No she'd never approve. She hates sex, and thinks I should too. I also frequent another site where I publish stories. It's as close to sex as I'll get.
Unfortunately, no. Would love for her to know, and be able to share with her my enjoyment of erotica. But alas, I remain a closeted (happy) perv! One good (great) thing, by joining Lush I learned how large the closet is, and how many wonderful, fun, sexy, like-minded people I have as room-ies.
Quote by CharlotteLM 90% of people sayin their other half is ok with it are liars or have no other half.
my BF don't know about lush and its best like that lol
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My word, you are judgemental, in this and other matters. So, am I lying when I say both my husband and my girlfriend know about and approve of Lush, or do I have neither a husband nor a girlfriend.
As for the rest of you perverts who have other halves who don't know about your secret lives, I know just how lucky I am. #2, the shit did not know I like ladies. I didn't dare tell him.
The best relationships IMHO are those based on truthfulness, openess and trust. Of course of husband knows. I don't sneak around on him and I wouldn't want him sneaking around on me. Honesty pays huge dividends in every friendship, every relationship. We should practice it more!
Quote by CharlotteLM 90% of people sayin their other half is ok with it are liars or have no other half.
my BF don't know about lush and its best like that lol
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YES. My other half knows I’m here, I met him here and then married him. So please refrain from calling people lairs unless you know your facts!
YES. My other half knows I’m here, I met him here and then married him. So please refrain from calling people lairs unless you know your facts!
i will second that you have been here for a while and yes you met and married from this site i know of at least two couples that have it can and will happen
Unfortunately, no. Would love for her to know, and be able to share with her my enjoyment of erotica. But alas, I remain a closeted (happy) perv! One good (great) thing, by joining Lush I learned how large the closet is, and how many wonderful, fun, sexy, like-minded people I have as room-ies.
Agree stole these words from post above. 100%
He knows and has access to everything on my computer and I have access to everything on his. Honesty and Trust is a core component of any successful marriage.
I feel good about reading, watching and writing porn. In more ways than one. And I am not ashamed of my sexual turn-ons.
Plus I only date like-minded men, so there's no necessity to keep my membership here a secret.
Unfortunately my other half doesn't know anything about Lush.
You see... I suffer from a rare disease from which my left side of the body doesn't know what my right side does, and vice versa. I've tried to get both halves on the same page. I've gone to couples therapy so my halves would act as a whole, but still... no luck. So I come to Lush, type with my right hand (since I'm right handed, obviously) and my left side has no idea I'm here. I think it would approve, though. Maybe one day I'll find out.
Quote by midnight900 Unfortunately my other half doesn't know anything about Lush.
You see... I suffer from a rare disease from which my left side of the body doesn't know what my right side does, and vice versa. I've tried to get both halves on the same page. I've gone to couples therapy so my halves would act as a whole, but still... no luck. So I come to Lush, type with my right hand (since I'm right handed, obviously) and my left side has no idea I'm here. I think it would approve, though. Maybe one day I'll find out.
you are such a smart ass, if I had a pie, POW! right in the kisser !
I can truly relate to this topic. My last serious significant other was open-minded and wild; at first. I really thought that I had found somebody that I can be my true and open self around. As the newness wore off he became more insecure, more possessive, and more jealous. In order to keep him happy I found myself taming down, stopped visiting most of the websites I frequented (including this one), and I somehow, very slowly, stopped being myself.
I felt that something was wrong with "us" and did everything I could to make us better. I'm embarrassed to say that we lingered in that sort of limbo for far too long. It got to the point where I wouldn't even comment on how I found a particular actor or actress physically attractive, lest we get into an argument. I broke it off. Luckily, the new people in my life are open to accepting me for who I am, and that includes my love of reading erotica and my desire to be at least decent at writing it. In fact, the guy I'm seeing now is partially responsible for me becoming active again. I had begun visiting the site once more, keeping a low profile, and he saw it and I just told him what it was and that I had written a few stories here some years ago. He asked if he could read one and I let him. He went on and on about how well-written it was, how he could feel the emotions and tension, and also so hot and sexy. From now on, if anybody I'm involved with doesn't like my naughty hobby, I have an entire ass they can kiss.
Am I a good witch, or a bad witch? History will decide
my husband knows i'm gay and feels that what I need that he can't give me is not his business. i wasn''t going to tell him about lush because I didn't want him feeling inferior because he can't do me at all now. one day he asked me why I was smiling so I showed him my lush profile. he hardly ever comes to lush but i talked him into writing a story.