She know and is very ok with me being on here!
90% of people sayin their other half is ok with it are liars or have no other half.
my BF don't know about lush and its best like that lol
maddening
She knows i read porn but not that I talk to other girls or what we talk about
She knows that I have needs that she cannot meet and that I chat on here.
No she'd never approve. She hates sex, and thinks I should too. I also frequent another site where I publish stories. It's as close to sex as I'll get.
Tantalizing Teasing Temptress
Nope he has no clue about this or a few other things.
The best relationships IMHO are those based on truthfulness, openess and trust. Of course of husband knows. I don't sneak around on him and I wouldn't want him sneaking around on me. Honesty pays huge dividends in every friendship, every relationship. We should practice it more!
I'm like "some" here...
I'm a closet Lushy
Both myself and my lover are members here we have no secrets from each other !
Unfortunately, no. Would love for her to know, and be able to share with her my enjoyment of erotica. But alas, I remain a closeted (happy) perv! One good (great) thing, by joining Lush I learned how large the closet is, and how many wonderful, fun, sexy, like-minded people I have as room-ies.
Agree stole these words from post above. 100%
Wife hates sex but hates porn more. This will forever remain as secret as I can keep it.
Wife hates sex but hates porn more. This will forever remain as secret as I can keep it.
My other half has here own Lush Account !!
He knows and has access to everything on my computer and I have access to everything on his. Honesty and Trust is a core component of any successful marriage.
I feel good about reading, watching and writing porn. In more ways than one. And I am not ashamed of my sexual turn-ons.
Plus I only date like-minded men, so there's no necessity to keep my membership here a secret.
Unfortunately my other half doesn't know anything about Lush.
You see... I suffer from a rare disease from which my left side of the body doesn't know what my right side does, and vice versa. I've tried to get both halves on the same page. I've gone to couples therapy so my halves would act as a whole, but still... no luck. So I come to Lush, type with my right hand (since I'm right handed, obviously) and my left side has no idea I'm here. I think it would approve, though. Maybe one day I'll find out.
I happen to be very new here so I highly doubt he has any idea of my signing on.
He doesn't know about lush and about the stories I write. He knows I write stories but I've never had him read one.
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YOU CAN'T LET ANYONE COME IN BETWEEN YOU AND THE THINGS YOU'RE PASSIONATE ABOUT IN THIS LIFE, OR IT AIN'T WORTH LIVING.
Approve? That's not a relationship, that's chattel bondage.
I can truly relate to this topic. My last serious significant other was open-minded and wild; at first. I really thought that I had found somebody that I can be my true and open self around. As the newness wore off he became more insecure, more possessive, and more jealous. In order to keep him happy I found myself taming down, stopped visiting most of the websites I frequented (including this one), and I somehow, very slowly, stopped being myself.
I felt that something was wrong with "us" and did everything I could to make us better. I'm embarrassed to say that we lingered in that sort of limbo for far too long. It got to the point where I wouldn't even comment on how I found a particular actor or actress physically attractive, lest we get into an argument. I broke it off. Luckily, the new people in my life are open to accepting me for who I am, and that includes my love of reading erotica and my desire to be at least decent at writing it. In fact, the guy I'm seeing now is partially responsible for me becoming active again. I had begun visiting the site once more, keeping a low profile, and he saw it and I just told him what it was and that I had written a few stories here some years ago. He asked if he could read one and I let him. He went on and on about how well-written it was, how he could feel the emotions and tension, and also so hot and sexy. From now on, if anybody I'm involved with doesn't like my naughty hobby, I have an entire ass they can kiss.
Am I a good witch, or a bad witch? History will decide
For me, it’s not a secret as far as I’m not intentionally hiding it. However I haven’t mentioned it.