My hubby doesn't know that I am on here. He is very vanilla and if I'm honest a bit of a prude. He knows that I read stories but doesn't know I have a profile. Lush helps me scratch that itch without having to stray in real life.
I'm not saying it's right, but I'm not getting what I need despite explaining and doing everything I can to encourage him to be more adventurous.
We have never actually discussed it. But I don't think he would care. We both know what play with ourselves when the other isn't around. He watched videos while I do better with sexual literature and conversations.
My first stories were more like fantasies that I whispered to my husband while we made love. He liked them so much that I began to write them down and email them to him while he was on the road as an OTR driver. He encouraged me, said I had real talent, and that I should get my stories published. I didn't think they were particularly good, but got an account on Lush and posted a couple that were so well received that I wrote several more. My husband watches my Lush account more than I do and is the first to tell me when someone posts a comment on one of my stories.
I don't have any secrets from my husband. I'm open with him about everything. He knows that I'm on Lush (and has access to my account). He also KNOWS that I will NEVER, EVER go from Lush to real life. In addition to honesty, trust is one of the bedrocks of any successful relationship.
No, he doesn't know that I'm here....although a few years ago, I had left my laptop open and he questioned the site. Although I tried to interest him, he certainly didn't approve of me being here.
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My wife dies not know I’m here and would be beyond pissed if she found out. But if we had a more physical relationship....who knows