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This is for the lesbians on here.

Lady's I was wondering if you ever thought of having sex or had sex with a guy before?

Why I'm asking is because I have a lesbian friend who ask me to have sex with her and I never had sex before. I want to make it the best night of her life. Any help from you lady's is welcome
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Quote by trinket
Brian, dude, If she wants to have sex with you, she is not a lesbian.


soooooo true ... giggles
She's not a lesbian if she wants to have sex with you giggling
Maybe she was wondering what it's like to have sex with a guy. And she pick me to try it with


Plus I know some lesbians who has husband/boyfriends but never had sex with them.
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Maybe she was wondering what it's like to have sex with a guy. And she pick me to try it with


Plus I know some lesbians who has husband/boyfriends but never had sex with them.


Brian, if you believe a female friend is a lesbian and she asks to have sex with you, I'm not sure that is something you want to tell peeps. Just saying.

I'm not a lesbian but I'd bet money that if I was, I would never entertain the thought of sexing it up with a guy. I can't speak for everyone though. I am straight and I would never consider having girly sex.

Maybe she is actually bisexual. I'm wondering what Sprite thinks about this. After all, Brian did address this to "for the lesbians". I was just trying to help. ?
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Brian, if you believe a female friend is a lesbian and she asks to have sex with you, I'm not sure that is something you want to tell peeps. Just saying.

I'm not a lesbian but I'd bet money that if I was, I would never entertain the thought of sexing it up with a guy. I can't speak for everyone though. I am straight and I would never consider having girly sex.

Maybe she is actually bisexual. I'm wondering what Sprite thinks about this. After all, Brian did address this to "for the lesbians". I was just trying to help. ?



It just took me by surprise and I don't know if I should turn her down or not Thought I would ask Is that so wrong?
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It just took me by surprise and I don't know if I should turn her down or not Thought I would ask Is that so wrong?


I am not a lesbian. I am not straight. I am not bi. I am simply sexual. but here's me two cents....

If you have sex with the lesbian EXPECT your friendship to end. PLAN on feeling shitty about yourself when she says "thanks, now I know I am 100% lesbian". You said you want it to be the best night of her life. If she is indeed pure lesbian your HIGH expectations will lead to disappointment.

If you are truly her friend and want to help her experience cock, you should help find her an escort or something. I's thinking you want to have sex with her and the sex with be so amazing she will become bi at the very least. It could work out that way too. But not likely.
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I am not a lesbian. I am not straight. I am not bi. I am simply sexual. but here's me two cents....

If you have sex with the lesbian EXPECT your friendship to end. PLAN on feeling shitty about yourself when she says "thanks, now I know I am 100% lesbian". You said you want it to be the best night of her life. If she is indeed pure lesbian your HIGH expectations will lead to disappointment.

If you are truly her friend and want to help her experience cock, you should help find her an escort or something. I's thinking you want to have sex with her and the sex with be so amazing she will become bi at the very least. It could work out that way too. But not likely.


But the problem is that I'm still a virgin. I never been with a woman that way before.

What you said that I "WANT" to have sex with her. I do and I don't, one, I want to remain friends with her. Two, I would love to know what sex feel's like and want her to take it. But even now I do feel shitty because I don't know if I should or not.
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Quote by adi_me33
I am not a lesbian. I am not straight. I am not bi.


So, you're not attracted to men or women?
My first thought is - do you know WHY she wants to have sex with you? i think that's kind of an important question. you need to answer that first before you go any further with this. also, reality check. you're a virgin? no matter what, you're not going to be able to give her the best night of her life no matter how much you want to. just be cool with that.

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

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But the problem is that I'm still a virgin. I never been with a woman that way before.

What you said that I "WANT" to have sex with her. I do and I don't, one, I want to remain friends with her. Two, I would love to know what sex feel's like and want her to take it. But even now I do feel shitty because I don't know if I should or not.


The question I think you should ask yourself first is why you wanna have sex with her. Do you just wanna have sex with anyone? Or do you actually have feelings for her? Because sex can just be sex, but rarely is especially with friends or the first time.

Sex can ruin friendships. It will definitely change it. No one can make the decision for you you should think about it maybe talk with your friend.

To the raised question about her sexuality:
Sexuality is fluid and I don't think experimenting makes you less of a lesbian. Just like not every girl that ever hooked up with a girl is bi. In the end it is personal and not our place to judge or decide.
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My first thought is - do you know WHY she wants to have sex with you? i think that's kind of an important question. you need to answer that first before you go any further with this. also, reality check. you're a virgin? no matter what, you're not going to be able to give her the best night of her life no matter how much you want to. just be cool with that.


I really don't know why. I was going to ask her that. I was just saying "The best" part. I know I can't give it to her
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The question I think you should ask yourself first is why you wanna have sex with her. Do you just wanna have sex with anyone? Or do you actually have feelings for her? Because sex can just be sex, but rarely is especially with friends or the first time.

Sex can ruin friendships. It will definitely change it. No one can make the decision for you you should think about it maybe talk with your friend.

To the raised question about her sexuality:
Sexuality is fluid and I don't think experimenting makes you less of a lesbian. Just like not every girl that ever hooked up with a girl is bi. In the end it is personal and not our place to judge or decide.


I do have feelings for her. But am to afeard to tell her how I really feel.

I really don't want to lose her friendship at all sad I just thought I could talk it out little with you all so I know how I really feel and what to do :P
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Ladies (plural)



lol - i came so close to correcting that too!

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

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So, you're not attracted to men or women?


Ha! Lol. I said I am just sexual. I am attracted to people. But I see your point.
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lol - i came so close to correcting that too!


Your to kind Ms. Sprite
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Your to kind Ms. Sprite


now you're just baiting me... *bites lip*

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

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now you're just baiting me... *bites lip*



Your to kind Ms. Sprite. With a heart of gold.

I wonder if you have a twin sister I can date
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Your to kind Ms. Sprite. With a heart of gold.

I wonder if you have a twin sister I can date


i do, actually. she's also a lesbian. sorry!

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

Bud, if she is a lesbian, she probably could be friends with you and respectful as long as you bestow the same upon her. She will NOT consider intercourse with a male.
If you would just want to find out how it feels to have sex and she just wants to know how cock feels out of curiosity I'd say go for it. But since you have feelings for her beyond mere friendship and she has not the same feelings for you, essentially what 'lesbian' implies, I'm afraid proceeding with this will only get you hurt in the (not so) long run. Or more hurt, as the question has already been asked.


===  Not ALL LIVES MATTER until BLACK LIVES MATTER  ===

Quote by BiMale73
If you would just want to find out how it feels to have sex and she just wants to know how cock feels out of curiosity I'd say go for it. But since you have feelings for her beyond mere friendship and she has not the same feelings for you, essentially what 'lesbian' implies, I'm afraid proceeding with this will only get you hurt in the (not so) long run. Or more hurt, as the question has already been asked.



Maybe so.

I'm thinking of telling her no
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i do, actually. she's also a lesbian. sorry!


Who said anything about that ;)? I'm talking about a date date
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Who said anything about that ;)? I'm talking about a date date


huh?

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

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huh?


Never mind.
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