So over on ask the guy's there is a question on control. Being the one in control or being controlled. I was a little surprised to see most men that answered wanted to be controlled. What about the gals, do you like to be the one calling the shots or would you rather have the man take the lead?
For me, I definitely want to be controlled most. I enjoy the thought of taking control, but only to have it taken away. Almost like a tease till he just can't take it anymore and completely destroys me (in the best way possible )
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So over on ask the guy's there is a question on control. Being the one in control or being controlled. I was a little surprised to see most men that answered wanted to be controlled. What about the gals, do you like to be the one calling the shots or would you rather have the man take the lead?
For me, I definitely want to be controlled most. I enjoy the thought of taking control, but only to have it taken away. Almost like a tease till he just can't take it anymore and completely destroys me (in the best way possible )
I have to agree with you, I prefer my man being in control...that doesn't mean I won't take the lead, but find it even sexier when he takes it back because I drive him crazy and he can't help himself.
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So over on ask the guy's there is a question on control. Being the one in control or being controlled. I was a little surprised to see most men that answered wanted to be controlled. What about the gals, do you like to be the one calling the shots or would you rather have the man take the lead?
For me, I definitely want to be controlled most. I enjoy the thought of taking control, but only to have it taken away. Almost like a tease till he just can't take it anymore and completely destroys me (in the best way possible )
I think being controlled is the essential character of womanhood so far as sex is concerned.
Thank God..... I m no exception
Rainbow Warrior
Whether I like it or not, I usually wind up being in control because it's my nature. I always seem to take over and lead in nearly every situation, sex included. Besides, I'm usually the one who's more experienced than my partners are.
Active Ink Slinger
The situation changes in our place often.
At times we engage together because one needs or wants it - and the other is happy to provide what they seek. Then there may be a degree of control involved.
Other times if we both in the mood so to speak - it just happens. Its mutual agreement and pleasure.
Control doesn't really concern us so long as one or both of us is getting what we want.
At times we engage together because one needs or wants it - and the other is happy to provide what they seek. Then there may be a degree of control involved.
Other times if we both in the mood so to speak - it just happens. Its mutual agreement and pleasure.
Control doesn't really concern us so long as one or both of us is getting what we want.
Active Ink Slinger
generally, i like the guy to take charge.... the more turned on i get, the more submissive i get. but sometimes, it is a lot of fun to turn it around and take charge for a night. it generally gets a good reaction, too!
*kisses*
-Kristen
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-Kristen
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Active Ink Slinger
I like both sides. I think different people bring out different sides of me. Also It changes with mood- sometimes I want to be made to submit and sometimes I enjoy the power trip that is having someone at your feet.
Active Ink Slinger
I would rather share the issue of control.
But, I really do love it when a guy takes me and uses me just the way he wants. Calling White Trash Slut and a street walking whore really is very degrading and humiliating. God I love him to take control when he wants
But, I really do love it when a guy takes me and uses me just the way he wants. Calling White Trash Slut and a street walking whore really is very degrading and humiliating. God I love him to take control when he wants
Active Ink Slinger
I prefer my woman to take control
Short Arse Brit
I like the man to take control, though he has to know my limits and not go too far when doing so and sometimes that is a fine line, but I most definitely like him to take control, though I do on occasion, though rarely take control, but it usually ends up at some point with him taking it back from me....usually because when I am in control I am a tease and he looses it so maybe all along I just wanted him to take control 
That being said all this was before I just recently became a lesbian (a terrible one) and I also own Chatty, who is a bloke so... errrr you work that one out I am even confused myself here now lol
That being said all this was before I just recently became a lesbian (a terrible one) and I also own Chatty, who is a bloke so... errrr you work that one out I am even confused myself here now lol
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And my latest poem, The Temptation.
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