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Have you ever asked directly someone to have sex ?
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Yes haha and no I've never been turned down. Sadly when a relationship is ending I think us women use sex as a substitute for intimacy? Do any of you feel like that? When I was falling out of love with Steve I would ask him to have sex. I think I just wanted to feel closer and to be held by him. I was seeking a feeling we used to have as a couple. The sex would blot out my unhappiness for a while I guess? Eventually you realise it doesn't work. That's when I wrote my story "Final Fuck". But I think a lot of girls who are looking for intimacy will ask to be fucked. Now when we are just plain horny? Hehe that's a different kind of "asking" haha.
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I have too, got some really strange looks, and only turned down twice.
Rocker of the cocker
Nope, but I have asked someone if I could suck their dick, I was in the moment and he was pretty awesome.
My exact words, "Can I rock your cock?"
I got what I asked for..
My exact words, "Can I rock your cock?"
I got what I asked for..
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In college after loosing a bet I walked into a frat house and yelled who wants to fuck. It wasn't directed at anyone in particular but I wasn't turned down.
There were several times when hanging out with friends when we were looking for something to do and I would ask if they wanted to fuck. That usually won out over watching tv or going to a movie.
There were several times when hanging out with friends when we were looking for something to do and I would ask if they wanted to fuck. That usually won out over watching tv or going to a movie.
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Yes ... goodness me she had a punch! .. never asked any lady since 
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Advanced Wordsmith
I am a pretty direct person....I guess the short answer is Yes, many times and I have never been refused.
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Yes ... goodness me she had a punch! .. never asked any lady since
I didn't punch you it was more a slap and in my defense, I was on my period
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https://www.lushstories.com/stories/straight-sex/long-time-coming.aspx
And my latest poem, The Temptation.
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I ask my wife regularly. Unfortunately for me, she is often more direct in answering.
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Guilty. If I consider him/ her to be an enjoyable experience I have. In my present arrangement it is not unusual to ask directly.
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Quote by BethanyFrasier
Ask?? I just get in your face and shout FUCK ME, BITCH!! :-)
That just might get the message across ...
In-House Sapiosexual
I've never had to ask, male or female.
I think it is pretty easy to know what I want by just looking at me.
I'm pretty transparent when it comes to that.
I think it is pretty easy to know what I want by just looking at me.
I'm pretty transparent when it comes to that.
? A True Story ?
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More than once. You know guys want to Fuck as badly as we do Sisters. But sometimes they are so insecure, that it seems like they will never get to the question.
So not to waste time I have asked "Can I Fuck You?" It gets great results.
So not to waste time I have asked "Can I Fuck You?" It gets great results.
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yes. tricky question. people normal ask me but there is one instance that i yearned for sex from a guy and asked to fuck me.
This was long ago in a GYM, i had a gym trainer called John (black guy). Such a musculus guy with 10 packs abs and huge muscles. Huge cock (once saw that while he was changing). he trained me and some students for like 1.5 years in a GYM. Before he migrated to USA. we had a farewell party. i was so sad he going away from me, he was sweet trainer, sexy, a good friend, passionate and i actually loved him one-sided. he was married but i wanted him so badly. during the farewell dinner, i ask few minute personally and expressed my feelings. I said "I am in love with you John but i know this is not gonna happen, but i wanna feel your body for one last time in a romantic way. i am for you tonight, Take me". The result was positive, he refused but i convinced him and drive him to my apartment. The Sexual affair lasted for 4 hours from 8pm to 12pm. he was around 120kg with this 1oinch black think cock and i was like 55kg. He fucked me so passionately without condom and quenched my thirst for him. Still one of the best fucks in my life.
loved it. he is now long gone. miss him
This was long ago in a GYM, i had a gym trainer called John (black guy). Such a musculus guy with 10 packs abs and huge muscles. Huge cock (once saw that while he was changing). he trained me and some students for like 1.5 years in a GYM. Before he migrated to USA. we had a farewell party. i was so sad he going away from me, he was sweet trainer, sexy, a good friend, passionate and i actually loved him one-sided. he was married but i wanted him so badly. during the farewell dinner, i ask few minute personally and expressed my feelings. I said "I am in love with you John but i know this is not gonna happen, but i wanna feel your body for one last time in a romantic way. i am for you tonight, Take me". The result was positive, he refused but i convinced him and drive him to my apartment. The Sexual affair lasted for 4 hours from 8pm to 12pm. he was around 120kg with this 1oinch black think cock and i was like 55kg. He fucked me so passionately without condom and quenched my thirst for him. Still one of the best fucks in my life.
loved it. he is now long gone. miss him
- Arjino Ferrera
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Yes and Yes.
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Quote by avrgblkgrl
I've never had to ask, male or female.
I think it is pretty easy to know what I want by just looking at me.
I'm pretty transparent when it comes to that.
This is me. My nonverbal cues are so apparent that I never have to ask.
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I have asked and have never been turned down for sex.
Sensual Hobgoblin
Yes. It was mostly in college. Guys of that age were still somewhat reluctant to be "forward" (unless they were drunk, and that was a total turn off) so someone had to get the ball rolling, that's assuming I wanted him of course. Also it was usually something like, "Sooo, are we doin' it tonight or what?" I don't think I've ever been as blunt as saying, "Let's fuck" or something along those lines. But then, I did have that belly button dangle that said, Fuck Me, but I saw that as more of a conversation starter kinda thing. Later in life it was, as someone else mentioned, more along the lines of non-verbal cues. If the guy didn't pick up on that, I figured, no big loss.
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No , should i ?😳
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yes, I like doing it.
one that stands out is when I asked a guy I worked with. we'd known each other for years.
he was married, but you know how work relations can drift into what ifs.
it was wonderful.
started as a long weekend together, but we continued for a few months.