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Faking Moans & Groans During Sex

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CNN: From "When Harry Met Sally" to "Sex and the City" to your basic porn film, women in the throes of passion aren't just shouting their ecstasy from the rooftops, they're moaning with pleasure. Loudly.

But is this just cinematic license, or is there really something to noisy sex?

Experts wondered the same thing. In 2011, Gayle Brewer of the University of Central Lancashire and Colin Hendrie of the University of Leeds published their research on the topic -- technically known as "copulatory vocalization" -- in the Archives of Sexual Behavior. In the study, they asked 71 sexually active heterosexual women between ages 18 and 48 for more details about vocalization during sex.

The researchers found that many of the women did make noise but not necessarily while they were having an orgasm. Instead, 66% said that they moaned to speed up their partner's climax, and 87% stated that they vocalized during sex to boost his self-esteem.


* So I was wondering what, if any, thoughts liberated Lush ladies might have on this subject. I'd ask my own wife and former lovers but they, of course, never faked nuttin'...honest. ;)

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I'm not really that loud when I'm having sex. I sometimes moan and whimper. I pant a lot, but I don't fake anything for my partner's benefit. I think I only scream when a cock goes up my ass at the wrong angle, and it's painful!
I've been told I'm pretty loud, but it is all natural. I whimper and moan more than anything. I'm not a screamer, because I think that sounds so fake. Too porn-y. It is the soft whimpers and moans that are sexiest. I've never had a person complain about them. biggrin
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I've been told I'm pretty loud, but it is all natural. I whimper and moan more than anything. I'm not a screamer, because I think that sounds so fake. Too porn-y. It is the soft whimpers and moans that are sexiest. I've never had a person complain about them. biggrin


i always get a kick of reading stories where the women are always screaming when they orgasm. i'm thinking, damn, if a chick does that with me, it's gonna be really annoying and i'm probably not gonna want to be with her again. silly

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i always get a kick of reading stories where the women are always screaming when they orgasm. i'm thinking, damn, if a chick does that with me, it's gonna be really annoying and i'm probably not gonna want to be with her again. silly


Right? That is how I feel. It is one reason I have a hard time listening to porn. I hate that over the top, fake sounding shit.
Listening is bad enough, but having to read one of those never-ending, over-the-top orgasm, such as the all-caps, "EEEEEOOOOOOWWW," or the even more dreaded, 'Unending Letters and Exclamation marks, "Ooooooh, fuuuuuuuuuuuck, yeeeeeeeees!!!!!!!!!!!!can be a challenge, just imo you understand.

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I think sound is sexy while fucking. But, I don't know why would fake a moan. If you are not getting what you need, SAY SOMETHING. I am not fucking to boost egos, I am fucking because I like it. I am moaning when I like something a lot. If I am not getting to orgasm, I say harder, faster, let's switch position, eat me, whatever. But, won't just fake shit.
I have always made a degree of noise, not just at Climax but building up to the point. Recently a guy I was seeing recorded my sounds. The are mostly unintelligible, except for a couple of words of filth. I have changed and changed a great deal and have no idea why.
I enjoy expression and feedback during sex. I love talking, moaning, grunts, etc between both of us. I've tried to be silent, but it's so stifling and boring. I'd say my noise is driven in part by feedback, release, encouragement and just plain old filth.
If he can't get you genuinely moaning, dump his sorry ass! Fake moaning just encourages him to keep doing it wrong.
I think those 71 women in that study/research were either wives who were not attracted to their spouses anymore OR escorts/call girls who were paid for sex and they needed to get out of there real fast. lol jk
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I enjoy expression and feedback during sex. I love talking, moaning, grunts, etc between both of us. I've tried to be silent, but it's so stifling and boring. I'd say my noise is driven in part by feedback, release, encouragement and just plain old filth.

well said .. moans , grunts endearment encouragement and the occasional OH GOD YESSSSSS lol