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Do you ever feel a bit harrassed or annoyed at some people on lush?
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Quote by LeFabuleuxDestin
Delete them, block them and pray that they aren't somehow obsessed with you.
I've met a guy on lush who seriously stalked me and when I told him to leave me alone, he took it as a challenge and started making new profiles, just to annoy me.
I have the same issue, I wonder if it is the same person. He comes back every day or other day with a different name. Now I won't even chat to anyone with a new profile.
Funny, I deleted and blocked someone who started as a friend but did something hurtful. They responding by blocking me, telling mutual friends to block me, calling me names in the forums, and then complaining about me to the admins when I responded.
Unfortunately, I'm one of those people that will forget 100 compliments because of 1 negative comment. So it was clusterfuck that SOURED my lush experience, even though the nicest, sweetest supporters were telling me to "furgettaboutit". lol.
Unfortunately, I'm one of those people that will forget 100 compliments because of 1 negative comment. So it was clusterfuck that SOURED my lush experience, even though the nicest, sweetest supporters were telling me to "furgettaboutit". lol.
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There was a guy about a month ago who refused to take "no" for an answer and tried to cyber with me. Eventually, I had to drop him as a friend and block him because he did not give me a moment's peace from the moment I signed on.
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Yes - the block button is so handy. There have been times when I've wondered why I come back, but there are a few lovely people who make it worthwhile.
I know what Nikki means though, I'm sure that I must be annoying to some too.
I know what Nikki means though, I'm sure that I must be annoying to some too.
Awwww poor me, just one old guy has bothered me so far, I never go on Chat, same old, same old, there are
always girls on every chat room who think they should be the only females there, all chat rooms on internet are the same
so why even bother, takes too much of my time to get huggy , huggy with any of them!!
Is site is great though, there is really a lot to do and read, I uploaded a few songs so I browse and listen to some cool tunes,xx
always girls on every chat room who think they should be the only females there, all chat rooms on internet are the same
so why even bother, takes too much of my time to get huggy , huggy with any of them!!
Is site is great though, there is really a lot to do and read, I uploaded a few songs so I browse and listen to some cool tunes,xx
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I did a few times. I came to Lush to write stories, not cyber.
I don't go in the chatrooms, because of that reason.
Some of the guys think because of the stories I write that thats their opening to be a complete douchebag.
After the first few "I want your ass" and "You make me so horny" I quit answering them.
Some of the mail I'd get were interesting, but I ignored them too.
It's the ones that would try to make you feel guilty for not answering them though that really pissed me off.
I'm not here to be manipulated or pressured into talking with someone that won't take the time to have a conversation.
Its a one way ticket to getting blocked and never being spoken to again.
I don't go in the chatrooms, because of that reason.
Some of the guys think because of the stories I write that thats their opening to be a complete douchebag.
After the first few "I want your ass" and "You make me so horny" I quit answering them.
Some of the mail I'd get were interesting, but I ignored them too.
It's the ones that would try to make you feel guilty for not answering them though that really pissed me off.
I'm not here to be manipulated or pressured into talking with someone that won't take the time to have a conversation.
Its a one way ticket to getting blocked and never being spoken to again.
Her Royal Spriteness
some days i'd think it would be eye opening to have a day during which all the women aggressively harass the guys, just to give them a little taste of what it's like. personally, i do use the chat rooms, only i use them to talk to friends, not to hook up with guys, and no matter what i (or any of the other girls) put in their bios, there is always someone pestering them to chat pvt - it's really mostly harmless, but it does get annoying at times, and omg, i hate that i have reverted to be invisible and away most of the time i am actually on line, but does anyone have any idea of what it's like to try to post in forums coherantly while getting bombarded with IMs and pokes?
and please, don't get pissy at me if i am ignoring you - YOU try to be pleasant to 9 or 10 people at once IMing you at different rates - if i lose you, or don't get right back to you like right now, just cool your jets, capiche? especially if all you have to say is "i'm bored and horny"
the worst ones are when i've been signed on for all of 2 seconds and i get like one person continuously poking me - now, if you're a good friend that i chat with all the time, that's cool, i'm pretty easy going, but if you're some guy who thinks i'm hot cause you saw the picture of Rapunzel that i use as my avatar and you read my KG stories? say hi, but don't keep poking me!
omg, so, i'm in private room last night with my Mistress, and i needed some alone time, and yeah, you guessed it, chat request from the same guy, must have been 5 or 6 in the course of less then an hour. *sighs* if i ignore the first one, damn straight i am ignoring the others!
oh, and the ones that kind of make me laugh are the messages i get asking if people can watch! if i wanted to be watched, i wouldn't make it password accessible only, believe me!
to end with a positive note, the chatroom mods are my heroes - always seem to there when you need one, and very attentive if someones bothering you - it's not an easy job, i imagine, but they do it with grace and style. thank you. all of you.
and please, don't get pissy at me if i am ignoring you - YOU try to be pleasant to 9 or 10 people at once IMing you at different rates - if i lose you, or don't get right back to you like right now, just cool your jets, capiche? especially if all you have to say is "i'm bored and horny"
the worst ones are when i've been signed on for all of 2 seconds and i get like one person continuously poking me - now, if you're a good friend that i chat with all the time, that's cool, i'm pretty easy going, but if you're some guy who thinks i'm hot cause you saw the picture of Rapunzel that i use as my avatar and you read my KG stories? say hi, but don't keep poking me!
omg, so, i'm in private room last night with my Mistress, and i needed some alone time, and yeah, you guessed it, chat request from the same guy, must have been 5 or 6 in the course of less then an hour. *sighs* if i ignore the first one, damn straight i am ignoring the others!
oh, and the ones that kind of make me laugh are the messages i get asking if people can watch! if i wanted to be watched, i wouldn't make it password accessible only, believe me!
to end with a positive note, the chatroom mods are my heroes - always seem to there when you need one, and very attentive if someones bothering you - it's not an easy job, i imagine, but they do it with grace and style. thank you. all of you.
