I agree with you gypsy, but I also agree with Lady X… I want a man that will be able to take care of me and provide for me – this doesn’t mean that I will be lazy and do nothing. I can take care of myself, I pay my own bills, what I have is because I’ve worked for it; yet I still want to feel secure.
If I’m with a man it doesn’t matter what he does as long as he takes care of me and my son, I’m a package deal…
These days the power shift for the main financial earner can go both ways.
Both partners need to be financially capable on their own. But that does mean that incomes/jobs matter (for both sexes). I don't want to be supporting a guy (and I have before).
I know what I'm 'bringing to the table' so to speak, and I need someone who can at least stand as an equal to me. Because of this, what he does for a living will definitely factor into my consideration of being with him for the long term.
I don't care what he does as long as it's legal. BUT he has to be able to help me with the bills and fun nights out whatever.... a relationship is 50/50 and it should be like financially too.
I don't mind what a partner does work wise. I agree with Monroe I have a thing for tanned outdoor men who work up a sweat and get a tan at the same time mmmmmmm I have also got a thing for when a man is really tanned and his head is shaved quite short mmmmmmm sexy!
The 22% of votes who do mind what job their partner does don't seem to be speaking up hmmmmmm come on speak up tell why you do mind what your partner does work wise.
After reading all the whoo ha thats already going on here. I have to say, yes I do care.
I dont want to be with a man in a dead end career and every night thats all he talks about...
I dont want to be with a man that earns FAR less than me and he is jealous about it...
I dont want to be with a man that dosnt have a job and dosnt have any ambition to get one either...
I dont want to be with a man that earns millions and thats all I hear about... my money this and my money that...
So basically, I want a guy that is happy with his job, has a good career ahead of them and he wont complain or brag about it the whole time we are together. I understand if he is unemployed due to economy situations but I need to see some ambition in him to will want to find another job.
So, lets say you meet a guy and you totally hit it off. He's attractive, funny...everything you look for in a man. Then you ask him what he does for a living...and he tells you he works at McDonalds. Now, you may still choose to be with the guy, but can any of you honestly say that you wouldn't be a tad disapointed?
Now some women want a guy with money, some want a guy with ambition, and some may prefer a starving artist. But to say that it absolutely doesn't matter? Nah, I don't buy it. You may deal with it, but if you had your way, you probably would not want your husband to work at a fast food restaurant.
DamonX,
I think that you should stop asking the gals what they think and be honest and just tell us your views! Because in my honest opinion, this is all it seems.
No matter what we say, you always come back with a rebuttal. There is no discussion and no debating. You are right, and we are wrong. Not just in this post, but all of your others.
Are these questions just a way to make women look bad? Based on your selected questions, if we say yes, then we come across as superficial and if we say no, then we are liars.
Now, I am going to say NO, and I mean NO and don't come back with but, but, but! You asked, I answered, Just accept it!
Thanks Rocco! Looks like we've come to the end of another thread! Wow! What a ride!
Not specifically but he must be ambitious and be making a living at whatever he does.
Bunny12
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Bunny Rabbits cute and fuzzy they want to love you but they have razor sharp teeth - don't piss them off! And if he acts on soaps, thats cool, but I want to know all the gossip!! lol