Mmm, my sentiments exactly, why not BOTH! And oh yeah baby, 69 is fine!
I also like lying at opposite ends of each other kind of on our sides each with a thigh somewhat up...cause I like to be able to see his facial expressions and his mouth on me.
There's also the heat of the moment times or we only have a few minutes before either the kids get home or whatever may be going on, and I thoroughly enjoy giving...I get a certain feeling of pleasure when I know I'm satisfying that itch for him, plus during those heated times it seems a bit more forceful and primal..he tends to fist my hair in his hands and stuff and that totally turns me on.
i love both , i love hearing him moan and watching his face as i give him a bj i find it intimate
Giving.................there is no greater joy for me than to watch her orgasm from the labours of my tongue (with the help of a straying finger or 2)
I prefer giving to receiving. I just love going down on a woman, but having her go down on me is never as exciting for some reason. However, I had a girlfriend in the 80's who was so good at it I would beg her to stop, because it felt so good I could hardly stand it. I know that sounds weird, but it was like being tickled to death. One thing I have noticed over the years is that most women seem to get very wet and very horny when they go down on a guy, though.
There are all kinds of reasons why I personally like going down on a woman, but one of the big ones is the sheer intimacy of it. Also, in the back of my mind, I'm putting my face, and my mouth and my tongue somewhere that my mother drilled into me as being off limits when I was a kid.
Also, I just love bringing a woman to orgasm by going down on her.
I am a giver....Don't get me wrong, I dont mind being on the receiving end, but its my pleasure to give a man a blow job. To know that you are making your partner that excited and fulfilled, is awesome! The feeling of him being in my mouth...theres nothing like it! I feel its one of the most intimate ways to show trust. Its never been somethng that I've done right away. I kind of save it for later!
Giving can be very hot in right situation but sorry receiving would win if being honest!
I'd much rather give oral than receive any day of the week.