Never.
I believe is respect. I have never started another relationship while involved in a relationship.
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Never.
I believe is respect. I have never started another relationship while involved in a relationship.
Quote by alex35
Never!...but there are days I feel weak.
One of my mentors likes to say "Don't cheat on your wife. If you really have to go somewhere else, then pay for it with a professional'.
I think if I ever do crack, I will go down that road...and it will only be because I want to try anal which my wife refuses....
Quote by 1ball
Do you really think that's not cheating? I don't think many wives would. They might find it more acceptable than an affair, but that's hair-splitting to a degree I wouldn't expect.
Quote by alex35
"Your belief's create your reality...mine are pretty fucked up. So if deep down you believe something, then it can't be wrong"
- Sasha Grey
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So if your wife believes deep down that it's okay to Bobbit you...
Quote by littlemissbitch
yes, i did. and its funny when i finally "came clean" my ex acted like i was just the worst person on earth for breaking our "vows" maybe i was, who knows. its funny though, how quickly fidelity becomes the only vow remembered or the most important vow. respect, honesty, love, honor, cherish...remember those? what about those?
my husband cheated to..with his work. every day he went to the hospital and he loved people. he saved them..he helped them to let go. he is truly brilliant at his job. people send him letters, i called them his 'love notes' and they were all over his little office. women would come up to me on the street "oh my god i work with your husband! you are soooo lucky! he is soooo wonderful. What an empathetic teacher! You are the luckiest woman on earth!"
doesnt that sound awesome?
the reality was when he came home it was not so awesome. there was no love, respect, honor, empathy, teaching and im sure he doesnt know what cherish means.
if i ever had any problem i was dismissed because my problems werent "real" "Youre not dying in my unit are you?!" was said often in my house. no, dear...im not dying in your unit.
if i wanted more than plain vanilla sex i was made to feel ashamed.
if i wanted love and support he promise me it with words but when came time to give it he'd pull the rug and watch me fall on my ass.
if i wanted respect for my job outside the house hed bitch about my time away from home.
if i wanted respect for my job inside the home i was a "waster of his money"
he did every single thing he could to undermine me, make me feel worthless to be sure id stay with him. and it worked, i totally fell for it and lost utter faith in my own capabilities.
and me being me i am drawn to love like moth to a flame...and when it came my way, even if it wasnt what i thought it was i took it. more than once too.
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Well said, LMB. I can totally feel exactly what you're talking about. Sometimes people cheat because they're horny bastards. Sometimes it's much deeper than that.
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and me being me i am drawn to love like moth to a flame...and when it came my way, even if it wasnt what i thought it was i took it. more than once too.
Quote by littlemissbitch
yes, i did. and its funny when i finally "came clean" my ex acted like i was just the worst person on earth for breaking our "vows" maybe i was, who knows. its funny though, how quickly fidelity becomes the only vow remembered or the most important vow. respect, honesty, love, honor, cherish...remember those? what about those?
my husband cheated to..with his work. every day he went to the hospital and he loved people. he saved them..he helped them to let go. he is truly brilliant at his job. people send him letters, i called them his 'love notes' and they were all over his little office. women would come up to me on the street "oh my god i work with your husband! you are soooo lucky! he is soooo wonderful. What an empathetic teacher! You are the luckiest woman on earth!"
doesnt that sound awesome?
the reality was when he came home it was not so awesome. there was no love, respect, honor, empathy, teaching and im sure he doesnt know what cherish means.
if i ever had any problem i was dismissed because my problems werent "real" "Youre not dying in my unit are you?!" was said often in my house. no, dear...im not dying in your unit.
if i wanted more than plain vanilla sex i was made to feel ashamed.
if i wanted love and support he promise me it with words but when came time to give it he'd pull the rug and watch me fall on my ass.
if i wanted respect for my job outside the house hed bitch about my time away from home.
if i wanted respect for my job inside the home i was a "waster of his money"
he did every single thing he could to undermine me, make me feel worthless to be sure id stay with him. and it worked, i totally fell for it and lost utter faith in my own capabilities.
and me being me i am drawn to love like moth to a flame...and when it came my way, even if it wasnt what i thought it was i took it. more than once too.
Quote by alex35
just booked a nice restaurant and ordered flowers for my wife. Sometimes it becomes too easy to take your partner for granted. Thanks for the reminder!
Quote by Notenough'
Never have and never will. If you have the need to cheat then you really just need to exit the relationship. There are no found reasons for cheating, and I have heard all the reasons why. Cheating is cheating and there is no place for it in a real loving relationship.