Ladies, has being on LUSH changed you in any way? Has it made you more open-minded, more sexually confident, more willing to try new things?
As for me, I have always been very open-minded regarding sex and willing to try new experiences but since I joned LUSH, I have found that I have become more sexualy confident as I have found that many other women feel like I do and enjoy many of the things I like, even some of the more kinky things and knowing I am not alone has made me feel better about myself. And I also never expected to become so close to people I have never and most probably will never meet. Some of the people here have become very dear friends and are very important to me.
I came for the stories, stayed for my friends!!
How About You? Guys, feel free to answer too
I don't feel it has changed me, other than I talk to my best gal pals a little more openly than before. I came for the stories, too, but am enjoying the friends I have here.
i think i am much more sexually confident, ive wanted to do a few things (mainly exhibitionist) and now ive got the confidence to do it, its nice finding likeminded women
i tend to be on my phone more!!(ie on lush) but in general I am more open with my SO about our likes. we have had several discussions now that have directly risen from what I read here.
I aso came for the stories, stayed for the people.
I personally find that I look at the people around me in a new light... I wonder if they are thinking the same thing... I have come to find out that I know a couple of perple here outside of Lush and now our conversations are a lot more interesting!!
I also came for the stories and now I stay for the friends and the forums!!
Have the courage to make the change, the strength to see it through, and keep the faith that it will turn out for the best!
Hmm... maybe I should rethink my earlier post. I have a couple friends who would say that I am more open to things than I was before Lush. I think I also wonder more about the people I run into day to day. Neither of which I consider a bad thing.
yeah it has changed me... I write more because of it, I read more because of it. Also I talk to some people here quite often. And I can't imagine going back to not being on here... I would be really bored lol
I wouldn't say it's changed me, necessarily...but it's definitely heightened sexual confidence (which i didn't think was possible lol)
I've always been open-minded and kinky, but reading a lot of the stories and comments on the forums has actually given me plenty of new things to add to my "book of tricks"
A lot of times, I'll read something on here and picture myself doing it..so when the chance comes to make it a reality it makes the sexual experience that much better because my partner(s) never see it coming. And it's always nice to know that I'm not the only kinky super-freak in the world lol
It hasn't changed me, but it have had me wondering about more things, for example im one of those girls that have had horrible anal experience before and always thought not gonna try it ever again, now after reading about it so much in the forums and stories i found myself wanting to try it again but making sure everything is done correctly.
Yes, lush has changed me sexually.
Lush has changed my writing skills, but not me personally.
If it has, it is certainly for the better.
It has reassured me I am among a lot of other normal well adjusted people who are not ashamed to share with others in their joy of sex.
I am sure many others have realised sex is a pleasure and a joy NOT something to be ashamed of.
Like Beffer it has allowed me to improve my skills as an author, thanks to some amazing mods.
Like the original poster I think Lush has changed me. I originally came for the stories, but have discovered a world where I can explore my sexuality in a way I never have before. 6 years in a sexless marriage had severely dented my confidence but now, because of friends I have met here my self esteem has been boosted, giving me the confidence that I could move on if I so chose.
I have met some brilliant friends (you know who you are) that I talk to regularly and they are genuinely a great part of my life.
It has certainly helped me.
I'm now venturing out and attempting to write and express my feelings.
Yes and for the better! I was unsure of myself, sexually, but after talking to a lot of amazing people here I know that I'm normal. I have so much more sexual confidence and I have been putting myself into situations where I normally would hide from. I'm so so so happy I found this place.
I have no idea how I wound up on Lush, but I am so glad I did.
I feel like it's made me more open minded and also less judgemental about what other people are turned on by.
Most definitely, the questions on Ask the Gals are far more interesting than Ask the Guys.
Thats just one example.
This site has opened my mind to things I didn’t realize I could be aroused by, it has been a fun thing to find out about myself! It truly has been life changing in so many ways for me.
I’m extremely happy I found Lush and cherish the friendships I have made on here and looking forward to many many more adventures to come.
Happy Lushing everyone
Bxo
Coming here... I was able to discover I did have a submissive side. Just not often.
I think lush changed me in many ways. Before Lush, I had been in a deep depression, a dead 35 year marriage and disrespect from my grown children as well as a serious accident I was trying to come back from. It taught me who I was and that it was okay to be me. The person I really was. I didn’t have to hide away from depression. Through the five years I have been on Lush I have learned so much about myself. I discovered I am a strong person, and I can make my own decisions. Best of all, I met Milik, someone that showed me love, unconditional love and loved me for me. He gave me the courage to walk out of a 36 year marriage and a dysfunctional family. Now, I love life and am happy to wake up to a new day. With a man that truly loves me and a happy life. So yes lush has changed me.
It helped me be more honest about who I am
prior to lush I was hiding my bi side, and was married to my husband for 7 years before he found out
Now he knows and because of that our marriage is a lot better..
There really is nothing more painful than hiding your true self away, but when you finally do come out of your fear cage you its the most liberating feeling in all the world.
It also brought back the love of writing for me, Which I had tossed aside and now its one of my biggest joys in life
And Most importantly probably I found some truly wonderful and beautiful people here, Who actually helped me stop hating the world and thinking of it as a never ending toxic waste dump hell.
I think if you really open yourself to this crazy world it will definitely change you in some ways. Lush has definitely taught me about both my strengths and weaknesses. I have learned acceptance over tolerance and I have learned to accept myself without trying to make myself fit into society’s boxes of normalcy. Different is okay, it is even good. My life has definitely changed since joining and that is also a good thing. I don’t come to Lush anymore out of a desire to fill a void, I come here to enjoy the stories, to write and to learn from the people who have become friends.
No, not in ways that I can point out.
