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I wonder if the length of the erect meat really matters. What should be the minimum length? 6 inches?
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I wonder if the length of the erect meat really matters. What should be the minimum length? 6 inches?
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According to various ladies in my life, thickness is more important than length. If fact, the only time anyone's mentioned length being a problem was a slender friend who told me she once had a lover whose hammer was longer tha she could comfortably handle in certain positions. After a few bruising sessions, they ended up doing a lot of screwing in the female dominate position.
As for average length, best I recall, according to Masters and Johnson, the vast majority of guy's fall into the 5-7 inch range.
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As for average length, best I recall, according to Masters and Johnson, the vast majority of guy's fall into the 5-7 inch range.
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This topic has been discussed so much in so many places...it was a forum post somewhere on Lush that inpired my latest poem "Size Does Matter"...which has been getting positive response from both guys and girls...
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i know it gets said all the time but its not the size, it really is what you do with it that counts.
I have been with someone that was fair big (about 8, 8 1/2 inches) and he would just hammer away like there was no tomorrow. Not very comfortable for me at all and he just didnt see it. Doggy style was out of the question because it was just way too deep and he couldnt control himself and do it at a depth that was good for both. His girth was quite big too so if it had been a while it often hurt me when we had sex again simply because he just used to try shovin it in
I really think that the length is unimportant as long as you are a good lover
I have been with someone that was fair big (about 8, 8 1/2 inches) and he would just hammer away like there was no tomorrow. Not very comfortable for me at all and he just didnt see it. Doggy style was out of the question because it was just way too deep and he couldnt control himself and do it at a depth that was good for both. His girth was quite big too so if it had been a while it often hurt me when we had sex again simply because he just used to try shovin it in
I really think that the length is unimportant as long as you are a good lover
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most women who enjoy playing with men prefer "girth" .....
length isn't nearly important if it is at the very least "average" .....
true. don't want a short one though
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don't want a short one... but there is such a thing as too long. you can grind on a small penis and still get off. but if it's too big, it just hurts and it's not enjoyable.
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*sigh....another one worried?
Don't worry so much, learn to be a kind, considerate lover, learn how to cuddle, learn how to listen to her, learn how to read her body, and learn how to lick her to new heights, trust me, she WON'T care how big you are.
10+ years with the same man who is barely 7 inches, and I'm always satisfied.
Don't worry so much, learn to be a kind, considerate lover, learn how to cuddle, learn how to listen to her, learn how to read her body, and learn how to lick her to new heights, trust me, she WON'T care how big you are.
10+ years with the same man who is barely 7 inches, and I'm always satisfied.
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Agreed! ^^^^^^^^^
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I’ve always preferred thickness over length… There’s something about seeing a thick cock spreading you oh so wide mmmm --- too much information..? 
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Average suits me fine.... as long as they know how to use it!! If all else fails, he's better be good with this hands and mouth!!
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According to the Dr. Oz Show, which I watch quite often... The "average" size of an erect penis is 5.4 inches. I'm over that at 6 3/4 inches, with the head at 2 1/4 inch diameter. I've had no complaints from women. I've had many say it's not the size that matters, but how it's used. I do have a very "talented" tongue, which they dearly love.....
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LOL!
Insert typical super smart ass comment courtesy of thepainter here.
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NOT FOR NOTHING GUYS...
IF SIZE DIDN'T MATTER, WE WOULDN'T TALK ABOUT IT SOOOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH...
It's not ALL that matters...but IT MATTERS.
a big dick with an idiot on the other end, doesn't get it done either.
IF SIZE DIDN'T MATTER, WE WOULDN'T TALK ABOUT IT SOOOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH...
It's not ALL that matters...but IT MATTERS.
a big dick with an idiot on the other end, doesn't get it done either.
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Well depends. I like to ride and if a guy has a short cock I can't ride as well or hard. So I'd say & and up length wise...
