My husband and I have had a few swinging experiences over the past few years, mostly fourseomes with other couples where we swap partners, but more recently mmf threesomes. He wants me to try double penetration, and i just wondered if there are any girls here with experience of this and how it feels. The idea is quite exciting but i'm also a little bit scared.
Sarah
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I've had DP, and if you're relaxed and your partners listen and know half of what they're doing, it can be in-fucking-credible. Personally, I can take girth in my pussy easier than in my ass, anything too wide back there feels too tight for me unless I'm on something. Here's the key, and it may not work for you because everyone's different, but have the guy who's gonna be in your pussy underneath you, so you're in a cowgirl position. This way he can thrust up into you while you lean down against his chest or hover just above on your elbows. You keep your hips still and give him a good angle up into you. Have the other guy crouch behind you and carefully enter your ass from behind. It's not true doggy for him because the angle doesn't seem to work right. He kind of has to bend at the knee and be over you more than behind you.
I've done it another way before, where I am basically reverse cowgirl with the guy underneath lodged in my ass, and I lean back, then the second guy crouches the same way, and penetrates my pussy from above. The angle in the ass can hurt this way, and what happened is that they got carried away and the guy above pushed me down flat, and they sandwiched me. The guy underneath felt like he was gonna rip my ass, and the guy above was pushing too hard against the thin wall between my ass and vagina. It wasn't comfortable at best, and painful at worst. They were also both fairly big.
Forget what you might see in a porn vid, you can't go all sorts of positions in DP. Once the angles get right, keep it just that way, or suddenly they will try to shift positions and the pain shoots like a dagger. Keep a good thing going!
Also, you probably know this already if you've had anal sex, but you can't just have him shove it in from nothing. Have him start with a finger- mouth is even better but lots of guys won't go for that- and work you just right while he's fucking you. Loosen you up, get your body ready, then make sure you use lube. Lube-free anal sex is only in guys fantasies. Lube and foreplay are must, must, must!
DP can be amazing. When it's working right, and the guys are sawing in and out- where one guy is pulling out while the other is pushing in- the orgasms can be crazy, especially with some clit stimulation. The feeling of that wall between the chambers getting squeezed down is out of this world, and not something that you can get with regular sex- unless you bother with dildos, etc. The 'fullness' that we get so addicted to is taken to another whole level with DP, plus its so 'animal-fuck'. The testosterone controlling you from both above and below can be its own high in all of this too.
Good luck, just make sure they listen to you, baby. I've never heard a guy say how much DP sucked, but it can suck big-time for us girls if things go wrong. Get the right angle, stick to it, and happy cumming!
Damn girl, there's wet and then there's WET!! I'll try it sometime, but so far, I've demanded they use lube, or else no anal. Better safe than....torn anus.
Well there is another way that is a little less tense on the woman.. in the shower after a nice lather and rinse the guy stands behind you and lifts you waist high off the floor.. you reach under and guide him into your ass.. but not all the way yet.. he holds you up half inserted and the guy in front walks in between your legs.. now the best way is NOT to lock your legs around his hips.. but lock your knees over the forearms of the guy behind you.. so he can keep you spread open for his fuckmate in front.. now the front guy only inserts halfway as well.. then when everyone is in position.. the front guy presses everyone back into the wall and the rear guy lets your weight down onto both cocks in a simultaneous penetration.. if done right it is a complete and full penetration in both places and the two men take turns holding and adjusting your body weight between them to suit the maximum pleasure of everyone.. you are basically pinned between them with nothing to do but let gravity and imagination do the work... the cowgirl dp is ok but to be honest it's more exciting for the woman than it is for the men.. the woman has to direct traffic and bark out orders.. in the wet dp the woman basically is turning her body over and the guys have to work together or it becomes a clusterfuck.. a little more challenging for us.. but seemingly more rewarding in my experience... demonstrations are gladly offered.....
BigRod- nice DP method! I'm gonna have to try that sometime- I love wet fucking anyways.
Oh wow! I think Xuani and DD just became my new heroes,....oops, my bad,.....new heroines. I'm all flustered just thinking about what you guys said.mjYg7rRkGZgAwiqh
"Whoa, lady, I only speak two languages, English and bad English." - Korben Dallas, from The Fifth Element
"If history repeats itself, and the unexpected always happens, how incapable must man be of learning from experience?" - George Bernard Shaw
Oh, yes... Xuani has been a hero of mine for a while now!
Xauni and Dancing Doll you both claim to be my friends and you write all the goods stuff before I can get to the keyboard.
I know Dancing Doll is my kid sister my parents never disclosed.
Xauni you are right for most woman need some lubrication, if is going to be have a joyful ride. But natural womans lubrication is by far the best solution. Excess liquid can be a problem and embarrassing, but for this purpose it is just perfect.
There a several good positions, but this my favorite. With the backside man on his back lower yourself onto his erection and then lie back so your back is on his chest. Then if you are flexible enough, like I know Dancing Doll is. Place you thighs on your chest, thus providing an easy enter into your vagina for the guy enter from the top and at the same time space for your lower lover. If your playmates get into perfect rhythm you will experience the best of trips.
It also works very well while your partners are standing.
Damn, Whitney, I must have done something wrong- that's the exact position that hurt like hell- even before they went buckwild and sandwiched me. I'll have to take these notes and try again!
Please give us the full report! With everyone's help, we'll all be double-stuffing ourselves to maximum pleasure!
Okay, this is just about the most erotic thread I've had the pleasure of reading on the forums.
My girlfriend just had this conversation last week. We both have desired to try this, but fear what would happen if things got out of control in a bad way. Appreciate the options everyone shared. Good question that has me horny just thinking about it.
Wow....you ladies are something else.....definitely got some 'truth in advertising' with you two...
I might be getting something very wet here shortly....
I'll let you all know how it goes but thanks for all the advice.
