon to be fingered in a crowded movie, and had to muffle my moan so as to not attract attention


Stranger, how did this get started?
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Okay, I don't intend to come across as the party pooper, but this thread really got me thinking. How do you people manage getting fingered in a restaurant without being noticed at all?

First, if you're having dinner all alone with your partner, the chances are probably around 95% that you're both sitting across the table, one in front of the other. If you look at the picture below, the two persons are holding hands under the table, and each one of them does less than half the work that would be necessary to reach the genitals. Still, you can clearly see that their shoulders are in an irregular position, and anybody in the restaurant would notice that 'something' is happening under the table, even if a tablecloth was on it. Plus, this is only the kind of small table that you generally find in casual cafes, and a lot of restaurants actually have tables that are way larger than this:





Now, if you're accompanied by other people and are sitting next to each other, there would still be a significant space between the two of you and again, people would likely notice that your hands are 'somewhere special' by the position of your arms/shoulders. Just look at the couple below, which is positioned at an average distance when two persons are sitting next to each other in a restaurant; wouldn't you somehow notice that their hands are reaching for the other's genitals? Plus, just keeping one of your hands under the table for such a significant period of time while eating/conversing would look highly suspicious:





Even if the couple was sitting on a bench and both of them were extremely close (6 inches, as pictured below), it would still show greatly in how their arms would be placed, even if the table was hiding a certain portion of the debauchery:





Not that I firmly believe that fingering your partner in the middle of a restaurant without being noticed at all is completely impossible, but I'm genuinely interested in the technicalities of it all. I did briefly reach for my partner's intimate bits in certain nightclubs when I didn't really care about getting caught, when a strong sexual vibe was already present at the place and when everybody was too drunk to bother anyway, but I really can't imagine myself fingering a girl to the point of orgasm in a classy restaurant when other people are constantly looking at us during the whole meal.

Crap, these situations actually sound way hilarious. Like, I imagine everybody around the table wearing their best poker faces: the couple trying to hide what's happening under the table, and all the rest of the people doing their best to conceal the fact that they totally figured out what's going on, yet don't mention it not to make the situation way fucking awkward.

Then everybody goes home, saying respectively:

"Damn, your parents totally didn't notice that I was fingering your pussy during the whole meal!"

"Damn, Jason totally didn't notice that we totally noticed he was fingering our daughter during the whole meal!"
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Okay, I don't intend to come across as the party pooper, but this thread really got me thinking. How do you people manage getting fingered in a restaurant without being noticed at all?


Only once did I actually finger a girl in a group at a dinner setting (which is a very specific question btw), and the trick is to be in a booth. That way, your date is next to you and being very close does note seem awkward. Then you just lay your hand in her lap and make your way in for the score. If she is wearing a short or loose skirt it makes it much easier.
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Only once did I actually finger a girl in a group at a dinner setting (which is a very specific question btw), and the trick is to be in a booth. That way, your date is next to you and being very close does note seem awkward. Then you just lay your hand in her lap and make your way in for the score. If she is wearing a short or loose skirt it makes it much easier.


Even then, the way your arm would be placed would likely give major hints, as I represented before:




This is pretty accurate of the distance that two persons are sitting next to each other while eating in a booth.

Not to mention that keeping a hand under the table for so long would look highly suspicious. I mean, if I performed a test and simply placed one of my hands on my knee while eating, the persons sitting in front of me would likely wonder what the fuck I was doing with my hand; you usually use both of your hands while eating and/or talking to people.

Also, try this test: stand in front of a mirror and move only your wrist. I don't know about you, but when I do this myself you can definitely see some movement in my clothes.

As I've said previously, I'm not total disbeliever about the fact that a few people might actually have managed to finger their partners while eating with other persons, but it seems like a pretty risky thing to do. It's definitely not something that I would risk myself.
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Even then, the way your arm would be placed would likely give major hints, as I represented before:

it seems like a pretty risky thing to do. It's definitely not something that I would risk myself.


We weren't doing it the whole evening, just a little teasing. And it was another couple with us, so even if we did get caught it wouldn't have been a big deal. Not something I would try with her her parents or anything lol.
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Hell yes - I love it - it is one of the hottest things!!!
acocksucker13
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yes a few times over dinner and at the movies and a bar
LindyLee
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Yup. And then we went to his car and I blew him.
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Even then, the way your arm would be placed would likely give major hints, as I represented before:




Duh, your arms bend at the elbow!!! your diagram isn't accurately showing slouching people jammed in a booth etc. BELIEVE me, it happens.
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In college my friends and I would go out to restaurants. I got fingered several times but everyone at the table knew it was going on.
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yes I have... it isn't unusual in clubs... but that is not what u mean I think..

sooo yes I have...

have u ever played "Romans" at a dinner party????? giggles..

now there's a party game where it is essential to the fun ..
oh my

suziegurl
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yes i have both been fingered and fingered someone while we were out a few times. I love sneaky play too ;)
Beffer
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Not fingered, but my girlfriend used to put her toes up between my thighs and rub them on my pussy.
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No, but I would love to.
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Yes, and I loved/enjoyed every second of it!!!!
I also had it done in other places too
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Yes my gf's hubby fingered me it was so hot
Sadiemwf
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Not in a restaurant, but yes in a club…more than once. Very hot with the right guy, and the right situation.
ToshLoveCC
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Unfortunately, no.

I think I would be loud and blow our cover in some way. Sexual discretion is limited for me.


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Can't claim any personal experience, but I was on a double date with my younger brother once when his date suddenly jumped about a foot out of her seat just before both his hands reappeared above the table top.
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Mmmm yes!
ferrariguy
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YES. here is how it is done. the two of you are sitting on the corner of the table. especially works when there are two couples at the table. the guys elbow is resting on his knee and he is bending forward to "talk" to her with his head forward like they are whispering to each other. of course she must be wearing a skirt or it is not "fingering" she comes close to "listen" so they can whisper to each other. his hand is under the table. she brings her hips forward but is still with her face forward. Since they are on a corner she is facing him and his hand can easily slip under her skirt, alllll the wayyyyy. fingering does not require his whole hand to be moving. just his finger to move up and down across her clit or in and out into her love tunnel. if u are right handed then of course u must be on her right side so ur hand can reach.
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Yes I have my gf fingered me
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Yes I have
honeyrain
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no, i wish d:
Ks_biker
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mmm i love to do it you honeyrain it will make your sweet honey run like rain
I like sexy sweet panties
oh but it is the woman that makes then sexy an sweet
honeydipped
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no...but now i'm QUITE intrigued by the idea

Say. Her. Name.