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Do women's orgasms change as they get older?

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Okay girls so my mom and I were talking.....well actually it was because recently I've been super horny and having massive orgasms . So anyways my mom was asking me to describe them and we got to talking about orgasms and stuff. So anyways I'm saying these are like the "biggest" a woman could ever have. My mom says "Oh Cristina wait till you hit your thirties." So I start grilling her. Anyways my mom claims when a woman gets older her orgasms become "deeper" and "more complete". She can't really describe it well, but she says I'll understand when I'm in my mid-thirties. I was just wondering if other women who've hit that period of mid-thirties "sexual peak" can confirm what my mom says.....do your orgasms get even better?
They definitely get better, longer, more intense.
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At 34, I'm about at what they claim is a woman's 'peak', and I've never had more sex than I am having now. I would say my orgasms matured to their present level around my mid-twenties, and have remained very intense, ...more often vaginal than simply clitoral. Gasping, toe-curling, all-consuming, near pass-out climaxes. I think it depends on how late a girl begins having sex. I started very young, so my peak began earlier, and thank Goddess has not diminished. If a girl doesn't start having sex till her later teens, it may take longer for her orgasms to mature into the type your mother and I apparently are experiencing.
Having been remarried after a few years of nothing (he passed away and I was looking for emotional recovery, not sex), I was not expecting to find out that with my new husband, my orgasms have been stronger and longer than ever. That might have a lot to do with how he makes love to me, but I am amazed at how my body has reacted. I am having some of the best sex I have ever had, and my body is loving it!
I believe mine have. In my early days I had to work harder at them to beat the guy who invariably came before me. I knew what a good orgasm was from masturbating or being masturbated.
I found cowgirl could guarantee me a certain orgasm, even after he has cum. To achieve an orgasm was the reason I had sex back then. Now its to share with my partner the pleasures along the way of getting to a climax. I soon found one didn't lay back and let the guy do all the work, it was my desire to climax and I found I had to work on it myself rather than wait for him to bring it on for me. I do enjoy the pleasure now of him doing it all for me, but it took a while to find the guys that can do that.
As I matured things became more regular and consistent, and I now enjoy more than one lover. Each one has his own way of getting us both to have our own pleasures. My mood can also change the intensity.
The biggest change I have noticed is oral inspired orgasms, these have certainly changed for the better overtime. The fact I live and sleep with a female partner I do experience oral sex far more than penetrative and I can multiple easily now and they are always amazing.
Masturbating, these have certainly improved as now its the pleasure of self pleasure that does it, not the desire just to masturbate and bring it on. Toys help now, I didn't use them in the beginning.
Vaginal or clitoral. Probably I achieve more clitoral than vaginal climaxes due to the oral factor. I do enjoy both. In the beginning I was happy to achieve either.
So yes...my orgasms have improved with age, not quantity, and I hope I haven't achieved the epitome of sexual please ....YET.
While the process of arousal may get harder with age (with menopause and the changing seasons of our reproductive organs), I believe that the orgasms get better as you grow older. I'm sure there are several factors that affect it.


Absolutly they get better!
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I would not say my orgasms are better than they were in my teens, 20s or 30s. Experience has taught me is to appreciate the progressive build up which precedes orgasm. A quickie certainly has its place but I prefer prolonging the experience. i don't recall having multiple orgasms when I was younger, it is something I've also learned to enjoy.
First I'd like to argue the point that 30's is where you hit your sexual peak....so not true for me! I have more sex now than ever and well, I'm not in my 30's anymore. smile

As far as changing orgasms...they definitely change, but I am not sure if they changed or if I changed. As a rule, when your younger you constantly have this idea that Oh...THIS must be the mind blowing orgasm they were talking about. Then you get older more comfortable with sex (and your partner possibly) and you have the best orgasm ever and you say OHHHH THIS is what they were talking about....then someone decides that it is important for you to have multiple mind blowing orgasms...and your head literally explodes because ladies THAT is what they were always talking about.

So, maybe it is just that we need to learn to be more at ease and attentive to our bodies at an earlier age so that we can always have mind blowing orgasms.
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For me they have definitely gotten better. They are easier to achieve, much more intense and multi - frequent!
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At 34, I'm about at what they claim is a woman's 'peak', and I've never had more sex than I am having now. I would say my orgasms matured to their present level around my mid-twenties, and have remained very intense, ...more often vaginal than simply clitoral. Gasping, toe-curling, all-consuming, near pass-out climaxes. I think it depends on how late a girl begins having sex. I started very young, so my peak began earlier, and thank Goddess has not diminished. If a girl doesn't start having sex till her later teens, it may take longer for her orgasms to mature into the type your mother and I apparently are experiencing.


I think this might be true. While I started having sex in my late teens it wasn't A LOT of sex. Married young and only had sex with my husband until 3 years ago. Then we began swinging and I got to experience sex with different partners. I can tell you that I don't remember what sex was like before we started swinging. Even sex with my husband is more intense. And I never had a vaginal orgasm until last year. Oh My!!
Hehe omg thanks for all the info ladies. So I guess I have LOTS to look forward to, right girls? Learning to relax and master the "multiple-multiple" orgasm will be my new goal.
I started very young and learned how to have orgasms alone or with a male or female partner.

At first sex just felt good, but then I started to have regular orgasms, well most of the time. By 20 I was having multiple orgasms varying from mini to the kind that made me unconscious for a bit. I think the French call them "Petit Mort"

By my 30's they were even more intense and much more consistent.

Now in my mid 40's they are even better than ever. I think part of it is I have had a lot more sex than some and I truly believe my body has learned to orgasm easily.

That is why I look forward to my 50's, because they may even be better yet.
In my teens and 20's although I didn't find it difficult to reach orgasm I didn't think of myself as particularly sexual and then in my 30's - bam!!! From nowhere my sex drive just took off, and kept on climbing! As a result I have learned so much more about my body and my orgasms, and explore my sexuality with so much more of the depth and intensity your mom describes. You have it all in front of you so relax and enjoy! smile
Yes, of course, everything changes with age, I've no doubt about that. I mean, men have real bad problems as they age, so women would will have their own problems too. moreso post menopause.
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Yes, they become so much better. I think for me, I slowed down from the rush. Enjoying the build, knowing yourself better and knowing how to appreciate edging
i'm going to agree with a majority of the posters here. as i've gotten older my orgasms have become more intense. many more vaginal ones versus clitoral. some leave me with tremors... *WOWZA*

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Better, more frequent, and more intense. Also I just turned 40 and all of the sudden I am horny ALL the time. It's crazy.
Yes - mine have definitely become 'full bodied' - like they carry an extra dose of hormones. I think I'm also quite addicted to my husband's come - after he comes inside me I can get off on the drop of a dime. And now - say in the past few years - I've been able to orgasm from anal sex.

I always imagined that my libido was fade away as I aged but it's only getting more outrageous and harder to control.
Not so far. I love some of the other answers. Sounds like I have a lot to look forward to. xxx
I hope not for mine are awesome and I orgasm so hard that it takes my breath away. To think they change is foreign to me. I can't see why they would.
Very much so in my case. When l was younger l had the throbbing pulsing ones now l still do but l also get the gushing girl cum ones. Especially when lm on top. My appetite has grown for sex too alas my husbands has waned. He happy once week. Me l want all the time. Xx
Mine last longer and intense where I don't want to stop
As I'm getting older. I discovered about 5 years ago that i can have squirting orgasms. For me personally I think fucking my first BBC makes all the difference. My husband still can't make me squirting orgasms with his cock. But now he can with his fingers & sex toys. Or watch other men fuck me & give me squirting orgasms which he likes.
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