I love a man to be vocal. If it feels good let me know. If you want something tell me. I let you know what pleases me and when it feels good so return the favor so we can both enjoy! Its a major turn on for me!
Yes and no. I love all the grunting and the heavy breathing and groaning, it is so fucking sexy. But not too vocal. Just a dirty line here and there and maybe a long drawn out "fuck" as he cums
Quote by DazzlingLove Yes and no. I love all the grunting and the heavy breathing and groaning, it is so fucking sexy. But not too vocal. Just a dirty line here and there and maybe a long drawn out "fuck" as he cums
Yes and no. There is nothing more sensual and arousing than a man expressing himself during sex. However, saying crazy stuff that doesn't fit the mood is quite the turn off. For example, yelling out 'Fuck me bitch-slut' while in the midst of a heavy love making session doesn't cut it. That would be a turn off, an eye-roller, and a reason to fake a cum. On the other hand, 'Fuck me bitch-slut' is highly appropriate in the midst of an intense 'fuck-session'. In this case, the phrase is quite the turn on and may lead to an explosive orgasm!
Absolutely. Love dirty talk. To me, it would be awkward without it. And love hearing him moan, pant, grunt, groan, etc etc. And most definitely as he cums....I have often cum myself from the combo of both knowing he's cumming as well as hearing him cum and his enjoyment...yummy.
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it's one thing to express the lust .... but I don't like a loud partner yelling or screaming! Give me a break .... save the energy into fucking not screaming
.... I also hate porn where the gals (or guys) scream. Like really??? fucking annoying! Complete turn off!
Eh, not really. I prefer the soft moans and the occasional low "oh my", "yes", "fuck" and that sort of thing. When my ex orgasmed you could mostake it for a girl in a porno orgasming - shrieking and all. It was annoying. Maybe he was faking and thought that I would like it, who knows? It was awkward, though. Haha.
it's one thing to express the lust .... but I don't like a loud partner yelling or screaming! Give me a break .... save the energy into fucking not screaming
.... I also hate porn where the gals (or guys) scream. Like really??? fucking annoying! Complete turn off!
Totally agree. I wish they would just leave all the damn screamingg out of porn.
I love him talking to me, telling me what he's feeling and what he wants to do to me, which he does when he gets vey excited. I especially love those uncontrollable sounds that tell me where he's at. But I also love it when he swallows his sounds because he is too wrung out to express them. Loud? Rather natural.
A mixture of both. Sometimes you want people in the next county to know that you came, but other times you need to be mindful if other people are around your house or neighbors.
When he cums, I want to hear him bellow, howl, or yell. Grunting and groaning let me know that he's feeling it.
It can be a fine line between spontaneous exuberance and obnoxious bellowing. I really like to know when I'm driving a guy wild, but put some dynamics into it. I never realized how much a part vocalizing played in sex until I fucked this Korean kid who was completely quiet through the whole thing, even when he was cumming! It was a bit weird, actually!
Not really - just quietly telling me how much he is enjoying us doing what we are together. Its no different with my girlfriends, while we are enjoying the labour of love together.
I don't mind a relatively vocal orgasm and ejaculation. Screaming his head off - not for me.
I like to know he is enjoying himself because I certainly let him know when I cum, but not too loudly.
Working in the hospitality industry we do occasionally get a call asking the couple next door to tone it down a bit. So there are obviously some who enjoy letting the neighbours know.
He doesn't have to be loud but I do like moaning and naughty talk. No noise would make me think I'm not doing a good job and then my mind would start racing, I'd get distracted and not enjoy myself.
I would love my guy to make a little more noise. Some groans and moans are sexy and they help me know I'm on the right track. Yelling is a turnoff, however.