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
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Quote by sprite
have a day during which all the women aggressively harass the guys
I vote for Dec 2nd
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oh, and the ones that kind of make me laugh are the messages i get asking if people can watch! if i wanted to be watched, i wouldn't make it password accessible only, believe me!
Oh um.. I guess I should stop sending you those messages.
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Quote by sprite
some days i'd think it would be eye opening to have a day during which all the women aggressively harass the guys, just to give them a little taste of what it's like. personally, i do use the chat rooms, only i use them to talk to friends, not to hook up with guys, and no matter what i (or any of the other girls) put in their bios, there is always someone pestering them to chat pvt - it's really mostly harmless, but it does get annoying at times, and omg, i hate that i have reverted to be invisible and away most of the time i am actually on line, but does anyone have any idea of what it's like to try to post in forums coherantly while getting bombarded with IMs and pokes?
and please, don't get pissy at me if i am ignoring you - YOU try to be pleasant to 9 or 10 people at once IMing you at different rates - if i lose you, or don't get right back to you like right now, just cool your jets, capiche? especially if all you have to say is "i'm bored and horny"
the worst ones are when i've been signed on for all of 2 seconds and i get like one person continuously poking me - now, if you're a good friend that i chat with all the time, that's cool, i'm pretty easy going, but if you're some guy who thinks i'm hot cause you saw the picture of Rapunzel that i use as my avatar and you read my KG stories? say hi, but don't keep poking me!
omg, so, i'm in private room last night with my Mistress, and i needed some alone time, and yeah, you guessed it, chat request from the same guy, must have been 5 or 6 in the course of less then an hour. *sighs* if i ignore the first one, damn straight i am ignoring the others!
oh, and the ones that kind of make me laugh are the messages i get asking if people can watch! if i wanted to be watched, i wouldn't make it password accessible only, believe me!
to end with a positive note, the chatroom mods are my heroes - always seem to there when you need one, and very attentive if someones bothering you - it's not an easy job, i imagine, but they do it with grace and style. thank you. all of you.
Im So Sorry, I Promise Ill Stop!!!! HAHA!!
Her Royal Spriteness
Quote by Callisto
Oh um.. I guess I should stop sending you those messages.
wait, wasn't it my turn to harass you this week?
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
Her Royal Spriteness
Quote by Nikki703
Im So Sorry, I Promise Ill Stop!!!! HAHA!!
not after it took me this long to get you started, Nikki!
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
Her Royal Spriteness
Quote by TheDevilsWeakness
I vote for Dec 2nd
LOL - i just put it on my calander!
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
Quote by carmen_has36
!st indication of discomfort with a member... contact Lush.
If it is innocent no harm.
If it escalates they already have been informed and are here FOR us not against us.
Use them. These administrators are very smart and helpful.
I wouldn't do this on the first indication of trouble. I'd delete/block people who are harassing me, then I'd contact Lush if there is further trouble. I'd probably confront the person if I think the other person believes there was a relationship beforehand, which is probably the case if I have to contact Lush. The way I see it, Lush has given me tools to deal with harmlessly creepy types, and I owe it to them to prove that it's beyond that.
Yes Especially by one... she kept on messaging me if i didn't reply To her immediately She would get so over dramatic and start to Message me why i wouldn't talk to her or give me guilt feelings for not talking to her when i'm busy with University or Real world stuff.
It was such an annoying 3 weeks with her But i stayed a True friend and talked to her stayed up countless nights listening to her problems tried to cheer her up almost every day all to have her Delete me tell me i wasn't a "Good Friend" Because i actually had a life outside of helping her with her drama the entire time.
It Became a main reason i keep status to invisible as she would poke me the second i came online That and to hide from most people that i dont have the strength to delete or block
But Most of the time if it's someone i dont know or Someone who Constantly sends me messages after i repeatedly told them to stop or someone who Just says "Hey want to cyber?" It's plain and simple Delete there message and block them and if It's someone who i'm friends with i'll just Keep my status to invisible and hide from them.
It was such an annoying 3 weeks with her But i stayed a True friend and talked to her stayed up countless nights listening to her problems tried to cheer her up almost every day all to have her Delete me tell me i wasn't a "Good Friend" Because i actually had a life outside of helping her with her drama the entire time.
It Became a main reason i keep status to invisible as she would poke me the second i came online That and to hide from most people that i dont have the strength to delete or block
But Most of the time if it's someone i dont know or Someone who Constantly sends me messages after i repeatedly told them to stop or someone who Just says "Hey want to cyber?" It's plain and simple Delete there message and block them and if It's someone who i'm friends with i'll just Keep my status to invisible and hide from them.
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I suspect that most men would say no, but I worry about about the intrepid ladies who brave the content on here. Some of the guys in the chat rooms are chauvinistic pigs with hard-ons, and I cringe at some of the conversation threads. Go private may be the two most used words in the chat rooms, and for the women maybe the scariest.
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hmmmmm. Should I consider it a problem that the women are constantly sending me pictures of their breasts and vaginas with messages that say stuff like, "I am so wet for you, I want to ride your face like its the Kentucky Derby!"
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hmmmmm. Should I consider it a problem that the women are constantly sending me pictures of their breasts and vaginas with messages that say stuff like, "I am so wet for you, I want to ride your face like its the Kentucky Derby!"
You poor, poor thing, Buz. You must just feel so gosh darn violated. Like a piece of man meat!!
but damn i love them and her.H0KYCabyyNWxBi4D