In my life, I've only encountered two women who squirted (copiously) when they came, and neither of them forewarned me about it. The first was in my mouth, in her house on her bed, and while it surprised me, it was not at all unpleasant - it was awesome. At first I thought she had peed, and even though I'd never tasted urine, it didn't taste like what urine SMELLS like (I have since learned more about it, including the fact that it is NOT pee.
The second time was at my house, first sex with an out-of-town internet hookup, and she squirted when she came while I was inside her. It gushed out all over my light colored comforter and it was ruined - no matter how I washed it, there was always the outline of the huge wet stain. Of course, I took it in stride, not letting it put a "damper" on the fun we were having, but afterwards, I was a little perturbed. If given a simple warning, I could have removed the comforter or had sex on a raincoat or something.
So ladies: Is there some reason why a woman wouldn't tell me up front that there's literally a flood coming? Is it embarrassing, or would you feel that it might be off-putting? I'm sure many women do give a heads-up that it's likely to happen, but the two women I've had it happen with, told me nothing (and I totally would NOT have kicked them out of bed for telling me).
As for me, I've only squirted a few times and none of them were planned lol. It just happens for some women such as myself and so we can't really give a "heads up". Besides, take it as a compliment that you made a girl squirt, because some women only squirt when the guy really goes in lol.
Why should a woman have to highlight things about herself to you? Should women have to give you a health and safety advise note before you engage in intercourse along with detaiks on any things that happen that may be unforseen or unexpected??
If a woman squirts, as Alexa above says, it's a compliment. Furthermore, if a woman must disclose something like this to you, I would suggest that you should be disclosing how big your load will be, whether you are shaven or not and if one of your nipples is bigger than the other.
Just because thus is something you freak out about doesn't mean that many other men don't enjoy the delightful surprise of squirting. Oh,and we're not misogynists who feel women should have full disclosure notices for sex.
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What about women like me, who don't squirt, but cum so much there's always a huge wet-spot on the sheets. Do I have to warn guys how wet their bed is going to get? They should be prepared for anything if they get a girl in bed!
If a girl pushes her fingers, or her whole hand upward in me against my gspot, or a guy does the same with his cock? I squirt almost constantly.
i have squirted a couple of time and its like out of body experience, I cant really know when so giving heads up will be a difficult task.
I squirt if my G-Spot is stimulated and it's a very intense feeling/experience.. It's more like a spray really not like a stream of urine. And no it doesn't smell like urine. It doesn't really have a smell and is colourless.
I really hate that you ladies feel ashamed of such a great gift. Shuld never happen. I have done way more than my share of laundry because of my wifes wettness and love every drop. It's not every time anymore but at least once a week. And sometimes a large towel just aint enough. Shame on anyboby that makes you feel awfull for such a gift. Enjoy what ya got. I sure do!
Its a Damn comforter so what. Be happy that you got her to experience it with you. Anything that happens in the thros of passion are thing to remember and embrace.
Take it as a compliment and move on. I read your post and you worded it so as not to come off as a dick. But the fact that you posted it at all is kind of a dick move. When you have good enough sex that your bed is stained, don't gripe about it.
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Well on one hand it's somewhat reasonable - women request that men let them know if they're going to come during oral, for example.
But with men it's a given "I will come and I will ejaculate" - for women, most women who experience it, it's not experienced enough to know it'll happen. It either happens or it doesn't. Crap shoot. There is no 'warning' ahead of time.
And since it's so rare (I've experienced it a few times in the last 15 years with my husband), how can you 'warn' against it? I'm not even sure how it happens... and I sort of am glad though he seems to prefer it actually DO happen (I don't get it - he thinks it's cool... or something).
Sooooo you've never ever cum on a blanket, sheet or quilt? Most women don't squirt and if they do it's not a regular thing. I'm thinking you're old enough to be prepared for this scenario.
