Ladies; when receiving oral sex do you prefer the person doing the pleasing between your legs with you lying down, or with you sitting on their face?
Usually, it feels better when I'm lying down on my back and she's between my thighs.
I tried the face sitting and i really don't get the big deal. It is just a lot of extra trouble for no gain
Usually I am on the bed on my back with legs spread, but... sometimes I kneel and my husband is under me. It is different because I can look down at him, plus I get to watch his hands roaming over me. We have done it with me facing the other way as well, but I always end up going down on him too, so that changes the dynamics a bit. It's all good!
Generally I'm laying on my back but face sitting can be fun at times.
I love it. I love to sit on my partners face.
My favorite way to get oral sex is to be giving it at the same time. This usually has me on the bottom, because I love the submissive feel of it. Perhaps I'll switch it up next time, though. It would certainly let me work more on his cock.
Face sitting on its own, meh. It's too dominant a position for me. Maybe with the right guy. That's one time I wouldn't mind being topped from the bottom.
I prefer to be lying down when receiving, face sitting is a too dominant position for me but when giving if the girl wants to sit on my face she can go right ahead
Well, that is generally true, Bethany. Of course women do have a built-in advantage. The older and more experienced the guy, the better the odds that he knows how to find the magic spot go way up. Of course that assumes that he gives a damn about orgasms not his own. If it was practical to come up with a top ten cunnilingus performers list, probably eight would be women. Practice does indeed make perfect.
It has always seemed to me, that if he does not meet our expectations. Maybe the poor dear just does not know how to satisfy a woman by Cunninglingus. So as a service to ourselves, if we decide to keep him a while, and to the rest of our sisterhood. Maybe a little investment in tutelage is worth the time.
I know men are like Puppies some just can not be house trained.
We, women, were born with the giving gene and I am not so sure about men.
I found this statement in Beard Facts.
Beard Fact #19.
92% of women, studied, found that sitting on a breaded man's face for 20 minutes a day is Absolutely Fucking Fabulous.
"We, women, were born with the giving gene and I am not so sure about men."
Men are not born with that gene. However, given time and empathy, we can learn it. We have to recognize and let go of the machismo attitude and embrace feminism and the pleasure gained from giving pleasure. Once you get past that, you are in a whole new world and it is all worth it. Putting smiles on her face has to become the center of your universe. If you can't get past that, forget it.
sitting or being sat on................yum
I am mature and for years my attitude is ladies first. Mine will come in good time.
Multi is your thing. At my age I just want one.
Why choose one over the other. My mood changes a lot, and I want to feel free to do as I choose at the time.
she prefers sitting on face
Depends on the mood, but lying down on the back makes it better for a gf sometimes, if she's not used to face sitting.