Neither I, nor any of the other people I'm sexually active with are monogamous or committed to each other, so its a non-issue currently. I was once in a committed relationship with another girl, and I did cheat on her once, and felt lousy about it.
Sure, in a way fantasies set me free. Because I fantasize about being with another man or a woman, IT DOESN'T MEAN I WILL ACT ON IT. I have more intense orgasms during sex with hubby because of these fantasies. A lot of it comes from Lush.
When I was married I did at times then I decided that was dumb. Once I concluded that, I went after the real thing and though I felt guilty at the outset, after awhile, that went away and I loved being with others, both men and women. Now, I can't imagine living in the straight-jacket that a monogamous relationship dictates.
I have cheated once or twice..... ;-)
I find it very exciting
No and I can't think of how that fantasy would stimulate anyone. What aspects of that turn you on, if it turns you on?
I have fantasized about certain cheating situations but, it's just fantasy. I would never actually do it and I never have.
No thats why I am single and enjoying the single life
Do you still call it "Cheating" With Full Disclosure.
I've cheated lots of times, but I knew I was unhappy in my relationship as was he. so we kind of had a non verified agreement to sleep with other people....which I did....a lot ;)
Whether married or single there are certain men who make me loop the loop in my fantasies