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A flat stomach on its own isn't all that erotic to me. But it can be a good indicator of stamina because it could mean you work out, although of course that's not always the case.
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That's a very interesting question!! Made me think about my 'list' of stuff that turns me on, and I was shocked to realize that a guy's tummy plays no part in my attraction. Huh!! My first partner went from 150 to 285 during our relationship, my current spouse built like a runner with a flat stomach and very muscular legs... I can honestly say I love a man with meat on his bones as much as I appreciate a more athletic body. I don't like 'skinny'. I would be just as turned on with some tummy, as I would with a flat stomach. What gets me are thighs, arms, butts.....and if there is some middle, that's more for me to wrap my legs around and hold onto.
I like the 'beefy boys' as much as I like the athletic ones.
I like the 'beefy boys' as much as I like the athletic ones.
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My Dom has a relatively flat tummy; no 'gut', but no 6 pack (and frankly don't care about a 6 pack cause to me that says 25 year old...that's just me lol. And I'm into older men anyway). Only after he pointed out to me he gained a few pounds, I never really noticed, he's hot either way. I'm sure guys can have the same insecurities as girls, and I'm sure in a lot of cases it's the same....we obsess over so-called 'flaws' while our partners don't notice and are drooling over us anyway.
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I Personally think a guy that takes care of himself is sexy although not a single ingredient.
Mah- I don't care. I think I am more about other things and more turned on by who they are on the inside. Someone can be super sexy outside and really BLAHHHHH and do nothing- so the flat tummy factor is really a "Mah" take it or leave it and does not matter one way or the other at all to me.
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Huh. Never thought about it, really. So neither a turn on nor a turn off, I suppose.
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I personally prefer it over beer guts, love handles, etc. - all part of youthful frivolity, I think :-) But this is simply a preference, not a deal-breaker. The most important thing is that he's strong and healthy. There's no point in having a six-pack and smoking six packs of cigs a day or whatever. I don't dig flat stomachs that come with those vices.
And to keep it real, I myself find it quite a challenge to maintain a totally flat stomach 24 hours of the day. It fluctuates with meals and exercise. So a 24/7 Adonis would give me stress and that wouldn't make for very fun sex now, would it? Ultimately, just stay healthy and love your body.x
And to keep it real, I myself find it quite a challenge to maintain a totally flat stomach 24 hours of the day. It fluctuates with meals and exercise. So a 24/7 Adonis would give me stress and that wouldn't make for very fun sex now, would it? Ultimately, just stay healthy and love your body.x
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I think good core strength is definitely a positive (if there is muscle tone - not just a flat stomach because the guy is naturally skinny etc). But... I actually haven't been with a bigger guy so I can't really do a fair comparison. They weren't all six-pack types, but there was always a certain level of athleticism/fitness, and they weren't the type to carry any extra weight around the middle.
There are a lot of other things that factor into good sex - everyone has a different interpretation of it - whether you like it slow and sensual or hard and rough - on a bed or more acrobatics etc. In certain cases, a more fit guy with abdominal strength may have an advantage. Same goes for a female actually. Fitness doesn't just mean having abs though, so you have to look at the bigger picture.
There are a lot of other things that factor into good sex - everyone has a different interpretation of it - whether you like it slow and sensual or hard and rough - on a bed or more acrobatics etc. In certain cases, a more fit guy with abdominal strength may have an advantage. Same goes for a female actually. Fitness doesn't just mean having abs though, so you have to look at the bigger picture.
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I am very visual, so yes definitely. Not just flat..ripped. I take care of my body meticulously and have a hard, flat stomach. If I wasn't as fitness crazed I imagine I wouldn't expect the same from partner. Studies show partners are usually pretty equal in looks, unless money is a factor! If your girl is hot and u r not, either she is with you for money or your big cock. Either way, she doesn't want to see a big unhealthy gut.
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I personally prefer it over beer guts, love handles, etc. - all part of youthful frivolity, I think :-) But this is simply a preference, not a deal-breaker. The most important thing is that he's strong and healthy. There's no point in having a six-pack and smoking six packs of cigs a day or whatever. I don't dig flat stomachs that come with those vices.
And to keep it real, I myself find it quite a challenge to maintain a totally flat stomach 24 hours of the day. It fluctuates with meals and exercise. So a 24/7 Adonis would give me stress and that wouldn't make for very fun sex now, would it? Ultimately, just stay healthy and love your body.x
You are right. I have an Adonis mate and feel self conscious sometimes when i feel bloated or just blah.I have a flat stomach, but I could wash my blouse on his! The sweetest thing is that my stomach is his "spot" he does not care as I do. That goes both ways. Good sex is good sex; it doesn't matter about a stomach. More about stamina, overall health. I can't lie and say I wouldnt miss his six/8 pack abs...so sexy.
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Tight abs are definitely a turn on for me but if I really like a guy it doesnt matter if he has a little bit of a belly. Some body building guys have unbeleivable six packs but they can be grotesque too if you know what i mean.