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I recently read somewhere -- "finally a video I liked .. not the usual degrading bj"
Do you consider giving a bj degrading ... If so why?
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In certain circumstances and positions (such as on your knees or being coerced into giving him a quick BJ without receiving anything in return) I see as submissive actions and I enjoy that role very much.
Degrading no, I don't see it in that way.
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This may sound strange, but I view the circumstances you laid out as degrading along with the forced scene that is borderline IMO. BJ's done freely is all together different.
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Yes it does sound strange. If I'm consenting and quite happy to do it how can it possibly be degrading to me personally or be regarded as borderline .
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They are only degrading if she has a good girl complex
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What kind of "good girl" are you talking about?![]()
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I dont find it degrading at all, when it comes to oral i love giving and receiving!
I can understand why not every woman like to watch oral on a porn, must of the times girls are just been mouth fuck and gagging and tearing and make up all over her face. Not my favorite thing of porns either.
But i have never felt degraded or felt like im degrading someone during oral!!
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I dont find it degrading at all, when it comes to oral i love giving and receiving!
I can understand why not every woman like to watch oral on a porn, must of the times girls are just been mouth fuck and gagging and tearing and make up all over her face. Not my favorite thing of porns either.
But i have never felt degraded or felt like im degrading someone during oral!!
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That is because 99% of porn is made by men for men. If you ever see a porn vid made by a women director, the scenes are much more passionate and take the woman's pleasure into account too.
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OK...if you STARTED it that would be one thing AS LONG AS you had total control of depth (in the moth/throat), speed, and timing/location on/in your body.
Best BJ I EVER received was NOT asked for by me, nor expected in any way. We had finished me giving a long, slow, body massage and moved to sofa where she could stretch out and spread out for some oral attention from me. She then sat up and had me join her on the sofa for hugs, kisses, cuddles....when she suddenly got up, knelt on the floor between my knees...jerked my slacks off and proceeded to administer very slowly and softly an unforgettable BJ. At some time in the act, I lightly caressed and held her face/cheeks with both hands. I don't think that was degrading as she totally controlled the intimate act.
Maybe I watch too much porn that IS degrading??
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Wrong again, I never start it,I like having a man suggesting, requesting, or demanding that I give him a blow job. pushing my head head down there so I'm looking at his hard cock bobbing about and pulsing with a need for release in front of my face. I like him to start it, I like him to be in control of me and it's very horny if he tries to shove his cock deeper into my mouth until I can't take anymore without gagging. I love to feel his lust as he holds my head so I can't move away when he shoots his load into my throat and I have to swallow.
Realistically I suppose that I am in control to a degree of what's happening, I'm being the sweet nice girl who only submits to sucking cock when the man coerces me into doing it but that's exactly what I want him to do.
Maybe coerced is the wrong word, persuaded or talked into it might be more appropriate
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I don't think the general act of giving a blowjob is degrading...it's the way it's done that can make it become degrading. when it's extra rough and there's a lot of unnecessary force added by the guy (i.e. making the girl gag, holding her nose, getting so rough that she ends up drooling all over the place, etc.) that's when it can go from something hot to something kinda gross. everybody has different levels of sexual comfort...some like it rough while others prefer slow and passionate, so what i would consider degrading could be another girl's biggest turn-on. to each its own, i suppose
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