The only time I flush my kitty is after my monthly visitor leaves. Have never thought about doing it after sex.
Maybe I'm weird or paranoid but I clean the litterbox often. I never know when he's going to want to mess with it and I don't want him finding cat food!! If we didn't do it very often that would be different but he'd play 2x a day or more if he could.
a shower usually does it for a quick freshening up after sex and for the deep cleaning I like to soak in the tub.
I never never douche. It's actually not good for u, but squishing hot water up there is. But yeah, I tend to shower soon after my guy cums in me. And I hold the shower head to my hole every morning to make sure I don't stink down there.
I am big on hygiene. Feminine hygiene is important but {^like the post above me said} not some weird masking thing or unnatural, etc. I was taught about the douche thing when I was young and yet found it about as attractive to me and needed as an enima. I have seen stories about the latter, as a fetish of authors HERE on Lush and read it in a story. I have not ever needed to do either one and found out that it really isn't nessicary to be "fresh." I prefer a shower anyway, (bidet's are great or shower massagers for that sort work too).
However~ when reading a story, (any story, especially fiction and fantasy fiction) I really find it hard to swallow that no one EVER goes to the bathroom on these long journey's, not even to pee, and no mishaps EVER transpire as a result. I think it could be used to an authors advantage to write with more of a realistic feel and ring of truth to include 'some' bits IF it helps the story and seems to naturally fit. I am not saying that it must always have graphic or egregious details- only such as is really a plus.
Douching might not be realistic for everyone or a practice of the character... it isn't for me, and I doubt it would be for any character in my writing, but you might find certain 'other' things slipped in there. Plus~ I simply do not find it attractive. It would be what works for the story.
And I absolutely DETEST the smell of vinegar-nor do I want my privates rinsed in that as some douche's are vinegar & I don't care how much my mom uses it for everything.
I prefer my natural ~ clean, shower freshness. PH or scent has not been a problem for me.
I'm 50+, no more rags nor tampons Thank God! This is extremely important to me. The evils re douching are unfounded. Other than too much of anything can be bad. The tv doctors who rage against it also claim that shaving is unnecessary.
Start with the douche nozzle. I used to have a 4" skinny pipe that barely went anywhere. I could never clean up after my period. Had little "red afters" or, well, you get it... Then I connected with a Faultless Bulb. Cost $10. The nozzle is 5" long & 1/2" wide, curved and fluted (enhances exit flow). The end is shaped with two holes facing four different directions. The bulb reservoir, which the nozzle screws onto, holds .5L. It's made to flush water into every nook & cranny.
Since getting this, never again have I dealt with leftover period clots. As for cum? No more an issue either. Some women, like me, are sensitive to how semen changes vag ph. I hated "afters" the day following sex. The smell, and how I felt glued together. This doucher took care of all that.
Most of the time I used 1T white vinegar, followed by two clear rinses. If a period, or yeast infection left me raw, I'd use 1t baking soda instead. When I'd shower, I'd use 1t vinegar w/1 rinse. I felt great, my pussy felt and smelled the best it ever has.
During one of my pap exams, a wet slide was examined. The doctor came back and exclaimed that my vagina was the healthiest and cleanest she'd ever seen. Could have told her that...
Thankfully now I'm too old for periods; and hygiene is easier. I stick to the above routine, although not necessary as often. I hope this helps. It has given me self confidence. Proper twat hygiene means I always smell and taste my best, which is sweet and mild.
an old joke:
what did the blind man say as he walked past the fish market? Hello girls!
I just wash my in box during my daily shower. I don't go for vag-specific douches.
My only variation, is that I don't shower at the gym if the reds are at home.
I take a hot bath after sex (and before), especially if I've had more than one partner cum in me, unless its bedtime and then I sometimes wait till morning. I only douche maybe once a month after my period unless I'm with a fussy lesbian who has a hang-up about having sex with me if a man has cum in me recently. Enemas before anal, if practical.
Douching removes the healthy acidic nature that exists within your vagina, so it actually does more harm than good. All you really need to do is remember to wash it with a gentle unscented soap, and to urinate after sex to prevent urinary tract infections
Idk you guys, I would rather douche after I get my monthly. Just to know nothing is up there.. and whenever I know I'm going to have sex I know I fresh there also
I have never douched my vagina or tried to swill it out lol in any way or form and doubt i ever will. The vagina is supposed to be self cleaning, and it is to an extent that's why we get discharge etc but I do know what you girls are on about when you say the cum is left up there and it all can smell and feel a bit nasty the next day, normally though just a regular wash of my vagina on the outside gets rid of the smell!
Everything happens for a reason. Live for the moment and have no regrets.
As a pre-op transexual, I just wash everything real well...
I am nearly fifty and in the last few months visits have ceased being as regular as clockwork. For some reason I am more sensitive about keeping clean and fresh down there so wash much more thoroughly outside and in -- but only with warm water
Like Dirty_D said, an enema is usually given to prompt a bowel movement in a patient unable to pass his/her own stool without assistance. As far as douching goes, no medical reason to do it, the vagina is a self-cleansing organ, and honestly? The thought of my pussy smelling (and tasting) like artificial wildflowers kind of weirds me out.
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As a an that cannot go without oral sex a clean pussy and butt is very important. Had a one nighter a few years ago and was horny as hell but when I started to dine at the Y. The aroma was not the best.
What did I do? Stopped pleasuring her and just fucked her and left town
Fucking a girl who is having her period is very exciting for the girl and a buzz for the guy
I very seldom feel the need to DEEP CLEAN the kitty. However, if I know someone might visit via the back door, then a DEEP CLEANING of that area is called for.
I douche the kitty as the shower head does the job nicely and is very pleasurable but the back door is another matter. I like to feel scrupulously there, and douche here very regulary.
I think hygiene is very important - as well as showering and bathing: (before and after whenever possible)... Someone is conscious about good hygiene and grooming is really the only way for me.
Their cleaning choices do not matter so much to me, or how they got clean, just that they are clean. (If they smell and taste nice... is what I care about, a natural way is good as far as soap and water, toothpaste and deoderant go a long way~)
Douching is a totally unnecessary process. The vagina is pretty much a self cleansing organ
I find just showering it bathing after sex to be ample
Also douching can be very harmful as that some douches actually remove the good bacteria inside the vaginal walls. This can lead to infections and possible diseases such as chlamydia
Google the effects if douching or on webmd
What my learned friend above said!!
Sorry for the intrusion here ladies but here is one man's point of view. Sex without being fresh from a shower/bath for all involved is a total turn off for me. In most of my stories here I include something about "freshening up" prior to the act. One exception to that is "The Pastor's Wife". There she enjoys the smell of the hard working young man who she seduces but she on the other hand is fresh from a dip in the pool. I love to go down on a nice fresh pussy. I give the same courtesy to the ladies who are kind enough to pleasure me.