I always smile when this question is asked or brought up. If two people care about the person and really want to pleasure each other, well, it is the fun of exploring and being open with each other. If a women cares about a man that the average size cock (5 to 7) and they can really share their desires and put the other person first, wow, the fun they can have.
Take a 8 " cock that is self centered, take a playboy bunny that will not think of you and with both, you have an equation for a pretty bad relationship or night together. What if two people could care, really open up to each other, be submissive to each other totally and put the other person first, gee your women and your man would feel loved, have enjoyed each others desires and just maybe people can have the love they want.
I wonder if the size of a womens breast or her ass or his cock or anything else that people use as the standard would be made to be as important as the communication to make a relationship work. Or maybe just maybe, we will realize that the size of the imagaination that is carried by the love of the other person, your friend and the person you want to please and enjoy will let each other stick beside each other, becasue the size of the love has nothing to do with the size of a body part.
Take a 8 " cock that is self centered, take a playboy bunny that will not think of you and with both, you have an equation for a pretty bad relationship or night together. What if two people could care, really open up to each other, be submissive to each other totally and put the other person first, gee your women and your man would feel loved, have enjoyed each others desires and just maybe people can have the love they want.
I wonder if the size of a womens breast or her ass or his cock or anything else that people use as the standard would be made to be as important as the communication to make a relationship work. Or maybe just maybe, we will realize that the size of the imagaination that is carried by the love of the other person, your friend and the person you want to please and enjoy will let each other stick beside each other, becasue the size of the love has nothing to do with the size of a body part.
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*sigh....another one worried?
Don't worry so much, learn to be a kind, considerate lover, learn how to cuddle, learn how to listen to her, learn how to read her body, and learn how to lick her to new heights, trust me, she WON'T care how big you are.
10+ years with the same man who is barely 7 inches, and I'm always satisfied.
Best response......well done, as a man I look for the same thing sex is a bonus not a right.....when it ceases to be enjoyable no amount of length of girth matters because the intamcy isnt there in the first place.
Not that I'm gay but the same principle applies.
I found this blogging website, so maybe it will help you
For some reason men think the bigger their dick the better they can please a woman; but why? What woman really wants to be fucked by an 11 inch penis? Must we remember that our vagina is only 4 inches long; sure it can expand once aroused but there are side effects to having sex with a guy that‘s hung like a horse compared to one with one with the average 4-5 inch penis. Let me break them down for you:
1.You walk weird, and believe me it’s quite uncomfortable. After sleeping with a guy that not only had a long dick but a wide one too, for about an hour I felt like my vagina was inverted which left me walking like a zombie. Not only did I look stupid but my vagina hurt!
2. Speaking of hurt, big dicks hurt! A woman shouldn’t feel like her cherry is being popped every time she has sex with a peen that’s long and wide. Sex starts to become a routine because you have to find the position that doesn’t feel like your cervix is getting a beat down, which can become awkward and leave you pleasuring yourself.
3.A big penis makes your menstrual cycle heavier. You’ll have to buy twice as many pads or tampons because your flow will be bananas since his big peen left your vagina a bit more open than last month. No woman wants to rush home because she has a situation on the back of her pants.
4. It’s impossible to give great head. I don’t know about you but putting an 8 inch or longer penis down my mouth makes me gag and no guy wants that. Oral sex becomes a job because it’s no problem working the first 4 inches but you’ll have to a perform a blow/jack off combo if you want any success.
5. Sex isn’t fun. Missionary position is not your friend when your man has a big dick. It goes too deep which causes you a lot of pain and discomfort. Riding him may help but it can still hurt when it goes too deep.
Women wouldn’t have any of these problems if they embraced the small dick. You’ll give the best head with no gag reflexes, can perform any sex position comfortably and still have your regular cycle when Aunt Flo comes to visit.
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I think girth is more important. I'm 5.2 inches long and i don't have an issue with my length.
However, I have serious concerns about my 4.1 inch girth - normal condoms can slip off.
However, I have serious concerns about my 4.1 inch girth - normal condoms can slip off.