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Do girls like to talk dirty during sex?

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luvitcdnstyle
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I love it when my partner is talking dirty to me the filthier the better. When my man comes up from behind me and whispers in my ear that I'm his naughty whore, I'm instantly wet and ready to prove to him just how naughty I am.
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I love talking dirty to my husband while we have sex!! My husband gets really turned on when I do, which in return turns mean.;)

ilikecock
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LOVE LOVE LOVE IT!
I love telling a guy exactly how he's making me feel, how much I want it and lots and lots of BEGGING. I also love it when guys dirty talk me and humiliate me, calling me a slut, cunt etc. Really gets me off, sometimes I even enjoy it more than sex!
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Is this a trick question? I LOVE dirty talk - the more the better!
ormred
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I think generally our culture discourages women from talking dirty so it is a huge barrier for many... but once that dam breaks, the flood can be awesome in its raw power... any ladies wanting to practice feel free to mail me.. lol
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just depends on my mood, but yes I have talked dirty having sex!!!!
doing my best to be good..
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I'm all about the dirty talk.
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Quote by Dancing_Doll
This really depends on your partner.

I'm a verrrry dirty talker, but I've always censored myself to varying degrees based on how the guy responded when I first started talking dirty. To me, it's not fun if I'm doing all the talking and he's basically silent. When you have the right interplay, you can really push things farther than you'd expect and there really are no limits.

I should also say that dirty talk only sounds natural when you're not "thinking" it. If you're having sex and trying to think of something dirty to say, or you want to say something but are afraid of judgement, then you're not in the right headspace to really roll with it.

I just think it comes down to really knowing your partner and what their kinks are, so I'd suggest talking about sexual fantasies and likes and dislikes...you just have to know what your partner likes and what their limits are (if they have any).


Completely agree. It only really works when both people are into it and on the same page and that requires some serious communication. I LOVE dirty talk (both talking and hearing it) and am no stranger to waving my own freak flag if/when the mood and partner calls for it BUT I'm also just as happy and comfortable with the more sensual, romantic and even, vanilla encounters with my partner. Variety is essential in any relationship not to mention that there is a time and place for everything.
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It all depends on whats happening,like if your fucking a sranger in the alley behind the bar you just met them in,,,i think that says it all,,,
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I do it during sex. I watch to much porn lol.
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Dirty talk is not as bad as some would think. It can serve as a compliment during the sexual act. Telling a guy how he makes you feel boosts his confidence. You'll never know, he might as well return the favor. Well, guys love some dirty talk. Who doesn't?
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Personally I love doing dirty talk during sex. It always gets the guy going even more. It's hot to see the person I'm doing get faster and etc because of me saying dirty stuff.
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I prefer he starts the dirty talking (since I am a lady) but will always chime in.
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It takes me a while to feel comfortable enough to do it, but once I get going, yes!
I love it and I love that he can give me the confidence to let go like that and be really dirty...
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I LOVE it. I have a harder time doing it myself, but I'm getting more vocal. But I love being called names, told what is going to be done to me, etc. Especially when I'm tied to the bed 0.o
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One of the perks of the D/s relationship is that the Dominant can "take charge" and tell the submissive what he expects her to do and that can include "dirty talk". To me, it's not about humiliation, but erotic and sensual stumuli and words can provide that as well as sounds.
Like scents, touch, taste, audio sensuality adds another "dimension" to the full package of sexuality. Those who remain silent may not be expressing their full passion and enjoyment.
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I have no problem saying things like "Fuck me - god yes, fuck me just like that . . . " "Deeper" "harder" "More" "fill me you fucking cum, baby, that's so fucking sexy" "you love my pussy on your cock as I cum?"
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No problems at all.
Writing all of that, though - is a different story. LOL

And getting my husband to open his mouth and talk other than "Oh, that's so good, baby" is hard work - but I'm a hard working girl, I always get what I want ;) Even if i have to prompt him and then deny him a deep suck to get him to say something more.

But again - writing a female in any such dominant role is uncomfortable to me. lol
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The fun ones do. And if you're giving them a great time they'll yell til the walls vibrate and plaster falls from the ceiling. If y'all hadn't broken a bed or two then you haven't really fucked yet.

You know you've had a good time when its all over and you're both laid back on the bed looking at the ceiling, smoking cigars and drinking bourbon, and she asks, "How did my panties end up hanging from the ceiling fan?"
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I look innocent, but my mouth during sex tells a different story...love dirty talk!!! The dirtier...the better...
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Yes, I know babe!
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Quote by Buz
The fun ones do. And if you're giving them a great time they'll yell til the walls vibrate and plaster falls from the ceiling. If y'all hadn't broken a bed or two then you haven't really fucked yet.

You know you've had a good time when its all over and you're both laid back on the bed looking at the ceiling, smoking cigars and drinking bourbon, and she asks, "How did my panties end up hanging from the ceiling fan?"


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This!

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Quote by Buz
The fun ones do. And if you're giving them a great time they'll yell til the walls vibrate and plaster falls from the ceiling. If y'all hadn't broken a bed or two then you haven't really fucked yet.

You know you've had a good time when its all over and you're both laid back on the bed looking at the ceiling, smoking cigars and drinking bourbon, and she asks, "How did my panties end up hanging from the ceiling fan?"


LOL - why thank you biggrin
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They have to talk dirty or no enjoyment
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I guess my favorite is to talk dirty to my husband, describing in great and intricate detail everything that I have just done with my date for the night, when I come back home to him. It drives him crazy, and he fucks me like a stallion for hours.
"When its too kinky for everybody else, its just gettin' good for me."
(Kinky Freedman)
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Quote by Buz
The fun ones do. And if you're giving them a great time they'll yell til the walls vibrate and plaster falls from the ceiling. If y'all hadn't broken a bed or two then you haven't really fucked yet.

You know you've had a good time when its all over and you're both laid back on the bed looking at the ceiling, smoking cigars and drinking bourbon, and she asks, "How did my panties end up hanging from the ceiling fan?"


Lol, I really can't add to this. Buz said it all.
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Aww well it depends on where we are and if he participates.
Sex is emotion in motion.
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oh yeah. love some dirty talk
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oh fuck yeahsmile