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Does looking qualify as cheating?

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Not at all. Looking is only looking. Everyone can freely look at all!
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Nothing wrong with looking (makes me wonder why so many women complain about men looking at chests, & walk around the local Mall with things written specifically on chest/butt part of clothes).
Lady GlitterGiggles
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No. Hooters?!?? Hello?? Hahaha!
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Quote by cprivate
OK, in your valued opinions... is looking cheating? Maybe the thoughts behind the looks are but whats wrong with looking?



Depends if you're out strolling with you're SO or not. If you're sitting in a brothel looking at pussy, that would be cheating.
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If you are on a diet and you look at a piece of chocolate cake, is that cheating? Of course it isnt. Kind of the same thing, don't you think?
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If you are on a diet and you look at a piece of chocolate cake, is that cheating? Of course it isnt. Kind of the same thing, don't you think?


Well, not really. If I was looking at a piece of choccy cake id fucking eat it!

If a guy is sitting across from a pair of spreAd legs showing what she had for breakfast, I think that's cheating. Looking at cake and looking at a kitty are two different levels of coveting lol.
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I damn well hope not, or I'm unfaithful most days! As long as it's just casting an admiring glance, that's ok, surely.

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Well, not really. If I was looking at a piece of choccy cake id fucking eat it!

If a guy is sitting across from a pair of spreAd legs showing what she had for breakfast, I think that's cheating. Looking at cake and looking at a kitty are two different levels of coveting lol.


Yes, the cake is most important. Also, Wanting the cake ya'll post on my wall is not cheating because the chances of me actually eating it are zero. Now, stick me in a bakery, you better guard your cake. I LOVE CAKE
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I don't think so. When we look at beautiful things, or people, I think that's being human. However, when it goes from looking and admiring to 'acting on' what we see, then that would cross over the line for me.
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Is this a serious question?! Of course looking isn't cheating. If your partner freaks out at you looking at someone else, that's their own insecurity showing
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Depends if you're out strolling with you're SO or not. If you're sitting in a brothel looking at pussy, that would be cheating.


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Looking at another person is definitely not cheating.

I mean that is really silly in my honest opinion.

You can't have your eyes on your spouse or lover 100% of the time.

Just having sex with another person physically is cheating.

Nothing else in my opinion is cheating.

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No. My husband and I have a clear agreement we can look all we want. We each enjoy the human form (I'm into both men & women, he's mostly into women) and will on occasion share stories about the "eye candy" we've enjoyed viewing from time to time.

Once that looking morphs into more (touching), then it's cheating.
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I recall promising to love, honor, and cherish. But, I didn't say one damn word about going blind.
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edit: sorry, i thought it said "licking". nevermind.

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nothing wrong with browsing as long as you don't purchase the merchandise!
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Nothing wrong with looking
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If my guys stopped looking - they would not be with me. They get from me what they wish from those they admire - at a distance.
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Well, not really. If I was looking at a piece of choccy cake id fucking eat it!

If a guy is sitting across from a pair of spreAd legs showing what she had for breakfast, I think that's cheating. Looking at cake and looking at a kitty are two different levels of coveting lol.


But doesn't it really depend on the situation? If the guy was sitting there and the woman sits across from him and spreads her legs to show her kitty, looking is just human nature. If he has to move in order to get a good look that's another story. Either way, still not cheating to me.

Guess I want to have my cake and eat it too, LOL
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Yes, the cake is most important. Also, Wanting the cake ya'll post on my wall is not cheating because the chances of me actually eating it are zero. Now, stick me in a bakery, you better guard your cake. I LOVE CAKE


I see your point(s)
You are a Cake Adi, a fruit one
Lady GlitterGiggles
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I see your point(s)
You are a Cake Adi, a fruit one





Why thank you Trinkladee....You're a bit fruity yourself....I love fruit
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Ok Adi and Trinket, you are both a bit fruity cakey. Looking is harmless, although I can understand the confusion if you are looking at a brothel. What are you doing there in the first place? I look and so does my husband. I even point out women who I think he would find attractive. It's harmless fun and quite human to do so, imo.
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What matters is how you look at the person. If you look with lust, then yes. You've committed adultery in your heart. If you're looking just to make sure they're not a lamp post or something then obviously not. That's how I see it. I feel like if you have to look at someone else (with lust) then you're not appreciating what you have.
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Only if you use braille...
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Of course not,looking is just looking