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Giving a blowjob - a degrading act ?

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Hey, Nikki! seriously, if i was making porn, it would make most guys blush! want to make some porn with me? we'll have Doll direct! omg, it's gonna be scary! *giggles*


Just direct, not participate? I couldnt think of 2 hotter, more sexually adventurous open minded women than you and DD!! You have me a little frightened, but very excited too, LOL!!
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it's totally degrading. in fact, all sex is. sex should be for making babies, not for pleasure. that's how god intended it. all you people are going to burn in... *bursts into giggles*

actually, my first impulse was to say 'if it WAS degrading, i'd be doing it more!' - being degraded is kind of a turn on too, if you're in the proper mood. ok, you tell me, is 9 am too early to be drinking?

yeah, i know, i need to take these questions more seriously. Hey, Nikki! seriously, if i was making porn, it would make most guys blush! want to make some porn with me? we'll have Doll direct! omg, it's gonna be scary! *giggles*


Sprite! What time should I come over for 'making-babies' practice?

PS. I like to blush!!!! I can see Dancing_Doll giving directions!!!
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Just direct, not participate? I couldnt think of 2 hotter, more sexually adventurous open minded women than you and DD!! You have me a little frightened, but very excited too, LOL!!



yeah, i get that a lot, but really, i am not that scary! and you know, if you don't mind, we could add Magic Felix as our token man, cause i have it from reliable sources that he's a kinky MF too. oh, and yeah, can you imagine Doll directing?

No! that's not how you do it *smacks actress across ass with her crop* THIS is how you do it! Jeez, do i have to do EVERYthing myself? biggrin

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

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Sprite! What time should I come over for 'making-babies' practice?

PS. I like to blush!!!! I can see Dancing_Doll giving directions!!!


i am open 24/7, Buz! take a number at the door and take a seat in the waiting room - bring a book, though, the line gets kind of long at times.

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

I hate a man fucking my mouth/throat.

When I'm giving you a blowjob, I'm- giving you a blow job.
If you want me to go deeper just add a small amount of pressure on my head, I'll get the hint.
I'm very good with hints.
Don't shove my head down your cock, I'm fully capable of doing that myself.

Lean back and enjoy it for [beep's] sake!
Such a puritanical question! I like giving head! I like receiving head too! LOL I don't cum from giving a blowjob but I thoroughly enjoy doing it! Degrading? Not at all! In fact it's a power position! I have almost total control of a man when I have his cock in my mouth and I love it! I am lightly built and short but I can dominate a man much larger and stronger than me while kneeling on the floor at his feet! Not degrading in the slightest!

Alison xxx

Besides, they fuck longer if I've blown them first! LOL
Well said Cat

I don't find giving a blowjob degrading in the least. BUT I do see that it could be considered degrading in a porn video when they start slapping the girls face with their cock
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This is my first topic. I'm kind of new to Lush Forum so maybe there is a topic like this somewhere

Still here it is.

I recently read somewhere -- "finally a video I liked .. not the usual degrading bj"


Do you consider giving a bj degrading ... If so why?



Why do you thik it degrading and do you also think the dinning at the Y is a degrading act or do you like it when he is licking? I think it is a great part of giving each other plesure and is the greatest thing to give for both man and woman... :d/
I do not think it is.
Just wanted to know if OTHER people besides the lady that posted it was had the same opinion.
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yeah, i know, i need to take these questions more seriously. Hey, Nikki! seriously, if i was making porn, it would make most guys blush! want to make some porn with me? we'll have Doll direct! omg, it's gonna be scary! *giggles*


Can I waaaaatch? biggrin maybe some backstage passes? biggrin
Quote by Catnip
I hate a man fucking my mouth/throat.



Catnip...uh, ah, I really, Really hate to suggest this, but that's what teeth are for...guaranteed to put a stop to mouth/throat FUCKING. That's my
I have never considered it degrading! Its a way to pleasure a man in a way he can not do himself....the sounds a man makes when his cock is in my mouth are one of a kind....erotic and satisfying. IMHO
Giving a blow job is an erotic and intimate act. It is a big turn-on wither to initiate arousal prior to a good fucking or sucking and licking long enough to give your partner the gratification oforgasm and ejaculating down my throat. I dont see anything degrading about it at all.
hmmm...... if the blowjob is degrading with that person probably all the sex you have with that guy is going to be degrading....
definitely not degrading. i love the feeling of being in control and teasing the hell out of a guy.
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Quote by Catnip
I hate a man fucking my mouth/throat.



Catnip...uh, ah, I really, Really hate to suggest this, but that's what teeth are for...guaranteed to put a stop to mouth/throat FUCKING. That's my


Darn, I think that act requires more teeth!
no, i love giving oral of any kind
I love being dominated(;
Not degrading in the least - one of my favourite sex acts ever...probably ranks at #2
i love it love it love it
I get so aroused at giving pleasure. The sounds he makes, make me feel powerful. With the flick of my tongue or a pull of my mouth i have his entire attention on me and what I'm doing.
Having his hands in my hair or guiding my head gently feels so sweet.
If the loving is more intense and his hands a little stronger all the better, I love those signs that he is loosing control and it drives my passion higher as well.
So is it degrading No not as all.
Im in control
I'm giving and receiving pleasure there is nothing degrading in that
No, giving a blowjob is not degrading to me. The act of giving a man pleasure is a turn on. Some women consider it an act of intimacy and won't do it until they know the guy better. I, on the other hand, will usually blow a guy first (Good way to determine cock size LOL) and fuck him later
I agree. If not coerced, it can be an incredibly sexy act for the giver and, to be truthful, a great way to control your partner in a fun way.
sometimes i do, just depends on if he starts thrusting into my mouth or not and if the guy tells me he's cumming or just shoots his load.
why would it be degrading for women...or men ? ? ?
omg! no its not! its all part of the fun i think! however...maybe in some instances him shooting his load on your face could be degrading.
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i love it love it love it
I get so aroused at giving pleasure. The sounds he makes, make me feel powerful. With the flick of my tongue or a pull of my mouth i have his entire attention on me and what I'm doing.
Having his hands in my hair or guiding my head gently feels so sweet.
If the loving is more intense and his hands a little stronger all the better, I love those signs that he is loosing control and it drives my passion higher as well.
So is it degrading No not as all.
Im in control
I'm giving and receiving pleasure there is nothing degrading in that


I couldn't have said it better!!!! LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE it!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Most of you think it's not degrading, but a sensual or loving act....Somebody tell my wife PLEASE! I give oral sex to her - but I've never received in my life sad
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He will Thank You by not squirting on your face.
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Quote by a40funfitguy
Most of you think it's not degrading, but a sensual or loving act....Somebody tell my wife PLEASE! I give oral sex to her - but I've never received in my life sad


oh that is awful! simply awful! id start withholding immediately! utterly unfair! it is hands down my favorite part of sex.
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Quote by a40funfitguy
Most of you think it's not degrading, but a sensual or loving act....Somebody tell my wife PLEASE! I give oral sex to her - but I've never received in my life sad


Have you tried asking or talked to her about why?
Ut incepit fidelis, sic permanet.

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De-grading !!? No way. Oral sex is the most sensual and beautiful act of intimacy between lovers. X